Tell-tale Signs Of An Abusive Husband
Many abusive male partners don't show their true colors as soon as they get married.They lie low until after their first honey moon or first born child.. Before the honey moon and the birth of their first child they pretend as if they don't even harm a fly.They pretend to be sheep,yet inwardly they are ravenous wolves in sheep's coats. They do this to hoodwink their partners and win them over.After they are established in a relationship their true colors start to emerge. The slow chameleon starts changing its colour taking the colour and character of a Black Mamba .He starts to spit poisonous venom in form of abusive and intolerant behaviour.
The question remains, what are the signs of an abusive husband?
An abusive husband is a ravenous wolf in sheep's clothing. He is a control freak, possessive and does not see anything good from the spouse.The abuse partner is domineering and treats a wife as deadwood. His abusive words are unpredictable as a bolt of lightning.He can say unprintable words in the presence of kids.He is gifted in beating his wife randomly.He wears tantrums for days.
On the surface and to other people an abusive husband pretends to be nice and humble as a Panda.
An abusive husband is always critical of anything good done by the partner. Even if the partner irons his shirt properly he still finds a mistake on the ironed shirt in order to pick on her. He is not appreciative of his partner's efforts neither is he able to listen and learn from the spouse's suggestions and cintributions.
He is violent and full of I know. He is a wife beater.He doesn't take no for an answer and he wants things done his own way.He uses clenched fists to instill fear in the wife and to discipline her.He pins his wife on the bed and spit in her face.
An abusive husband takes a wife as a commodity and as his first born child whom he can bully at will.
An abusive husband or partner doesn't want to help with the house chores,he thinks that doing dishes and baby sitting is a woman's job and are not traditional jobs for men,yet the child he is asked to babysit is his.He believes that a woman should do everything for him whilst he is smoking his cigarettes,playing computer games whilst sipping his vodka on ice. An abusive husband shouts at his wife on top of his voice without respect. He doesn't respect his spouse in the presence of neighbours, friends and in public. He calls names to his wife such as,you fat cow,you dumb and ugly duckling.
He wants to know how every penny is spend but doesn't want to contribute financially. He doesn't want to have a 9 am to 5pm job. He is a gambler and a drug addict.
He spends his money on gambling but likes to eat good food at home without contributing. He always want to know where his wife is going, with whom and why? He often spies on his wife using hidden cameras in the family car to find out if she is cheating on her.He is not comfortable to see male workmates with her wife.Any silly mistake made by the wife hea descends on her heavy handedly like a tonardo.
An abusive husband doesn't want to spread the bed even if he was the last to leave the bed.An abusive husband is always angry he doesn't use reasoning to solve issues but he smacks the wife as an alternative of his weak thinking.He suffers from anger management, he doesn't have good listening skills.
An abusive man is not willing to admit his failures,he knows everything and is a go getter at all cost.He doesn't want to look for job and fend for the family.His ideal day is made up of drinking beer and waiting for the wife to do everything for him.Violence is the game changer for an abusive man. He is a man of few words but a guru of several claps.
Watch out for these behavioural traits in relationships and seek help before it gets worse. Be warned don't be statistics of abusive relationships.
