- Gender and Relationships
The Necessity Of Sharing
Necessity is something necessary or indispensable like food, shelter and other necessities of life ... like "sharing". All these social Internet pages where we encounter each day in so many different ways becomes a necessity of sharing to many people from all around the world.
I have met people which their only social environment is the Internet. For those my warm hug has been sent in virtual ways. Really deep sharing friendship has born by these media. Love comes by sharing no matter where, when or how.
I had an Internet friend that died and the feeling of sadness hit me as hard, deep and bad as if any of the ones I have touched, seen, smelled or hugged died. This experience made me stay away for a while...but each experience in life is what makes us who we are. Those experiences even, the worst, have lessons for our next experience. That is one of the reasons why nobody should say "from this water I will not drink". Humans are made with individual characteristics but...we are the same in some facts. Like the fact of the necessity of sharing.
People are more close than it seems
Quotes about sharing by unknown authors
"Trust is a precious, strong but so vulnerable at the same time. When someone trusts you is like giving you an access to their hearts!" (Unknown)
"I know that life is hard bit when you have someone who loves you so much just makes a difference. Face life together and make it all work."
"Leaders don't force people to follow them, they invite people on a journey."
What do we want to share?
What do we want to share? I think we just want to share life. Life is to live. To live is to have action. There are lots of activities which sharing is full filled.
Let's see this list that came from here and there:
Twenty sharing activities
Visits to museums, zoos or homes
Breakfasts, lunch or dinner
Art and craft
Do you know what do you want to share?
If, for any reason, you are a person that has to be on a bed, inside your home, sitting down, or just cannot socialize; than you might find nice friends on a social website.
Navigating in the web requires certain safely rules to be followed... if you want to stay emotionally and physically safe. An avatar not necessarily uncovers the person behind the computer. We may perform some judgments as well as prejudgments, but also by avatars you may find out something about that person.
Never give personal information, or open yourself in complete trust. Even when you are seeing the person by a web-cam it does not identify the real personal characteristics of an individual. Having real Internet friends will flow and grow honesty by sharing without pretending who we aren't.
If you really want to find Internet friendship you probably will. My advice once again...be careful. Some of the most used are:
- My Space
Social networking websites
Sharing in silence
Even just sharing in silence watching the sky. It is all about putting our hearts when we are sharing.
The Bible is the source of gaining wisdom. I want to share this verse found in: Colossians 3:23 "Whatever you do, do your work heartily, as for the Lord rather than for men,"
Blessings to all!
© Maria Magdalena Ruiz O'Farrill
The sharing song
© 2011 Maria Magdalena Ruiz O'Farrill