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The 'thing' that men want from women!

Updated on June 20, 2013

Just, what do men want from women? Sex. Frankly speaking, this is what they want. On the general level, this is the first thing a man wants when looking at a woman, it is the sexual drive that comes into action.

There is an instant “gut reaction that is so base that men subconsciously think of one thing, the brain hormones zoom, basic primitive instincts sharpen. the adrenalin starts racing up and down to attempt to satisfy that human craving.

I actually never thought of it that way, this is not just me talking about women or pontificating about what men think about women. I asked the question to a few well-experienced women, and the first thing that was blurted out is that “oh, yes men, purely and simply want sex from women, this is how they think, the mouths start salivating and drooling of sheer expectancies.”

I was actually taken aback by the straightforwardness of this answer. I had originally tried to couch the question, with parenthesis about love, emotions and gentleness, and had expected a “basket of things” where sex is just one of the elements.

I thought men would want sex but they’d be looking for beauty, tidiness, looks, the inevitable cooking, and once married to be a good mother, take care of home and institute a good house-keeping regime amongst many other things.

I thought, it is the “basket of things” that really does matter for men where the sex comes within this paradigm and it improves, becomes great, as the holder expands, matures and ripens.

Apparently not so and is completely off the track. The women I talked to said that men go for the bottom line, they have just one track mind, they just want one thing and one thing only: Sex and its torrid steamy details and interlocking passions. Nothing else really matters.

But this is really depressing. To reduce the complexity of life to sex is quite phenomenal and simplistic. Still Freud thought so.


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    • Gypsy Rose Lee profile image

      Gypsy Rose Lee 4 years ago from Riga, Latvia

      I'm still an optimist. I don't like to think it's all men but those who are unattached, unmarried, still have a lot of miles to go before settling down yes, I do suppose they want to have sex. Not love along with sex but just sex and move on along down the line.

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      Marwan Asmar 4 years ago from Amman, Jordan

      Thank you Debbie. Sad but this is what it boils down to

    • Deborah Brooks profile image

      Deborah Brooks Langford 4 years ago from Brownsville,TX

      Well you said it all.. I have to be honest that is how i view men too. Sometimes that is a good thing and sometimes it is a bad thing.. lol.. and of course if Freud thinks.. well....

      very interesting hub.. fascinating read.