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Love is Gone, But Not Forever

Updated on August 12, 2013

Everything happens for a Reason. Be happy in what God has chosen as your fate, he knows why he did it! You will understand one day!

This is a true story. Obligations that had to be met, caused him to leave for a while. They pledged their love and would continue their life together on his return. Her attitude began to change, a few months later, she began to have secrets and did not want to talk about it. There was someone else, she had no shame! This young man was torn by unexpected lies and deceits of his wife of less than a year. He gave her everything and expensive gifts. She had no love or heart for him...she coldly informed him it was over, nothing else to be said, no discussion, period! It was really over... just like that! Truly saddened by her cruelty, he realized she never really loved or cared for him, as he did for her. He should have known, he was too blind to see past reality. She was not capable of good intentions. Indeed, one of life's greatest insults. This was a hard lesson in life and love to withstand, but life goes on...

  • Better days are ahead, always keep your head up because you might miss something... LIFE!
  • Love is work in progress, it must always be maintained and fine tuned.
  • What worries you now, may cause you to laugh tommorow!

This in my view of this young man's current situation. I asked for his approval on including it in this hub. He said it was fine with him, as it described his situation perfectly. It made him smile and laugh. He was surprised I could write something like this. He is now planning for a better future, knowing now what he has learned, and making better choices. This young man is very special to me. I know he deserves much better than will happen one day.

Love is gone, but not forever...

Out of the light, but I still glow;
Not to be seen, only heard.

Who's to listen?
Only those true...while others are hissin'

Finding out things I'd never know;
Now I"m here, they began to show.

Who's to care?
Only those true...the rest be aware.

Life's surprises caught up to me,
making me realize you wanted to be free.

It was all about you...nothing for me.
further from the truth, you could not be.

Now it's clear for the whole world to know; (facebook)
You never're still nothing but a 'h_ _.

You're not the first...or the last.
My future is waiting, to hell with the past.

As I stand here waiting, caged like a bird;
I've never been free'r...THAT'S MY FINAL WORD!.

(...finding the me, nobody knows...)

I hope for the best in life, and love, for anyone who finds themselves in this type of situation. Remember, any love relationship that has not worked out, should not hold you back from searching for the right one. Everyone is not the same. This is a learning experience, keep in mind what worked and what did not, use that towards your favor. Always be understanding, humorous, and patient... as time has a way of bringing out the answers we are looking for.

Where there is hope...there is a future...

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Has this ever happened to you?

  • Have you found yourself in a similar relationship, like the one described above?
  • How did you cope with it...are you still with that person or was it a final break-up?
  • Are you still trying to get over it...or already over it?
  • Did you decide to look at a different type of person this time?
  • Have you found someone else?
  • Did you decide you are better off alone?

Whatever the situation may be for you, remember all relationships are different because every person is different. There is no tellling how it will turn out until you give it a try. It is not easy sometimes, but if the annoying differences can be worked out, there is a good chance of being happy together for a long time. We are not perfect, but we can certainly do our best in any relationship by treating others fairly and with dignity.

Thank you for taking the time in reading this hub; and may all your relationships be awesome!


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      lupine 4 years ago from Southern California (USA)

      Harishprasad, love your observations and conclusions of my writing of this poem. Thank you. This actually happened to someone very close to me, and I just had to write about it. The words just came out...

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      Harish Mamgain 4 years ago from New Delhi , India

      Lupine, this poem is very positive and ignites hope in despair and light in darkness. Yes, if we are strong ,nobody can ever extinguish the fire of life raging in our hearts. Lupine, you have penned a beautiful poem.

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      Benjamin Chege 4 years ago

      Happy to meet you as well. I enjoyed your hub. You're welcome.

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      lupine 4 years ago from Southern California (USA)

      Thanks Benjamin. I really appreciate you reading my hub and commenting. This was a learning experience for sure! Maybe one day I will write a part 2 on this. Thanks for the follow, I will do the same. Happy to meet you, here on HubPages.

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      Benjamin Chege 4 years ago

      Awesome hub lupine. The first step one should take when a relationship/marriage goes sour is accepting your situation. If it is not your fault, there is nothing you can do. The best thing is normally to continue searching for the right person and leaving the dark past behind.

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      lupine 4 years ago from Southern California (USA)

      Thank you so much, HazelAngeli for you concern and kind thoughts. Yes, this may be for the best in the long run.

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      Rosette Fagel 4 years ago from Philippines

      Imagine all the anguish these people may have experienced during this time. It was a very unhappy ending but maybe it will work for the better.

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      lupine 4 years ago from Southern California (USA)

      Thanks! I'm happy it didn't happen to you and never does. I do know the people this happened to. It is a great insult in a relationship and love.

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      Rosette Fagel 4 years ago from Philippines

      Great hub. I am happy this did not happen to me at all.