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The "EX" Files

Updated on August 23, 2011
Charles chuggin some vodka. This was when him and I were living together
Charles chuggin some vodka. This was when him and I were living together
Charles and I when we were dating the 2nd time
Charles and I when we were dating the 2nd time
This was the first time I met him
This was the first time I met him
We were helping one of my friends move.
We were helping one of my friends move.
I was happy there. Those were good times
I was happy there. Those were good times

Ex's are Ex's for a reason! They are people you don't date again and they are people you don't talk to anymore. Well I didn't follow those rules. There were two guys who I dated at separate times and once I broke up with them I dated both again. Not something I recommend. Anyway one of them and I became really good friends after we broke up the 2nd time. He would always call me with his "girl" problems and I would always be there to give him advice or to just lend an ear. I didn't think having a friendship with him was anything wrong, but I was married and so was he. My husband didn't like him at all and would always say something bad about him when my cell would ring. I truly liked our friendship and I wish my husband would have understood. I mean this guy and I had history, we dated for a long time off and on and him and I lived together. In the end my husband was right. I shouldn't have kept the friendship. All I was to him was a "Dear Abbey" column. Seeing how much he called me with his "girl" problems I was really glad I wasn't with him anymore. He has been married twice and has had two divorces. He is now engaged to some 23 year old who has a child. He seems to find some crazy chicks to date. Its quite amusing. His new fiance hates me and has deleted me from his facebook page. I could careless. Looking back, I am so glad that I married Jason, cause I couldn't be more happier.

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      marellen 5 years ago

      They are called X's for a reason. He isn't out of your life and you will hear from him again.....I beat ya....

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      Kelly Umphenour 5 years ago from St. Louis, MO

      Yeah I have to say I've made the same mistake. When you care about someone - it's hard to sever all ties, I mean there are reasons you cared for them to begin with but once I did keep my distance I realized how much nicer it really was to get rid of his baggage too. Live and learn;)

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      sublimegurl439 5 years ago from Granite Bay, CA

      Mom I know I will hear from him again.. He always finds a way to contact me..

      RealHousewife: Yeah I am so glad I don't talk to him.. I don't need that drama in my life.

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      Kelly Umphenour 5 years ago from St. Louis, MO

      Ya no doubt - one man is enough to take care of:)!

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      Ruby Jean Fuller 5 years ago from Southern Illinois

      I guess if your husband objects, then it's best to end it, but i would like to remain friends with people i once cared about. Different strokes for different folks. Thank's for sharing.

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      sublimegurl439 5 years ago from Granite Bay, CA

      I'm not just doing because of my husband, but I'm doing it for me.. Charles only cared about himself. I was tired of always being his backup girl. Its for the best. And plus its not the end of Charles I know that I will be hearing from him sometime in the near future.. Its always been like that.. thanks for reading

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