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Remembering Your First Moments Together in Marriages/Relationships

Updated on April 3, 2018
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Devika enjoys sharing her work with a friendly community. Writing is a big part of her life. Online work has improved her lifestyle.


Remember when you first said ''I Love you!''

Time flies by, and you wonder what happened, and what have you accomplished in those passed years.

His touch, caressing your soft body, and his hands over your body.

The happy moments being together as in the past feel as if it never happened before.

Special moments are shared and that allows for connected marriage.

Everything changed when life changed and that tore her apart. Her smiles show happiness, but deep down the missing links are destroying the faith she has in love.

No man can fulfill her needs except for the one and only man she is married to, and is in love with but he don't see that.

She falls asleep remembers when it will be the same, or when something will happen again between her husband and herself.

Thoughts flood her mind and tears roll down her cheeks after remembering the past so well.

Nothing will be the same in her life again the attention she gives to her man doesn't get his attention as she expects it to.

Romance is dead and the marriage lives on in the traditional arrangement.

It is as if she has to stop living her life because he ignores her needs.

Her needs are on hold because he doesn't share her interests, and he is just selfish to let her know he sees their problem.

Taken for granted is the problem with this marriage.

She is affected by the problem and he expects her to accept their marriage as is.

· How to keep both partners content and satisfied, also happy with each other?

You must make this part of your daily routine and life, and tell them you love them, always.

Make each other's life feel good and alive.

Show affection and avoid the cold shoulder.

I learned that the littlest touch can show affection toward your significant other.

· When you use an interesting word as romance what comes to mind?

Off-course your thoughts runs away with your actions in mind.

Couples tend to go over board, or don't do much at all to impress each other in their romantic moments.

· What do you think of to get your partner close to you?

Candlelight dinners

Special moments together that won't end.

You lose your mind and ideas together in the moment.

A walk in the park hand-in-hand can make you feel most romantic.

The act of wooing her and wooing him is a subtle idea.

Listening to Enrique Iglesias to keep the night, day or evening at bay.

The special looks into each other's eyes.

Romance is often easier to express before marriage and this is how most couples experience their good moments.

They have free time and no kids to steal their time away from each other.

The pressure of money issues and boring routines are not in a juggle.

Most couples grow apart because their time for each other is a distant away.

You can still steal the moment for romantic moments if you make that time an important part of your life.

Share conversations and be calm with each other.

You understand your partner better when you on are on the same page.

It is most difficult to understand your partner when both of you are on different levels.

Everything is different when you are not in the same age group.

Your interests are not the same when you have a much older partner in your life. It is not always the same for you.

You can be living under the same roof and your partner will ignore you physically, mentally. emotionally, and spiritually.

It is boring to have to go through life in that way.

Doing your own chores daily and having to focus on just what you do for the other partner is a drainer.

You feel miles apart from each other and yet you are living in the same house. Sleep a mile away from the other partner and don't look at your partner as you have in the past.

You can't deny yourself of what matters to you.

This can cause you to feel disconnected from one another.

It is not often possible to sit and have a talk with your partner about your relationship or marriage.

Most couples won't feel that intimacy is important to a marriage.

It is an indicator to your marriage. The moment partners lack their needs for each other one of you will end up cheating on the other.

Cheating is bound to happen so don't take your marriage for granted or your partner.

You need to remember that day you had your first kiss together.

Your first smile and touch from each other.

The kiss on the neck.

The hand-in-hand conversations.

The first time you realized you were meant to be together.

The first date.

The first approach.

Those favorite moments when you cuddled up next to one other.

The first time you fell asleep on your partner's chest.

The first time you met and smiled from across the room.

The moment your eyes met and locked.

The first adventures together,

The first chocolate bought for you.

You were not sure about your first kiss.

The first time you spent alone.

The first time for everything you did together are great memories.

· Do you remember your first time together?

Was it meaningful to you?

The regular conversations about those special moments bring back the good times you have had.

The funny stories from the past in your marriage make you laugh again.

Share moments from the photo album to be alive again in your marriage.

Recalling old memories are special moments indeed.

The moments you reminisce allows for encouraging and uplifting feedback.

· Did you share your favorite part of your past together?

· Did you learn something about each other that you had no idea of from before?

The good moments remembered in a marriage brings back those feelings again.

· How or why did you fall in love?

What you have with your partner is rare and special.

· Do you feel that way?

· How often do you think of your partner in a day?

· How often do you share happy conversations together?

You feel emotionally disconnected in your marriage when your partner no longer sees you as when you first met.

The time together is taken for granted and one of the partners or both partners don't want to be together anymore.

It is sad for couples to walk away from each other in such times.

· A sign you just there and for what reasons?

· How long could you go on with such behaviors?

Separation is different to living in different lifestyles.

To live in a different culture, and accept that way of life together is different to living separately under the same roof.

Sometimes communication is not all you need to keep your partner with you.

Lots has changed in relationships and marriages one has to see everything from all sides.

You can try to recall your good memories and the not so good memories of you together.

The most important is being together through all times.

You can survive your time together with great mentions of your years together.

The hard times ought to show you how much you mean to each other.

Love doesn't solve everything in your relationship. What you do for each other counts for more than the words itself.

Remember Love and Romance

Romantic moments in your marriage

Love and marriage

How or why did you fall in love?

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© 2016 Devika Primić


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    • DDE profile imageAUTHOR

      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      vespawoolf thank you and it is true about your partner taking you for granted everything else is forgotten in a relationship.

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      2 years ago from Peru, South America

      I learn something new every time I look over this article! These are great reminders to enliven our marriages/relationships. It's important not to take each other for granted.

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi vespawoolf thank you for commenting and you are right!

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      2 years ago from Peru, South America

      I agree that it's important to keep the romance alive in our marriages! These are great reminders so we can do just that. Thank you for this well-written article.

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      fpherj48 thank you very much for commenting. I enjoy reading comments it makes me feel good to know readers show interest in my work.

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Paul Kuehn You are so right! I appreciate you sharing this hub definitely more need to read this one. I appreciate you stopping by.

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      2 years ago from Beautiful Upstate New York

      Devika, This is a lovely work of art. I have a habit of signing a Wedding card with a note to the new bride & groom: "The secret to a long & loving marriage is to hold tightly through the years to the Love & Closeness you feel today as you say your vows to one another."

      Very nice, Devika. An important reminder.

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      Paul Richard Kuehn 

      2 years ago from Udorn City, Thailand

      I enjoyed reading this hub very much and agree that a husband and wife must not take each other for granted. Both partners must be responsive to emotional and physical needs no matter what the age is of couples. I certainly remember the first moments together, and had the feeling that it was so great to be alive again. Thanks for sharing. I am sharing this hub with HP followers.

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      swalia thank you very much for sharing your comment here always appreciated.

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      Shaloo Walia 

      2 years ago from India

      A gentle reminder to all those who have forgotten the excitement of the early days of relationship!

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi Mel Carriere thank you very much for commenting.

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      Nithya Venkat 

      2 years ago from Dubai

      A wonderful hub and a great reminder of precious moments that we can never forget in our lives. These moments make the bond stronger and last longer.

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      Mel Carriere 

      2 years ago from San Diego California

      It's hard to say at what point the intimacy breaks down, who is to blame if anybody, and how to get it back. Marriage is a bumpy road, and I don't think mere years are an accurate measurement of its success. Great hub!

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi AliciaC so nice to read another comment from you. Thank you very much for making your rounds at my hubs.

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      Linda Crampton 

      2 years ago from British Columbia, Canada

      Successful relationships can certainly be hard work! You've shared some useful information about problems in a marriage or relationship and about some ways to deal with these problems.

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi denise.w.anderson, I agree with you and you are so right! Thank you.

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      Denise W Anderson 

      2 years ago from Bismarck, North Dakota

      Marriage is definitely work! The love doesn't just come automatically, especially after children enter the picture. You are right in that remembering how we first came together can help to rekindle that romance once again. The subtle touches, the soft music, the scented candles, all can help to create that romantic atmosphere where love can blossom and grow. When we look for what makes our partner happy, we will find happiness in the love that we create.

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi MsDora thank you very much for commenting I appreciate all comments.

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      Dora Weithers 

      2 years ago from The Caribbean

      Very good thoughts, as usual, Devika. You remind us how special those first times are.

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Sukhneet thank you for commenting.

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      emge Thank you kindly for stopping by.You are right about moments turning sour!

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      always exploring Thank you very much for commenting.

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Harishprasad Thank you kindly for sharing your comment. Yes! For the Guys indeed!

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      shprd74 Thank you for commenting. An important topic for many to remember.

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      Devika Primić 

      2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      billybuc thank you for sharing that.

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      2 years ago from Abu Dhabi

      What a lovely hub. First memories are good but they turn sour later on.

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      Eric Dierker 

      2 years ago from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A.

      Wonderful reminder for us to stay in "touch" with each other.

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      Ruby Jean Richert 

      2 years ago from Southern Illinois

      I think everyone remembers their first love. Mine was in high school. He moved out of state with his parents. We both went our separate ways, but I still think about him today. Great topic DDE!!!!

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      Harish Mamgain 

      2 years ago from New Delhi , India

      How can one forget those moments after living together for so long ? I think, a naughty tinge of that flavor should dwell in our heart forever to enliven us. Great stuff for guys.

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      Hari Prasad S 

      2 years ago from Bangalore

      Wonderful. Such comprehensive article on a very importamt but neglected subject by couples, is rare.

      Very useful to all couples. Kudos devika.

      - hari

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      Sukhneet Kaur Bhatti 

      2 years ago from India

      Wow, you made me remind my old days. Thank you for this wonderful write-up :)

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      Bill Holland 

      2 years ago from Olympia, WA

      Wonderful reminder. My wife and I were doing exactly that the last few days.


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