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Plus Size Personals - find love online

Updated on April 14, 2013

Find Love and Romance Online

Plus Size Dating for love and marriage
Plus Size Dating for love and marriage

Plus Size Dating Tips

Are you a big beautiful woman (BBW) or big handsome man (BHM) looking for love and romance online? Then these dating tips will dramatically increase your chances of a finding the partner of your dreams even if you have tried online dating before and decided it wasn't for you.

So let's get started!!

Plus Size Dating Tip #1

Maybe you've tried online dating before but didn't find your soul mate and faced with the prospect of well meaning friends playing match maker you're ready to try again. So what is the single most important thing you can do to increase your chances of finding "the one" online??

You MUST choose the right dating site in the first place!!

Sounds so simple it's obvious right?

Think about it though, you won't find what you're looking for unless you know where to find it!

Faced with hundreds of thousands of dating sites already on the 'net with more springing up every day all telling you they are the best the sheer volume of choice can be confusing so you have to know what you are looking for. As a bbw or bhm you need to identify size positive singles sites. If you want a serious committed loving relationship leading to marriage make sure you only consider signing up to romantically inclined dating sites as opposed to adult personals sites which are for people interested in casual sexual relationships.

If other aspects of your life will influence your choice of a prospective mate then don't be afraid to investigate those too so for example if you're faith is particularly important to you check out dating sites that match your religious persuasion. Maybe you are a single parent looking for love so why not look at online dating sites that specifically cater for single mums and dads?

Plus Size Dating Tip #2

Right so you've surfed the 'net and found the dating site that you think is tailor made just for you but is it as good as it seems?

Before signing up for anything have a good look around the site. Most genuine online dating sites will allow you to sign up as a member for free enabling you to browse other member's dating profiles. Search for local members and see how many profiles are listed and when those members were last active.

A dating site can look the most impressive on the net but if it has no members locally or the profiles are old your chances of meeting anyone are slim. It's the online equivalent of walking in to an empty bar on "Singles Night"!

The more members a site has looking for someone just like you the greater the chance you have of meeting Mr or Ms Right. When it comes to online dating sites bigger is generally better!

Plus Size Dating Tip #3

Once you've found a plus size dating site with plenty of active members it's time to maximise the chances of them all wanting to get to know you. Your profile is your chance to shine and let the world know how truly unique you really are.

Uploading a recent photo of yourself with your profile sky rockets your chances of making a match to 90% so make sure you always add a photo to your profile.

Research has shown 67% of men and 86% of women find a person that smiles a lot with a bubbly personality is a BIG turn on so make sure you are smiling in the profile pic.

Be honest about who you are and what you are looking for but avoid emotive subjects like past relationships, dieting, politics and marriage. You want to come across as a desirable person not opinionated and desperate.

Plus Size Dating Tip #4

No matter what remember this is supposed to be fun! Don't put any pressure on yourself that you have to meet somebody within a set time period. 60% of online daters have formed at least one long-term friendship so if you don't meet Mr or Ms Right straight away you will in all probability make some great new friends anyway.

Finally I truly hope these dating tips help you find the "one" because I believe your soulmate is out there waiting and online dating massively increases your chances of finding them. Good Luck! And if you meet your soul mate after following these tips please leave a comment and let me know.

And don't forgot when you do find "the one" and you have your big day to prepare for to check out my Plus Size Wedding gowns hub!

All you need is love!!


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