The Red-Headed Stepchild of the Internet

Edited by Derek Gutierrez

Dating and the internet at first seem perfect, like peanut butter and jelly, but realistically it’s awful.

Don’t get me wrong the internet is an amazing network, for example, it has a whole Sesame Street episode about why communism and racial profiling are bad. Side note, how did no one notice it wasn't Cookie Monster? Everyone knows he's very loud and messy when he eats the cookies, and they were gone without a sound and not a crumb in site

Dating in the 21st century has always been something else. The internet just makes it a lot more juicy, and you end up with videos like this:

Here is a direct quote from the video, shot in London, in a country that is about 90 percent white: “what nationality wouldn’t you date?” “English people”. Truly we have reached a new level on enlightenment in the 21st century.

The Dark Side

A community of misogynist plague the internet and anyone that crosses its path, they are called incels.

Think of them as Tommy Wiseau from “The Room”. Their acting, tone, and view on life are awful, but you can’t help but feel a little sorry for them

Here are a couple of examples of their Reddit discussions:

-Women would rather be with dykes than ugly men

-My dad won’t stop asking me if I’m getting girls. Is it time to red pill him?

-Don’t you despise pregnant women?

-Imagine how a woman feels

-Obsessing about your wrist size isn’t weird

On Nov. 7, 2017, all of these posts were deleted by Reddit admins for violent content.

These incels don’t see women as people, rather instead a term called “femoids”. They see them as “all that is evil in the world,” as the sole contributor to suffering across the land. They treat them as a resource that you need to have to survive, and if you don't then you're a loser. They shame women for sleeping with multiple men and claim that they have “roastie”. They mock attractive women as being “Stacies”.

Then there are the “Chads” who are the supposed alpha males in society. The reason is, women don’t choose them.

These incels all have different reasons as to why they can’t get girls:

Heightcel- They’re too short

Mentalcel- They're too stupid

Drugcel- They’re too addicted

Ricecel- They’re too Asian

Currycel-They’re too Indian

Blackcel-They're too Black

This is not to say they don't claim they are “chads” inside minority communities. They are referred to as:

Tyrone

Chang

Chadprett

They subscribe to the “Red Pill Theory”, the idea that women only marry up when the men's social status and money are higher.

To summarize, hypergamy ruined dating because 80 percent of the women went for only 20 percent of the men, according to incels.

This is puzzling to a lot of you since many of you have been outside and have seen an actual relationship before.

Incels have an answer which is another theory known as “Alpha Fux Beta Bux”. Women will sleep with a thousand men in their 20’s (which kinds of destroys the previous theory) then settle down in her 30’s to a man she’s not really into but has the cash, all while cuckolding him.

This would all be too comedic if there wasn’t a dark underbelly.

I won’t show the posts but a lot talked about blaming women for rape. Calling for state-mandated girlfriends and sex slaves. The killing of all women.

These struggles ultimately drive these incels to do terrible things, some have committed suicide, while others do worse.

For example, a man killed six people and injured 14 others near the University of California on May 23, 2014. He had a 137-page manifesto about why he specifically targeted women and it all correlates with the incel narrative.

Another mass shooting was in 2009 at an LA Fitness. It keeps going on and on, stabbings, shootings, all with a purpose to hurt women.

The Other Side

I think a lot of guys know the struggles females deal with dating, but not a lot of females know the struggles guys face. I think every guy can say at least one time when they were rejected by a girl. Kids are even experiencing it as early as when they're six.

I think a lot of people would say they prefer a firing squad of attention rather than radio silence. When some females experience that they can’t handle it:

This isn’t to say there aren’t any females who also have an utter hatred for the opposite sex. Not only do most of their questions in this video, for example, makes zero sense, but you can tell they have a mindset based on hating men:

There is a level of dehumanization in today’s dating which is bad for both women and men, especially when it comes to dating apps.

It’s a way to lose the human aspect of the first meet up; you have a lot of options yet have no clue who most of the people are, there’s no sense of courage in staring behind a screen talking to someone. Most likely they will move onto another person in three days because they’re searching for the next adrenaline rush.

A lot of it is superficial, mostly based off of just plain looks when really, a lot of relationships do start in real life with people that they are not initially attracted to.

You do get a sense of ego every time you get a new match, and it ultimately leads to narcissism. Hollywood and Pop Media just pushes that ego to overdrive with music like this:

Incels shouldn’t be mad at women for not dating them, they should thank them. There are a lot of cases of women holding men down relationships. In your 20’s, it’s the time to get on your purpose and your mission for life.

It’s not a good mindset to hate the opposite sex when more than 50 percent of the world is female. There is a small subsection of women with strange “expectations” so I wouldn’t say you’re missing out.

Here is a list of her requirements for this woman:

1. Are you taller than 85 percent of men in the world?

2. Are you born before 1993, still likes to party and doesn't want kids?

3. Are you willing to choke her?

If your answer is yes then congratulations you can have the opportunity to be with her, sadly you weren't in the game so she ended up with no guys at the end of the video.

An Antidote

The problem for a lot of these incels is that they lack self-improvement, they think they’re worth as a human is based on someone else's opinion, and they lack meaning or purpose for their life. You’re not entitled to anything if you don’t like the way you’re life is going, you still have time to change it as long as you're breathing.