- Gender and Relationships
Top qualities man wants in his wife
Be a wife a man dreams of..
Physical beauty plays a vital part in making a man feel attracted to you when he is in love with you. Each and every action of yours makes him feel even more engrossed in you and it makes you feel happy to see him admiring your beautiful assets. But what makes you bewildered is his attitude after marriage. You feel your husband is overlooking your beauty and seems to seek something else in you .You sense that he is a totally changed person, no longer the easily satisfied lover, but an ever demanding husband. You see, a man always bow to care and attention and when he feels this aspect lacking in his wife he feels lost and befuddled.
Care is the most important aspect that your husband seeks after marriage. He seeks a mother in you and if you are able to satisfy his yearning of a maternal love, he feels satisfied and secure in his marriage. You should cook his favorite dish and you will get reciprocal feedback of pleased love from him. If you cook an indifferent meal, you get an apathetic and resentful silence from him. A man always feels cared for if his wife takes efforts to cook food which appeals to him and feels unloved when he is served an indifferent food.
You should understand that a man never bows for nagging. When you feel your husband doing something which you do not like, you start telling him where he is wrong .You do not stop there, you keep repeating it and your husband gets irritated by your constant nagging and that is when your husband starts hiding things from you as he fears your lashing tongue. When you feel you should say something about what he has done, do not tell your husband when he is off mood. He will retaliate in a vicious manner and you will be embedded in his mind as a perpetual nag, something you will not want to be.
Tenderness and softness in your attitude is something which your husband will never tire of .If you talk in a loud voice and behave in a manly manner, it will put him off. If you are utterly feminine in your behavior and have the capacity to boost his ego, then he becomes totally obsessed by you .Today the modern woman overlook this most important characteristic of marriage and go on about equality and women’s right. You are of course equal and more than equal to your husband ,but what is the point in being in loggerheads with your husband about your rights when he will more than give it to you if you can enter his heart as a woman who understands him fully.
Lending him a warm shoulder when he is in a problem and lifting his sagging morale will make your husband completely fixated about you. A man always feels lost when he is caught in a problem and if you aggravate it by pointing your fingers at him; he will shut his problem within himself and become morose and bewildered. If your husband thinks only of you when he is in difficulty and feels you are the only one with whom he can confidently share his feeling, and then you can be proud that you have an essential quality of a perfect wife.
Physical intimacy leads to mental intimacy also. Do not be mechanical in the bedroom and you should be able to satisfy his male needs. You should know the tricks to completely satisfy him. You should not be sweaty and be shabbily dressed and if you are like that he will be averse to be close to you and everything becomes routine and without fire. It is you who should instigate the fire in him by being neat and smelling good. A physically satisfied man is always a content husband.
The list is endless and when you get involved in being a good wife, you will understand the tricks to become your husband’s cherished partner .A man is easily satisfied when his woman takes care of him in a motherly way and controls his life, not by authority, but by ever giving love and affection.