- Gender and Relationships
Wanting a Guy to Commit Who Won't
Have you ever wanted a guy more than anything and he liked you too? The only problem was he wouldn't commit to you? You wanted to be a couple more than anything and no matter how hard you tried to impress him he never called you or took that chance with you?
One of the worst feelings in the world is when the guy you like likes you back but you cannot be together. You chase him and do everything you could to be with him but no matter what you do sometimes he makes you feel like you are not good enough. You know he likes you but everything you do just won't make you his girlfriend.
You dress up in your hottest offits and he checks you out. You hope that he contacts you. He has your number so why isn't he calling? His friends all tells you he likes you? You hear them tease him about you whenever you are around. You see how his face lights up with you and he goes over to them and tells them that you are here. He gets how you get when you see him or how you used to get when you used to see guys in the past who you were head over heels in love with.
You pretend you do not care because he told you he cannot be in a relationship at the moment. He said he is attracted to you and you know that he is telling you the truth. All you want him to say is wait for him. Please do not give up on us. Do not give up on me. I love you. He won't. Instead he pushes you away by assuming it will not work because he is focusing on your differences instead of taking a risk and focusing on the positive things that the both of you share together.
You keep thinking of all of the positive things between you and him. You are always there for him when he needs someone to talk to. You raise him up when he is down. You always get along. Your not only people who are about to start dating but your friends as well. You knew each other a long time and then something started to happen only now he got scared and he is refusing to commit.
There are plenty of guys in the world and there are guys out there who do want commitment. Of course there are guys out there who do just want to have fun. You could meet guys anywhere. You never know where you are going to meet your next love. Years ago people just went out to dances to meet someone but now with technology there is online dating and people are getting back in touch through Facebook with their old loves. Just put yourself out there and you never know what will happen.
If you keep chasing the guy who will not commit you will get your heart broken. He can want to be with and he probably does but if he does not commit to you, you will never be the only girl in his life. You will do anything and everything in your power to get his attention when he will like it but he will continue to do his own thing. You do not know what he is doing in his free time and when you find out that he is out with other girls it will hurt. He will also use the excuse "I could do whatever I want because we are not together." That could hurt too.
If you want commitment find someone who will commit to you. Find someone who will make you his only girl and who is proud to be with you.
Of course you never know what will happen in the future. What is meant to be will be. There are plenty of couples who met and one was not ready for a relationship and years later they got together. Right now leave it up to the universe and find someone who will give you your whole heart. Who will appreciate you and want only you.