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Stop With The Negativity
Did you ever think a guy liked you and someone said "he doesen't like you like that" or if a guy who showed an intrest in you suddenly ignores you say "he's not intrested?" Those people are people who you should stay away from.
No one knows what other people are feeling. Some think they are trying to help us when those negative words can hurt us. It makes us feel as if no one could ever be intrested in us. A good friend tells you the truth but isn't so easily to say "he's not into you," they feel bad and don't think that he's a good guy or say "it sucks, sorry you are going through it."
A good guy even if he has a girlfriend won't ignore you for no reason. He will mention he has a girlfriend.
Friends are supposed to bring us up instead of pushing us down. If you have someone who is pushing you down today, move on from them. Their negativity will eventually get to you. Surround yourself with positive people and people who make you feel good about yourself.
Besides no one knows the future, so we have to stop listening to negative voices and people and start believing that there is better for us. There is always something and someone better. So once again surround yourself with positive people and believe that you will get all the goodness that you deserve and that that special someone can be into you. He could like you more than a friend.