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Couples break up worldwide, at different times, and in different cultures.
When I read of how a man cooked and served his ex girlfriend's dog to her. I had to write this hub.
Some people are very spiteful after a break up.
- The following are examples of how partners reacted in anger toward their ex:
One girl could not take any more lies from her boyfriend, so she put clean cat gravel on his sandwiches his teeth were gritty.
An ex girl friend made sandwiches from a road killed frog for her ex to get back at him for the break up.
During a divorce trial he wanted the dog and she wanted to leave him penniless. Her idea was to take away all she could from her ex-husband.
Weeks later, a box arrived in the mail for the ex husband and when he opened the box he was speechless. It was full of ashes, the dog's ashes.
- How far would you go to get back at your ex?
She attempted suicide to get the attention from her ex.
On many occasions she tried to crash her car. After the breakup she told all his friends he was an abusive and cheating person.
She became a manipulative individual with that kind of behavior.
A couple shared a bank account after spending two years living together. One partner made the other think they had a job when in truth she did not have a day job. (She lied to him).
He got fed up of her lies and ended the relationship and had to close the bank account.
While at the bank he was told both parties have to be present to close the account.
The ex was not coming around for a while. He took his name off the account and opened a new one.
After having a few thousand dollars in his new bank account and doing well problems arouse.
She wanted to get back at him even though she had a new boyfriend.
- He had lost interest in her!
When he needed money his cards did not work.
He found out that there has been some fraudulent activity on his account.
His ex girlfriend had written forty thousand dollars in fraudulent checks from their old bank account. He was flat-broke.
She was not working so the trial did not help him.
It was a total loss for him and she knew exactly how to get back at him for ending their relationship.
His ex set everything he had left at her place on fire.
She tricked him into getting her pregnant.
They were dating for a while and she sabotaged the birth control. Once pregnant she cut off all ties with him.
He remained civil with her and all she wanted is a child.
- It was a hoax:
An ex was falsely accused of domestic violence this had taken away her childhood and every photo of good memories.
The judge knew it was not true but six months of her life was destroyed.
They were married for many years and one day she starts an affair with his best friend. Prior to that affair he did not spend time with her.
So to get back at him she cheated after their separation.
Horrible relationships in many cases turn out worst than expected.
A break up can be a good idea and a bad idea.
The thing is you can't live with someone or be with someone if you are not happy.
He gave a random girl his telephone number the next day after a break up.
- Was that a spiteful thing to do after a break up?
- What you can become after a break up?
- Ever thought of what you can become after a break up?
Hateful toward gender
Life changes drastically
You tend to mingle with those who have experienced a break up and start plotting bad actions together.
When things don't pan out you become your own enemy.
- Do you think women are more vengeful than men when it comes to a break up?
Most women after a break up feel they can do whatever they want to be vengeful.
They don't find anything wrong with their actions.
Most men hurt most women and this is without realizing their faults or actions.
On the contrast, women plan out their actions and go ahead with their viciousness.
When a man is hurt he drinks it off with some broad and or a one night stand.
Women when mad about issues with their partner they find someone they know will affect their partner's thoughts.
- For example:
She will choose someone her partner does not like just get back at him.
Certain people can sink down to many levels.
He dumped her after she was really in love with him.
It was so cruel of him to do that to her.
The spitefulness that most women can go through is shocking.
When a man does something wrong it is a big issue and he is yelled about it.
She is often in immense pain after a break up.
To feel better she chooses to act out her anger through pain.
Men and women can do evil to each other it is all part of life.
People react differently to hurt and sadness.
An ex poured bleach on everything in his apartment. She then kicked and damaged his entertainment systems by throwing all down a flight of stairs.
More bleach and ammonia was poured all over these items.
Thereafter, she put all in a garbage bag and took it to the basketball court where he was with friends.
- Is that spiteful or what?
She secretly made a copy of his house keys and entered quietly with food while she knew he was with another female.
This woman made up the table for three and added laxatives in his food.
- He knew what her actions meant!
- She knew he was cheating on her!
The girl told her boyfriend she was pregnant he gave her money to have an abortion she took the money and had a night out with friends.
You can be vindictive, manipulative, and spiteful in both genders.
I think that women get to a breaking point more than men do in their relationships.
- Reasons for women behaving in this way:
Women are more emotional and justify their hurt with pain openly.
The vicious attack is planned and acted on much later.
Some women don't show physical hurt toward men.
Women know what they do is wrong but they do it anyway.
The intense emotions certainly justify their angry emotions.
- Women love hard and fall hard.
Karma always catches up with you. If you hurt a woman you will have evil coming toward you.
He was devastated after their break up but when he saw at bars having drinks with a few friends he had to get back at her.
The ruthless conversations were about how he felt in a direct way.
The name calling and the use of vulgar from his side made her sob.
He wanted to hear her sob over what she had messed up in their relationship.
Partners can become stalkers and make the life of their ex miserable.
In this case when he broke up with her she became a super stalker.
She would sit across from his house almost every night to see if he brought anyone home with him.
She would drive by his workplace, call around and find out where he was, and show up out of nowhere and play out her craziness.
Like, one time she kicked in a whole side of his vehicle. Also, she had called him hundreds of times daily.
He did not take the matter to the police.
It was hard for him not to speak to her they had a child together.
On many visits when they got together to discuss the needs of their child she would go right into a conversation about their relationship.
Complicated issues such as this one can make more unnecessary words for couples when together.
- Well, some women are like that and some men too are like that too.
- A friend hates her ex and she is determined to break up his new relationship.
Her ex had cheated and lied to her for over twenty years.
Her only reason for staying with her husband that long is they have a daughter together.
Spiteful things that one can do to their ex after a breakup or when found cheating could be mind blowing to oneself.
What would you do to get back at your ex?
The Spiteful Things can hurt both partners
© 2014 Devika Primić