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Signs She Feels Threatened in her Marriage

Updated on November 08, 2016

Intimidation Makes one Feel less-confident

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Jealousy gets in the way of fear

She married this man for his money. In the past she was deprived of a good life.

Two years into that marriage and he already realizes it is a mistake to have married this woman.

The woman feels threatened by another married woman, strange but true!

A sly and envious person when she wants to be.

  • Why does she feel so threatened by another married woman?

The less-confident married woman is threatened by the confident life of the other woman.

The intelligent and good looking woman has a different way of life. Happiness, love and a very different lifestyle in comparison to the less confident woman.

She gained weight and is not pleased with her body shape.

The other woman is the opposite of that woman.

Jealousy makes this woman feel hatred and threatened in her daily routine.

The use of make-up has allowed her to feel good about her looks but those features are not real.

The woman feels threatened by the other woman's natural beauty and dressing styles.

Most of the better looking women are often a threat to other women, and that it is how this woman feels about the other married woman.

The problem with such women a friendship is not always possible.

These women don't see you as their friend instead more as a problem.

Once they know you are the better one in your preferred qualities, you are right away a threat to their marriages.

They feels you are the man-stealer.

A woman in this situation often feels beneath the other woman.

She tries to speak out but in her own way and not much in an intelligent way.

Her wild shouting out randomly with no understanding makes that person her true self.

The attitude of the married woman makes the other woman feel threatened by her behavior. In this case for the confident woman it is her way to show her true self.

A self-employed woman who is intelligent and has put up with the problematic mind of the jealous woman.

When I walk into a room heads do turn that makes others see I am around. I often draw the attention of others and I am proud of my confidence.

I show love toward others and also expect the same for me from them.

I dress to look good and feel good. It is my way of showing a high-self-esteem and happiness to me.

What others don't like about me I can't change I am here to live my life and be myself.

She is not impressed with the way that woman dresses up or speaks. A kind of attitude that has made her feel quite frustrated.

A shopping spree gets her feeling great to compete with the other woman.

There are some things that can't be changed no matter how hard she tries to flaunt what she has it is not possible to show it all off.

  • What this woman does not realize is the difference in being a slutty dresser and flashy dresser.

I have noticed her trashy dressing when she was recently dressed-up in a mini-skirt it was most in appropriate at her age and for the occasion it made her look trashy.

A few days ago she attended church like she was dressed to a party.

  • Dress for different occasions and accordingly does not apply to her.

The way one dresses and projects themselves in public counts for their character and personality behaviors. Sometimes overly dressed-up can make you look like a clown.

The confident woman feels free to speak up and shares her opinions greatly.Most women feel free to speak while some are shy and don't want to speak up.

The strong personality of the confident woman is mostly shown and present in their visits than is in the other woman.

She is a competitive being and wants to show of her great life but she can't be the other woman no matter what she tries to do.

In this process she has no friends and her marriage is not stable.

Fake people have fake friends and this is exactly what has happened here.

She has fake friends.

Her weakness shows more than her strengths.

She can't be too good for the other woman her rich life does not show the real her.

  • What is the difference between her feeling intimidated and threatened?

She fears the other woman and that is sad.

A woman feels fear when she sees a confident and outspoken woman.

The feeling of that woman taking away what she has is another poor thought.

She is insecure in her thoughts and when around the lovely woman.

Threatened makes her feel at her worst because she has let her insecure mind control her life.

The problem with this woman her deprived life has taken her to another life the kind she is never had and still has to get used to and to grow into.

My true side is to be kind and helpful to those who have such behaviors.

I can't change them but I can make me the better one.

  • Should you change to be like the other woman?

I don't believe I need to change to meet someone else's standards either you accept me or don't I am still going to be me.

Lashing out and trying to be something you are not is not going to make you happy.

I have experienced such kind of behavior from one woman she just wants to be like me in some ways.

I prefer to be me and happy with myself.

I am Indian and she is not. My culture is different to the Catholic culture. This is who I am my culture and me are different. The little things I do makes this woman jealous.

The other woman dresses smart.

The lifestyle is different to that of the jealous type of woman. The jealous stares are direct to the other woman.

My life is part of the Croatia culture and more of my Indian culture and there is no one like me around here, especially in my small community. It is like a thorn in my side the kind you can't get rid of.

I ignore such weird behaviors and respect the lifestyles of others.

My life belongs to me and no one can take away my unique way of life.

I am special in my own way and have passed many obstacles to be this great person with a strong personality and super confidence.

My true smiles keep me happy and loved by all.

A simple conversation makes me feel my best in many ways.

A one and only truly beautiful life for the confident woman.

She feels threatened by the other woman. The other woman is confident, positive, and unique in her culture. The husband i snot her first man.

Unfortunately she is not where she had expected to be. On top of his list.

People are threatened by such characteristics as mentioned here.

  • Why is she so insecure?

She is not a friend and can't be that woman's friend instead gives her the cold shoulder.

The confident woman is intelligent, beautiful, outspoken, and dresses with great style, and not in a trashy dresser.

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      Bill Holland 2 years ago from Olympia, WA

      Always excellent suggestions and wisdom. Well done my friend.

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      Sparklea 2 years ago from Upstate New York

      DDE: Voted up, useful and interesting. You brought out some excellent points, especially the topic of jealousy. Jealously is unnecessary and evil.

      Your greatest advice is to be yourself, not compete, complain or defend who you are. I have seen some gorgeous women who are really ugly because of their anger, rage, jealousy and self-centeredness. It is the inner Spirit and the personality that reigns. No one who loves herself should ever lack in confidence or feel threatened in marriage or any relationship. Blessings, Sparklea :)

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      Linda Crampton 2 years ago from British Columbia, Canada

      It is very important that we are true to ourselves. Thanks for stressing this in your hub, Devika.

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      Eric Dierker 2 years ago from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A.

      Well done.

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      Mona Sabalones Gonzalez 2 years ago from Philippines

      Your advice to be oneself regardless of circumstance is well taken. We all have our place on this earth, and if one patch of this large earth won't take us as we are, there is always another patch where people are bound to be a better fit and likely, more genuine.

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Thank you billybuc so kind of you to stop by.

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi Sparklea thank you kindly for the vote up, useful and interesting. I so agree with your comment I appreciate your kindness.

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      AliciaC thank you kindly I appreciate your comments

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Ericdierker thank you

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      grand old lady thank you kindly for commenting on my hubs

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      Audrey Howitt 2 years ago from California

      Being true to oneself is so important I think--you have hit the nail on the head!

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi AudreyHowitt thank you for commenting I appreciate your visit

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      jtrader 2 years ago

      People need to mind their own busienss and be happy with themselves, then they wouldn't have time to be envious of others.

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      jtrader thank you for sharing your comments at my hubs I fully agree with your point here.

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      Ritu Temptor 2 years ago from India

      People spend too much time comparing with others and feeling bad about what they don't have, instead of cherishing what they have. You are right, if one feels inadequate about something, he/she should improve on it rather than resent someone else. Great hub! :)

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      Devika Primić 2 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi temptor94 so kind of you to stop by at my hubs. Your thoughts are so true and direct. Thank you

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