Love is Gone, But Not Forever

This is a true story. Obligations that had to be met, caused him to leave for a while. They pledged their love and would continue their life together on his return. Her attitude began to change, a few months later, she began to have secrets and did not want to talk about it. There was someone else, she had no shame! This young man was torn by unexpected lies and deceits of his wife of less than a year. He gave her everything and expensive gifts. She had no love or heart for him...she coldly informed him it was over, nothing else to be said, no discussion, period! It was really over... just like that! Truly saddened by her cruelty, he realized she never really loved or cared for him, as he did for her. He should have known, he was too blind to see past reality. She was not capable of good intentions. Indeed, one of life's greatest insults. This was a hard lesson in life and love to withstand, but life goes on...

• Better days are ahead, always keep your head up because you might miss something... LIFE!
• Love is work in progress, it must always be maintained and fine tuned.
• What worries you now, may cause you to laugh tommorow!

This in my view of this young man's current situation. I asked for his approval on including it in this hub. He said it was fine with him, as it described his situation perfectly. It made him smile and laugh. He was surprised I could write something like this. He is now planning for a better future, knowing now what he has learned, and making better choices. This young man is very special to me. I know he deserves much better than this...it will happen one day.

Love is gone, but not forever...

Out of the light, but I still glow;
Not to be seen, only heard.

Who's to listen?
Only those true...while others are hissin'

Finding out things I'd never know;
Now I"m here, they began to show.

Who's to care?
Only those true...the rest be aware.

Life's surprises caught up to me,
making me realize you wanted to be free.

It was all about you...nothing for me.
further from the truth, you could not be.

Now it's clear for the whole world to know; (facebook)
You never changed...you're still nothing but a 'h_ _.

You're not the first...or the last.
My future is waiting, to hell with the past.

As I stand here waiting, caged like a bird;
I've never been free'r...THAT'S MY FINAL WORD!.

(...finding the me, nobody knows...)

I hope for the best in life, and love, for anyone who finds themselves in this type of situation. Remember, any love relationship that has not worked out, should not hold you back from searching for the right one. Everyone is not the same. This is a learning experience, keep in mind what worked and what did not, use that towards your favor. Always be understanding, humorous, and patient... as time has a way of bringing out the answers we are looking for.

Where there is hope...there is a future...

• Have you found yourself in a similar relationship, like the one described above?
• How did you cope with it...are you still with that person or was it a final break-up?
• Are you still trying to get over it...or already over it?
• Did you decide to look at a different type of person this time?
• Have you found someone else?
• Did you decide you are better off alone?

Whatever the situation may be for you, remember all relationships are different because every person is different. There is no tellling how it will turn out until you give it a try. It is not easy sometimes, but if the annoying differences can be worked out, there is a good chance of being happy together for a long time. We are not perfect, but we can certainly do our best in any relationship by treating others fairly and with dignity.

Thank you for taking the time in reading this hub; and may all your relationships be awesome!