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Signs Your Spouse Has an Exceptional Affair

Updated on January 19, 2019
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' Femi is a writer and graphic designer. He obtained his B.Sc. (Ed) in Computer Science from Tai Solarin University of Education, Nigeria.


Infidelity extramarital can destroy a marriage. It was actually the leading cause of divorce for quite some time. Even without " proof," the suspicion that your spouse has an extramarital affair can be a heart attack. Because you know your spouse better than anyone else, you'll know when your relationship changes. Others may not be able to see it, but it is because the changes often begin in a subtle way.

If you suspect you have an extramarital affair with your husband or wife, ask yourself the following questions:

  • Has your spouse become suddenly distant?
  • Is your spouse apologizing to be away from you?
  • Has your spouse started overtime suddenly?
  • Has your spouse planned to exclude your input or even your participation?

These are some of the most common signs of an extramarital affair with your spouse. These are far from the only signs of the story— you can notice changes in daily routines, personal attitudes or the lifestyle of your spouse in general. Frankly, the best way to " know" when your spouse cheats, even without evidence, is simply to pay attention to what happens in your marriage and in your spouse.

Computers can be a big problem for husbands and wives— they offer their partners a new and largely anonymous venue to talk to others. When you walk in the room and your spouse suddenly shuts off the computer or tries to distract your attention from what they do, it may indicate that your spouse hides something from you. Online dating sites or suites for " married but dating" make it very easy to connect with other people in your local area or anywhere in the world.

Another sign that your spouse has an affair is that they are unable to keep track of the " stories" they tell you. For example, ask your spouse what they're doing, unexpectedly, because they're ready to leave. Ask them what they are planning to do while you are gone — you may play the part of the forgotten spouse, but those who often have an extramarital affair will lose track of their lies at some point, and these lies can be indicative of a partner who cheats.

Now, while these signs may indicate that your partner has an extramarital affair, they are not concrete proof that your spouse has an extramarital infidelity in some form. Before you meet your spouse, you should have strong evidence that something really happens except their suspicious behavior. After all, they are your partner, and a false accusation can not be overturned.


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