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Stealth Panties For Men | Three Kinds Of Lingerie She Won't Know You're Wearing

Updated on July 15, 2011

I like to talk about fashion freedom a lot, but that doesn't mean we should forget those men still languishing under the tyranny of special people in their lives who would indulge in extreme moral panic if they were to discover them wearing lingerie, or men who want to wear lingerie in public but don't want to risk being caught.


Camisoles are a man who wears lingerie furtively's best friend. Why? Because he gets to enjoy the feel of being encased in smooth nylon without being accused of being gay. A camisole can easily be mistaken for a vest, the socially acceptable male equivalent of the camisole. (Everyone knows that a vest is perfectly fine for a man to wear, but a camisole could damage his DNA irreparably.) Many camisoles come trimmed with lace, which can be removed if you want to go totally lingerie incognito, or simply enjoyed under a buttoned up shirt. (Preferably a dark shirt, at that.)

Granny Panties

Granny panties, aka full briefs are also a godsend for the man who loves lingerie but doesn't want to be seen wearing it. Granny panties usually come in the same sensual fabrics as more visually appealing lingerie, however they can be obtained without the lace trimming which makes them so obviously female attire, and in neutral colors such as black, white, ivory and beige. If you want to wear panties that feel good, but have a problem with the significant other in your life snooping about your lingerie area, simply remove the tags. If the cut and color are neutral enough, it is unlikely anyone will be able to ID the specific brand.

Men's Lingerie

They do make sensual lingerie for men, believe it or not. Check out ActivSkin for details. Manufacturers such as this one produce a wide range of nylon stockings, tights, briefs and nightwear designed for men. Even the most conservatively minded partner is going to have a hard time objecting on gender specific attire grounds if you're wearing this sort of lingerie.

The downside here is that, aside from the stockings, which look pretty much the same as women's stockings, the attire does have a very masculine cut to it. This may disappoint those men looking for women's lingerie that looks pretty, but it is sure to please those men who just want the sensation of sweet lingerie in their lives.

As with all things in relationships, at the end of the day, it's about compromise. Your partner may not be comfortable with you wearing women's lingerie for one reason or another, but might otherwise be a perfectly loving person. Finding lingerie that makes you feel good and doesn't freak her out is a good compromise. As is the occasional private time when you do (and wear) whatever you want to (within reason, I'm not endorsing cheating or other such activities here, if it has come to the point where you're ready to cheat on someone, you might want to evaluate the relationship or consider opening it up.)


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      freddiemac 8 years ago

      Granny panties are great. I get the best feal and support from them. I waer panties for feel not for looks Other don't support me right.

      Any comments about bras......Guys ?

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      cheshirekatt40 8 years ago

      I like the camisole idea. But I wouldn't be caught dead in granny panties :-)

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      SatinJenni 8 years ago from Burlington Ontario Canada

      Personally I enjoy wearing a satin wide shouldered chemise under my clothing. It's a bit longer than a cami and will bunch if its too long but I'm a bit taller at 6'1. In winter I can even get away with wearing my spaghetti strapped chemise under other clothes. I absolutely adore the feel of satin polyester on my fresh shaved hairless chest. Dainty, and absolutely feminine with every move all day long!

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      Gunnau 8 years ago from Central Coast NSW Australia

      Hi Hope

      I wear lace and some super soft camisoles almost everyday especialy in winter.

      And Granny Panties. Oh Hope. Granny panties are awsome. Comfy, Roomy and nylon soft. My wife is not a fan of the granny panties. She prefers more lycra and a little more fitting, but i love them.

      We both love Comfilons night shirts and i have a kaftan and pantyhose.(i must get that other order finished) Steve K has done wonders for mens fashions has Bodyaware and Xdress.

      Do men need more lingerie? HELL YEAH!!!