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How Treat Emotions in Life

Updated on December 11, 2010

We were created by God as the most perfect creature in the world. How do we use the big gift for ourselves and others around us. We are surrounding by the people who care about us. We can't separated from them. As a social beings. In dealing with other people sometimes take the emotion. Emotion also have a good impact for us. Depends on how do we bring that emotion in our life. There are many ways to make our emotions better, the most influential is to learn from experience. These are things can be learned from it.

Just do it!

The first time we work, we may felt nervous and there was no self confident. But if we want something we have to encourage ourselves to say it. Just do it. If we don't do that, there is a little chance to achieve that.

Offer a way out

Emotions would be better when we face a problem, we do not criticize something. unless we offer a solution. If the solution could really solve the problem, it was more impressive than finding a mistake.

Give praise to others

Give praise to your friends or colleagues, it will make them not only appreciated but also proud. This will make us want to prove our ability in the next day.

Speak up!

Sometime we always agree with everything that is given to us. Try to encourage your self to decided your own opinions. Don't depend to other. Speak up and people will listen!

Say the "Magic Word"

Better to use word "We" than "You" or "me". Try to give attention, it looks fun when we said, "Why don't we try this way". Than, "I think you did the wrong way". With said like that, it will change the impression of selfishness and confirm that "we" are a team.

Don't be afraid to take risks

In the work of environment, organization or association. Sometimes we give a fresh idea. that might sound crazy. And it look difficult to realized. But we actually don't know, when all the effort will success. Better try and dared to take a little risk.

Get back a life

Don't give up even though we've worked hard, but the results were not satisfactory. There is another side of life. We still meet the good people who love us. A family who still support us. 

Give support to others

We can be a motivator for my another friends. Because by helping others, our lives will become meaningful. Start from the simple things, even by giving spirit. It will be very valuable for a friend in need. We can share our knowledge to others. It can help other's in better life.

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I hope by reading this hub, we can find what is the meaning of life. Actually life is so simple. Why we don't enjoy this life with simple things that we understand and we usually do it everyday. Experience will train us and we will be more sensitive in this life. I believe many Hubbers have a lot of experience in life and bring this life more colorful.


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    • prasetio30 profile imageAUTHOR


      9 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Hello and Teresa Laurente for coming to this hub.

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      Maria Teresa Rodriguez - Laurente 

      9 years ago from San Antonio, Texas, U.S.A.

      Very true really. What you give, you get back. Thank you for this inspiring hub.

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      Hello, hello, 

      9 years ago from London, UK

      Thank you for a very thoughtful hub. Especially that last paragraph; I agree with you completely.

    • prasetio30 profile imageAUTHOR


      9 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks GPAGE for interesting to this hub. I hope we all become good person. And facing this life bravely, without leaving the rules. God bless you!

    • GPAGE profile image


      9 years ago from California

      LOVE the positive message here......thank you for being such a kind person...It shows in your writing. Best, G

    • prasetio30 profile imageAUTHOR


      9 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Madison. We have to take a risk even it difficult to do. Better tried than never. Life is simple, so using it wisely my friend.

    • Madison22 profile image


      9 years ago from NYC

      What a lovely hub, such valuable information for getting the best out of life. My favorite is taking risks and encouraging others, but they are all wonderful. Thank you Prasetio30!

    • prasetio30 profile imageAUTHOR


      9 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Mr.Roychoudhury and Motricio for coming to this hub. I hope by this hub, we can maintain our emotions in life.

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      Mauricio Rodriguez 

      9 years ago from Bogota DC, Colombia

      Thank you prasetio30

      We need to keep our humanity always with us,

      No matter where we are.

    • H P Roychoudhury profile image

      H P Roychoudhury 

      9 years ago from Guwahati, India

      Good hub. A little thing makes life better and enjoyable with otherws. Thanks.

    • prasetio30 profile imageAUTHOR


      9 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Dame Scribe for the recognition. Don't be shy to help other. We can treat this habit little by little. I believe you'll be wise person. And God bless you...amen.

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      Dame Scribe 

      9 years ago from Canada

      I get shy and prefer to help others if asked. Great tips! :)

    • prasetio30 profile imageAUTHOR


      9 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Ethel, Veronica and breakfastpop for supporting this hub. I really appreciate your all comment. For Veronica we work as a team just not only in a game but also in life. I hope we can also as a team in hubpages.

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      9 years ago

      Terrific hub with excellent advice.

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      Veronica Allen 

      9 years ago from Georgia

      I love the suggesstion about solving problems as a team. Instead of saying I, say we. Great tips.

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      Ethel Smith 

      9 years ago from Kingston-Upon-Hull

      Good sense

    • prasetio30 profile imageAUTHOR


      9 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Raven King and Pete for coming to this hub. Both of you made this hub more interesting to talk. For Raven King you have a good side about this topic. We can touch this life by self experience and then we can learn from others. For Pete you give "a little touch" about this topic in solve the problem.

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      Pete Maida 

      9 years ago

      Very good advice. I especially like the idea of not complaining about errors without offering a solution. We should point out a problem to get it solved not to belittle another person.

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      Raven King 

      9 years ago from Cabin Fever

      Very delightful hub! I think the meaning in life is experiencing it with your senses. Defining what it feels to be alive and appreciating the sunshine and good things around you. :)


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