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The Walk in Relationships
We only go through life from relationship to relationship, because they are stepping stones. Some relationships may hold us down , some may push us forward , and some may hurt us. Some of us may get stuck and maned in the walk of life and that may require a great amount of time for healing, are some of us it just make us stronger and a better person to move on in life with love. That is the most important part of it all is that we still have love and passion for our lives.
Some of us may choose not to walk this way through life and go it alone and that is okay.I'm sure everyone knows that relationships takes a great amount of energy, and you have to work together.
When we find ourselves going through relationships:
We know what we need from the other person
We know what we don't need from the other person
We know how to conduct and control our life
For instance, now when we conduct or control our life.....
We drink from our own fountain, and bask in our own space
SPACE
We should feel free to choose. We should be healthy both mentally and physically.We can love and except love. Nutrition eating.
Sleep great.We should always feel a comfort zone, never feel distance from oneself. Joyful from within and live peaceful. Our minds should never feel like a war inside.
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Now when we let people into our space,that's good but only if that person is adding and not taking away from us. The energy will connect not collide
When someone in a relationship tells us they don't socialize there is something very dark about that person. So don't we for one minute think that the other person will want us to be social. That person will close your world down to only themselves.They will even turn our family members into outsiders. That is their control working for their purpose only.
When the other person uses the word care in the sense of needing to know your every move. This also consider insecurity on their behalf. They will began to instill fear and negative thoughts in our thought pattern. In ways as saying things like ( I worry about you, so much can happen to you out there).
( My Saying!) Nothing can happen that GOD can't handle he's everywhere!
When we began to worry.Worry brings negative thoughts and if they can enter into our space with negative words. It cause use to worry about their thoughts. That is when fear enters into our space. We become negative and out of control and fearful.
Fountain
Words we speak
Things that we share with other people will never be negative
We will never handicap people to need us.
Our fountain will flow up from inside of us and out away from us never to hold someone captive
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Now when we find ourselves saying and doing things we normally would not do. We are now outside of our self and outside of peace. We began to war with not only the other person but with the real you to keep the other person satisfied.That is the start of bad habits.When we feel our hearts bleed and that the other person feels so satisfied in our distress and near death experience dealing with them. This not good for anyone.We have to come to the point to say no more. It will drain your space of oxygen.
Memories
We only cry because of memories
Things we all can do without
People leave us with everlasting impressions
The people that are important will always remain
The ones that don't know you will forget your scent,
but always remember your footprints
The people you touch with deepness will see and hear
you always.
(c)2009(Sharon Smith)
We should want to always say: Hello! sunshine, good morning life. To always notice how pretty the flowers are, and how green the grass is. When we look up at the sky and see that there is no limits only forever. We will see everything as a stepping stone and not a stumbling block.There will always be a new horizon. Remember all sun sets are not the same some are hotter than others and that sun set means the end of that day and the beginning of a new one.
We have never really danced until we can put music on and dance in a large or small room and still feel as if we are not alone. We can feel God holding us close. When we get where we need to be everything come to us so calm. Now we are walking in our space and drinking from our fountain.Our joy is true.No one can take that away because it is apart of us.
When we speak it is fragrance not just a word it will always stay where it has fallen upon a heart.
Be always thankful for the places our hearts have traveled in and out of love.It truly have made us a walking book. We just might speak something that will cause someone to leap forward without bumps and bruises.
I truly believe everything that we cast out comes back to us.So make sure we cast good things out it will come back and make us feel large. GOD has all our deposits.
Always end our day or a relationship with a smile or a laugh just to know our sun has set.The next day will be very different. Move on with joy not fear or a distaste for our new day in life.
With all my heart I want to say thanks for listening and I hope I always give life and inspiration.
I will exit with this last poem,
Change
Old things go new things come
Why do we fear to touch and handle
the things we can't see or understand
To move on what we can't see or
understand is truly flying
God keeps bring us to quietness
God calms the waves and deepens
our seas
And we will see the rainbows across
our waters
(c)2009Sharon Smith
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Comments
- Author
Hello Sun-Girl thanks for your visit and comment.
Peace!
Sharon Smith
Very thoughtful and interesting hub which is well shared.
- Author
Thanks Eddy111 for stopping by and leaving a comment.
I hope that you carry those words with you.
God Bless you!
Sharon Smith
This is a beautiful hub. I really enjoyed Memories and the line "people who are important will remain". Thanks for sharing the love.
- Author
Thanks very much,And if God should say tommrow I will tell you that as well.
Greetings, as I read your time of pleasure to write upon, whats on your hear many topics and many subjects come to mind Free spirit, wisdom and solfier of life swift as you are to turn the pages. yet write about the exsperience. lessons taught is always better then lessons bought, your writting will inspire readers to understand that the power of God is present and true contunie to writting and continue to be used in all getting take understanding to the highest and be a voice for the lowely take care Mr. Hodges Taylor
- Author
Soul and Spirit sisters we are.I share my wings.
Hey Girl this article has made my day. Very inspirational and thoughtful . You seem to be my soul sister,I really realy like your writings.
- Author
Thanks for stoping by.
- Author
Thanks for stoping by.
So much truth, very good hub!
- Author
Thanks Sis I preach what i have lived.
Love it, I can't tell you how these words are so true as well as an inspiration. LOVE YOU SOOOO MUCH!!!!!!!!
- Author
Yes Mame',Im on my journey.i love life and good people. some like good food and wine..... (smile)But that to.
Keep going the way you are and I'm sure you will :)
- Author
Thanks Duchess, and i love your name.I hope to have It full by the end of this life.
You are definitely a person whose glass is half full instead of half empty.
Nice hub!
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