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Spiteful Things Partners Do After a Break Up/ When Cheating

Updated on March 17, 2024
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Couples break up worldwide, at different times, and in different cultures. I read about how a man cooked and served his ex-girlfriend’s dog to her and some people are very spiteful after a breakup.

The following are examples of how partners reacted in anger toward their ex:

One girl could not take any more lies from her boyfriend, she put clean cat gravel on his sandwiches his teeth were gritty.

An ex-girlfriend made sandwiches from a road-killed frog for her ex to get back at him for the breakup.

During a divorce trial, he wanted the dog and she wanted to leave him penniless. Her idea was to take away all she could from her ex-husband. Weeks later, a box arrived in the mail for the ex-husband and when he opened the box, he was speechless. It was full of ashes, the dog's ashes.

How far would you go to get back at your ex?

She attempted suicide to get the attention of her ex. On many occasions, she tried to crash her car. After the breakup, she told all his friends he was an abusive and cheating person.

She became a manipulative individual with that kind of behaviour. A couple shared a bank account after spending two years living together. One partner made the other think they had a job when in truth she did not have a day job.

She lied to him

He got fed up with her lies and ended the relationship and had to close the bank account. While at the bank, he was told both parties must be present to close the account.

The ex was not coming around for a while. He took his name off the account and opened a new one. After having a few thousand dollars in his new bank account and doing well problems arouse. She wanted to get back at him even though she had a new boyfriend.

He had lost interest in her!

He found out that there had been any fraudulent activity on his account. His ex-girlfriend had written forty thousand dollars in fraudulent checks from their old bank account.

He was flat-broke.

She was not working the trial did not help him. It was a total loss for him, and she knew exactly how to get back at him for ending their relationship.

His ex-set everything he had left at her place on fire. She tricked him into getting her pregnant.

They dated for a while and she sabotaged the birth control. Once pregnant, she cut off all ties with him. He remained civil with her and all she wanted is a child.

It was a hoax:

An ex was falsely accused of domestic violence this had taken away her childhood and every photo of good memories. The judge knew it was not true, but six months of her life were destroyed.

They were married for many years and one day she starts an affair with his best friend. Prior to that affair, he did not spend time with her. So, to get back at him she cheated after their separation.

Horrible relationships in many cases turn out worse than expected. A breakup can be a good idea and a bad idea. The thing is you cannot live with someone or be with someone if you are not happy. He gave a random girl his telephone number the next day after a breakup.

Was that a spiteful thing to do after a breakup?

What you can become after a breakup?

Ever thought of what you can become after a breakup?

  • Spitefulness
  • Craziness
  • Bitterness
  • Messed-up
  • Hateful toward gender
  • Feel hopeless
  • You tend to mingle with those who have experienced a breakup and start plotting bad actions together.
  • When things do not pan out you become your own enemy.

Do you think women are vengeful than men when it comes to a breakup?

Most women after a breakup feel they can do whatever they want to be vengeful. They do not find anything wrong with their actions. Most men hurt most women, and this is without realizing their faults or actions.

In contrast, women plan out their actions with their viciousness. When a man is hurt, he drinks it off with some broad and or a one-night stand. Women who are angry about issues with their partners and find someone they know will affect their partner's thoughts.

For example:

She will choose someone her partner does not like to get back at him. Certain people can sink to many levels. He dumped her after she was really in love with him.

It was so cruel of him to do that to her. The spitefulness that most women can go through is shocking. A man doing something wrong is a big issue and he is yelling about it.

She is often in immense pain after a breakup. To feel better she chooses to act out her anger through pain. Men and women can do evil to each other it is part of life; however, people react differently to hurt and sadness.

An ex poured bleach on everything in his apartment. She then kicked and damaged his entertainment systems by throwing them all down a flight of stairs. More bleach and ammonia were poured over these items.

She put it all in a garbage bag and took it to the basketball court where he was with friends.

Is that spiteful or what?

She secretly made a copy of his house keys and entered quietly with food while she knew he was with another female.

This woman made up the table for three and added laxatives to his food.

He knew what her actions meant!

She knew he was cheating on her!

The girl told her boyfriend, she was pregnant, and he gave her money to have an abortion, she took the money and had a night out with friends. You can be vindictive, manipulative, and spiteful in both genders.

I think that women get to a breaking point more than men do in their relationships. Reasons for women behaving in this way:

Women are more emotional and justify their hurt with pain openly. The vicious attack is planned and acted on much later. Some women do not show physical hurt to men.

Women know what they do is wrong, but they do it anyway. The intense emotions certainly justify their angry emotions.

If you hurt a woman you will have evil coming toward you. He was devastated after their breakup, but when he saw him at bars having drinks with a few friends he had to get back at her.

The ruthless conversations were about how he felt in a direct way, and the name-calling and the use of vulgar from his side made her sob.

He wanted to hear her sob over what she had messed up in their relationship.

Partners can become stalkers and make the life of their ex miserable. In this case, when he broke up with her, she became a super stalker. She would sit across from his house almost every night to see if he brought anyone home with him.

She would drive by his workplace, call around and find out where he was, and show up out of nowhere and play out her craziness.

Like, one time she kicked a whole side of his vehicle. Also, she had called him hundreds of times daily. He did not take the matter to the police. It was hard for him not to speak to her they had a child together.

On many visits when they got together to discuss the needs of their child she would go right into a conversation about their relationship. Complicated issues such as this one can make more unnecessary words for couples when together.

Well, some women are like that and some men too are like that too. A friend hates her ex and she is determined to break up his new relationship. Her ex had cheated and lied to her for over twenty years.

Her only reason for staying with her husband that long is they have a daughter together. Spiteful things that one can do to their ex after a breakup or when found cheating could be mind-blowing to oneself.

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This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2014 Devika Primić

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