ArtsAutosBooksBusinessEducationEntertainmentFamilyFashionFoodGamesGenderHealthHolidaysHomeHubPagesPersonal FinancePetsPoliticsReligionSportsTechnologyTravel
  • »
  • Gender and Relationships»
  • Relationship Problems & Advice

Warning, the Routine kills LOVE

Updated on May 16, 2015

ROUTINE

It is true, routine kills love, life becomes so predictable that instead of feeding the passion and love we became roommates sharing just obligations and the kids, we focus in work and problems and forget about the beloved. Sometimes we feel that it is impossible to get out of this vicious circle, in which the future is just a series of steps to follow, you can not delete any because everything became chaotic.

This is the worst mistake you can make, you wonder why, just as children grow they will leave the nest, the obligations do not disappear but they are changing according to every stage of the family life, the work and money are very treacherous and clinging at the end if you don't take care of your partner you will be alone, we all have problems but remember 2 heads think better than one, and true love will bring happiness, companionship, passion and new goals to accomplish and of course it will make you grow in every aspect of your life.

So do not fall into the high percentage of marriages that ended in a divorce, or in relationships that split, not knowing that the routine is your worst enemy, we are all tired but you can make the difference in your life, a detail, a phrase, an invitation can relive that complicity so intimate that only the couple shares. Believe me when you start to create a romantic challenge with your partner everything starts to work with it, like creativity or time you will notice that they are going to be easier to find with the pass of the time.

If your spouse is blind and not see what is going on with you, you better talk to him or her, you must express what you feel, do not offend because they will become defensive and not understand that the point is not to attack each other but to save the relationship, give him or her confidence to take the other side, together you can save your love and again have a healthy relationship.

No one better than you know your partner, so try to fix your relationship, if you feel that you care for the other person, and that you need his or her love to be happy, don´t let routine to be in your way, you are the only one who can control, built or change your future, so don´t be afraid to love and live enjoying life.


Tips to Avoid the Routine

CREATIVITY:
Do not do everything the same way, for example every day you can reinvent the way to say I love you, or showing a text message, a hidden note or a secret rendezvous.

SINCERITY:
Do not be afraid to show what you feel or express what you think it is important that your partner knows our feelings and you consider his or hers.
Many times we find that we assume that the other knows what we feel, think or want and that's the biggest mistake, because communication is the key to a stable relationship in the long term.

COMMITMENT:
They say a lasting relationship is like a priceless treasure, current relationships tend to fail because it is easier to give up and try to fight that features things, if you believe in you as a couple is important to understand that both must put aside for this to work , yielding sometimes or negotiating for both sides are satisfied.

TIME:
Modern life makes we are filled with activities and decide to do things the easiest way to save time and money, however you have to find the time alone with your partner if you want to keep the flame of passion.

You can transform every week in a new adventure, different dates that challenges each other and help you to reinvent your story.

LOVE & PASSION:

Do not forget that love and passion are the elements of a healthy relationship, you need both of them to become a happy couple.
So it is time to share fantasies and dreams in the bedroom, you will notice that you will be closer to your partner and the communication will improve in the relationship. Also remember that sex improve your health, reduce the stress and helps you to keep you young.

Your Opinion

WHAT DO YOU THINK "ROUTINE KILLS LOVE"?

See results

Comments

    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment

    No comments yet.

    working

    This website uses cookies

    As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, hubpages.com uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

    For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at: "https://hubpages.com/privacy-policy#gdpr"

    Show Details
    Necessary
    HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
    LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
    Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
    AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
    Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
    CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the googleapis.com or gstatic.com domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
    Features
    Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
    Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
    Marketing
    Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
    Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
    Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
    Statistics
    Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
    ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)