- Gender and Relationships
Single does not imply damaged
Being Single does not imply Damaged
Here we go again on yet another first date. Bombarded with same and like questions.... Have you ever been married? How many times? Why haven't you chosen to marry? How many children do you have? What do you do for a living? How long have you been there? As if those are pertinent questions!!
On a first date it should only matter if the two have engaging thoughts to share. Mutual attraction will be apparent! feeling comfortable right off the bat is a great sign! This is not a pick your mate date but a chance to have some good clean fun. A wondrous opportunity to escape the monotony of our daily routine and express our hobbies, passions and zest for life!
If for some stroke of great luck and the stars are aligned in almost perfect order, we should then hope for a second date of the same and a bit more! Exposing glimpses of who we are and where we are headed in life! Much fun is it to unravel the process! Why would one rush this? With that being said........if one feels rushed, there must be a reason! For me that is a signal to research the motivation of such........but being single is not implying that we are damaged..........we may be picky, quirky, perfectionist, slobs, too deep, too shallow...ect. however with time taken and mild precaution exhibited...we all should find ourselves with a kindred spirit that likes us, loves us and wants more of us!!