Should you Reconnect with Lost Loves
Would you go to Great lengths to Rekindle Lost Loves?
Most couples reunite years later after divorced or widowed and take off from where they left.
· They find each again and don't have to think about the ''what ifs''
After many years of thinking about ''what if'' they finally get together and rekindle lost love.
· An example of rekindling with lost love:
A guy in his twenties dated many times and each time he found someone they managed to form a relationship. After a year they would break up.
It was his or her fault.
During this time he met a woman and fell in love with her they were inseparable until their romantic relationship took a bad turn.
They had to separate and did not see each other again.
He formed a relationship with someone he met at a nightclub they were good together but one problem was on his mind.
He could not move on freely without thinking of ''what if.''
· An Example:
The relationship with his new partner was fine. They married and had two kids and tried to make their marriage work.
The background of each partner being so unstable in relationships they both wanted their relationship to workout.
A few years into their marriage he caught his wife in the act cheating on him.
Things unraveled itself in this marriage.
He wanted to be with his wife but was not as happy as he would have been with his lost love.
He divorced his wife and remained single for a while.
Life for him was more exciting in his previous relationship with his lost love.
The ex girlfriend (lost love) had also, been divorced for a while.
They met one day while in the local store and it was a great moment for both. After a brief conversation they exchanged telephone numbers and from then on they were connected.
Both partners have kids from previous marriages and are all fine with that part of their relationship. Their love for each other was more meaningful and would last a lifetime.
He did not give up on love but gave up on a less meaningful relationship.
Love has no boundaries and no time. Love can happen at any time or place.
The lost love rekindled with more emotions and less differences.
They had to get to know each other all over again but that did not matter their lifetime together.
When people get older their second chances grow even more.
The results are more satisfying and their lives become richer and warmer.
The memories don’t just disappear it is what holds the actual past of any individual. Sometimes you feel the need to make peace while aging.
Though can be a possibility for many couples.
When you and your lost love are married to other partners it does make a difference and the relationship can be kept on a platonic level if you let it be.
Modern technology has made many lives easy to find their long lost loves.
If you choose to go in that direction watches out for those old feelings coming back it could be a problem on your hands.
A simple email to a lost love can ruin a good marriage and that is exactly what is happening in this modern day.
One can become obsessive about their lost love and try to stay in contact with the other person. Once the contact is made all issues can start all over with the good marriage.
You can't go back and resolve the ''what ifs.'' Think about what you have that should be an important part of your life and not the past.
Your choice has been made and you can't undo it. If you have something good keep it.
· Many good marriages crumble because of lost loves.
Addictions such as, drinking, drugs, gambling or some of other riskier behaviors.
They tend to perform this way even after marriage.
Their past keeps them from going forward.
The thought of getting back together with a lost love comes to mind and that can make them fall into their old habits.
What they crave for has to be and that becomes their final decision.
An emotional affair can take place very quickly if you lose control of your feelings.
· For example:
If you had a vivid dream of your lost love you get up and think about that person and would want to take action. You want to make something happen because your dream has clouded your mind.
You can't blame your dreams for your wrong actions.
· Sometimes lost loves are just curious and want to know more about the ''what ifs.''
All old feelings won't die out you can't close off those feelings. Two people who were committed to each other this can be from a romantic relationship to a marriage.
It is bound to come up in conversations. The person can't get rid of their old flames.
You have to be educated to understand these feelings of a lost a love. It is easy to misunderstand the whole aspect and turn frustrated and become unhappy.
It can be easily misunderstood when contacted by the lost love. Be clear from the start and don't take anything seriously. Be innocent and be straight about the contact.
Your current partner must know from the beginning then there would be no complications or secrets to hide.
· A lost love relationship is rarely successful.
Avoid thinking it will work out. Face up to reality.
You are no longer that vulnerable teenager. Going back and make it all right again is not an option.
· Do you think a lost love brings benefits to a current relationship?
Unfortunately, it brings no benefits to the current relationship. Here the person is not focused on the current relationship instead trying to bring back the past.
An individual recently made the mistake of re-connecting with someone they had dated over thirty years ago. At that time of contacting the lost love the person was in a vulnerable state.
A happily married person for thirty years and is a successful individual.
It was a stupid choice to make and to rekindle with a lost love is ridiculous unless both are not committed to other relationships.
Don't go there it would ruin all you have worked for most of your life.
People make mistakes and sometimes it is good to think about what you are going to do logically before even getting into it.
· An example:
A man divorced his wife over twenty years ago and refuses to stay Friends with her.
They have two children who are now in their forties.
· Do you think this man should be friends with his ex-wife?
· Would there be old sparks if they just stayed friends?
· Does a part of this man still love her even though he is happily remarried?
It is a betrayal to other partners if one chooses to contact their lost love.
· Would you like the chance to relive your adolescent life with your lost love?
Remember lost loves are no longer teens or children anymore. They are grown into adults with different lives and needs.
A simple and pure love might be it is your choice how you want to live the rest of your life.
Her husband has been in contact with his lost love for years via email and Face book. She has been married twice and now the husband wants to introduce his wife to his lost love.
Do you think the wife should be concerned or worried about the idea of meeting the the lost love?
The wife has no desire to meet her.
The husband defends his lost love and says he has no intentions with her.
Rekindle Lost Loves if you are Single
Rekindle Lost Loves
Would you like the chance to relive your adolescent life with your lost love?
© 2014 Devika Primić