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Signs you are Forcing Love in a Relationship

Updated on April 6, 2017
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Are you forcing love in your relationship?

Do you think he is forcing love in their arranged relationship?

Is he forcing love in his new relationship?

You can force love in your relationship when you are tired of each other, and still stay together.

For example:

He met someone new and is not interested in going back to ex-girlfriend.

In this case, he is no longer with the previous girlfriend but met someone else, and wants to start something new with someone different.

The new girlfriend is happy and is taking it slow with her first relationship with this guy.

He is talking about her meeting his parents and taking further steps into their future relationship.

Is he forcing this relationship?

Is he over the ex-girlfriend and wants to move on with this new girlfriend?

I don't believe anyone can force someone to love them. In a new relationship for different reasons the relationship can feel like force.

You can't force someone to love you or to be with you.

It would turn to misery and unhappiness.

Has his smooth talking keeping his new girlfriend occupied and taken in to keep her to himself?

Do partners plan together of where to spend their dating time?

Being in love is different to being attached to your partner.

· Are you feeling rejected in your relationship?

· Will breaking up bother you if the other partner is not happy living with you?

· Are you constantly fighting and tired of each other?

When you choose to break up with your partner it can be difficult to let go of that relationship.

You can't live without each other, and when your break up feels easy to get out of then you know that relationship was meaningless.

It shows a damaged relationship and a forced relationship.

A relationship can spiral out of control when too much of fighting, anger, and hate is involved between two people.

Sometimes partners don't give enough time to each other.

One gives more than the other to each other.

You are forcing a relationship when everything is a one-sided affair.

One partner plans and arranges everything for you.

Your ideas or plans don't matter to the other partner.

It is always you who has to first ask how they are.

You are constantly planning and your partner doesn't pay attention to your needs.

The relationship is just about one of you and that sucks.

You don't share conversations securely with your partner.

The relationship is not good in strengths and weaknesses show more.

Everything that should be alive in your relationship is dead.

You merely exist in this relationship.

· She is forcing her feelings for this man.

He is a great person and the arranged marriage is not going as she had planned.

When two people meet they find certain chemistry between them, but for this couple she knew what was of benefit for her.

So, she married and hoped everything else will fall into place.

Unfortunately, not much is going her way.

He is feeling it hard to please this woman.

No love there just attachment.

He has gotten used to the idea of having her around the home and fulfills her needs.

She lies and he is caught up in her web of lies.

He was not open to a relationship is inexperienced and has got himself in a tangle.

She cares for her husband but he is a bit distant from that feeling.

It is hard for him to love her. Something he has no idea of how to get himself into in their marriage.

He makes all the decisions and she has to follow his commands.

Love is forced in this relationship, the traditional marriage is going down that path but the relationship is strained.

Relationships are tough and require hard work and a lot of time.

When you neglect time for reach other something gets lost in the relationship.

There are hard times, good times, and bad times in relationships.

You force love in your relationship and force your partner to change for you.

Your heart is often sore from arguments and constant fights.

The heart knows how everything can hurt at the worst times and at the best of times.

The longer you stay in such relationships, the harder it becomes for you to leave and feel free from that hurt.

· Why should you change to be with the one you love?

Force in a relationship destroys you from all aspects of life.

He dictates to his wife and she has no say in the matter.

In this marriage has the force of affection to make her know he is there for her but for different reasons.

What happens in forceful relationships?

You become obsessed with your partner's touch.

A hug and a cuddle reduce stress levels but this can become addictive too.

The marriage is going down a bad path.

He pushes her to complete tasks and this happens more than him encouraging her to complete the tasks.

When both should be part of something mostly it is forced on her to be part of it.

The lifestyle is forced to change for this woman.

· You have a soul mate why change that person into someone to make you happy?

The force in a relationship to work can be obsessive and a drainer for you.

It is wrong to force a relationship or to be in a relationship because of what others would say if you walked away from that relationship.

Are you together because you are of the same religion?

You can let go of your failed relationship.

Forcing someone to love you and forcing a relationship is a destroyer in your life.

· Can you force someone to be happy in love with you?

Don't force what won't work in your relationship:

Love is not easy to find and this commodity is commonly needed in a relationship.

If you already have love everything will flow without blockage.

If love is not returned your relationship is not a positive one.

You are wasting your energy. Love someone because you want to love them but don't always expect love returned.

Happiness is in the heart and not shown in circumstances.

Finding happiness is not for everyone.

You are responsible for your happiness.

Make sure you are happy with your partner, and with true happiness from within.

One partner is stronger than the other. Facing issues together is a relationship for two people.

Both partners don't show their strengths equally and at the same time.

Sometimes people don't feel bad for the actions of others.

Love is for you when you have it naturally.

If you truly want to be in a good relationship seek inside and find out more about yourself.

· Anything forced on you is not real so give it up!

Forced love, happiness, and strengths are not good for a relationship.

The constant disappointment and sadness tells you it shouldn't be.

Relationships don't work on broken promises. You need to care for each other and show that for one another.

You can't trick anyone to falling in love with you, or to be in a relationship with you.

Love is what you make of it, in the choices you make to love the other person.

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© 2016 Devika Primić


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      Bill Holland 15 months ago from Olympia, WA

      It's always interesting to read your views on relationships. Thank you for sharing.

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      Ruby Jean Fuller 15 months ago from Southern Illinois

      I can't imagine an arranged marriage? I know it happens. Interesting topic.

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 15 months ago from The Caribbean

      Forced love sounds burdensome. Thanks for the good advice.

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      Linda Crampton 15 months ago from British Columbia, Canada

      Thank you for sharing some interesting facts about the nature of relationships, Devika.

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      Devika Primić 15 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi billybuc thank you very much appreciated.

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      Devika Primić 15 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      always exploring thank you very much for stopping by.

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      Devika Primić 15 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi MsDora thank you

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      Devika Primić 15 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      AliciaC thank you very much for commenting

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      Madan 15 months ago from Abu Dhabi

      Very interesting facts, yet sometimes a man may need to impress his girl with more attention to making her realize his love.

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      Devika Primić 15 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      emge so glad you stopped by thank you very much.

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