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What Does Friendliness Mean to You
Be friendly with your enemies
What is Friendliness?
The friendly person welcomes you into their homes and hearts and treats you as one and the same.
You share your life with that person.
When you feel lonely you have this person in your life to share your interests and belongings with each other.
You get to share your friendliness with that person.
· How do you feel when you practice Friendliness?
Once you get the hang of it, you will see how good it will make you feel.
Friendliness starts from day one of meeting someone.
As you get to spend time together you see the kindness of the other person.
Friendliness is not about expecting anything in return from the other person.
The friendly habit kicks in, and you realize how much friendliness matters to you without great expectations.
You feel content with yourself.
Others feel friendly toward you.
When new to a group you feel the awkward moment and look around you with despair.
Your first day at school, be it at kindergarten, or high school, these are experiences that can make you feel alone and put in a corner.
People feel happy and good about themselves when in a conversation and, especially after breaking the ice.
The first words spoken set you free.
Your first day at work can make you a nervous wreck.
The little conversations shows the friendliness in the other person and that continues if you let that happen for you.
If you start being friendly toward someone you don't like, or is not your favorite person. That person won't believe what has happened to you.
They will be cautious and look at you with an opened mouth.
You need to be sincere and have true meaning in your friendliness toward that person. They will open up to you when they feel your true emotions.
You conquer loneliness, the feeling of inadequacy, and shyness when you are open to friendliness.
As a child, I was shy and that held me back from speaking to people.
I had one very good friend at school, and others were friendly but I preferred the one friend I had.
I developed the courage to speak up and to approach other children.
Often I watched others while they laughed and danced at school parties
The need a change at some point in my life and that happened at my first year of college.
I met new people and enjoyed myself more and with new people.
I still had my one friend. The idea of meeting new people was to show my friendliness to others too.
I felt more outgoing and happier.
I prefer to be smiley, friendly, happy, encouraging, positive, confident, close to good people, and to embrace each day with an open mind.
I didn't want to miss out on the good times with friends in college. I approached others in a positive manner.
I decided to speak first, to be courageous, and comfortable with people.
I didn't want to think of how awkward I will feel approaching others.
I showed interest in others not thinking of how they will react toward me.
The sweet an short conversations opened up my voice and I was heard.
Force is not needed to show friendliness.
I focused on the other person.
I remained calm.
Eye contact is good for both individuals.
I had to show I am interested in their conversations.
I learned to be friendly with all ages.
It brightens up my day to be friendly with all ages.
I don't wait for the other person to be friendly at first. I am usually the first one who speaks first.
I make the effort.
I avoid sarcasm and prefer using kind words and to elaborate on conversations.
If I use sarcasm it will make the friendliness disappear.
Short answers are not my style of friendliness.
I connect easily with people I meet daily.
To be friendly you must be faithful.
Look forward to meeting people and make new friends easily.
Enjoy the company of others.
Say hello to your neighbors.
Don't only look to your own interests.
Also pay attention to the interests of others.
Your treasure is your faithful friend.
Grow stronger and be positive in your mind and with others.
Friendliness shows happiness and peace.
Spread the love and be happy with life.
Friendliness comes from the heart.
You can talk to your family about friendliness and to anyone you know but, you won't know what friendliness is, unless you show it from within to another person.
You can be successful with friendliness.
The qualities you share develop the truth in your life about friendliness.
The constant care you have over yourself and what you have manifested in your life shows for your friendliness.
You become stronger than you really are with friendliness and positive minds.
· What makes you want be friendly?
· What do you benefit from friendliness?
· Are you that faithful friend?
Everybody needs to be warm and friendly.
Some people are only friendly if they need a favor from you.
Others are friendly because they are born with a warm soul.
Your basic desires come from your character which is based on your family traits.
You need to be friendly with people to show your good side and that you are not as they are.
Sometimes friendliness can ruin friendships.
You are the friendly one and your friend is not.
Conversations can lead to wrong directions. You can be supportive and also aggressive in your conversations.
No need to be unpleasant.
Different people view friendliness in different ways as in the following ways:
· What is Obsequiousness?
When someone is very friendly they are described as obsequious, and sometimes as fawning.
Such types will always say, ‘‘Yes,'' and impress others.
These people don't challenge the wrongful behavior to those they impress.
Friendly people care and speak up when something is not right.
· What is Churlishness?
People who are unfriendly are Churlish and are sometimes called contentious individuals.
These people don't agree with anything you have to say to them.
They don't have anything good to talk about anyone.
They are unpleasant to be with and hurt the feelings of others easily.
Churlish people look forward to a challenge and are up for a challenge at anytime, or place.
These types of people are not happy people.
Their behaviors show for it.
Don't use your friendliness to use friends that won't take you anywhere nice.
· Do you think friendliness is a sign of weakness?
· Is friendliness an attempt to use, or please others?
· Can you make a different with friendliness?
Friendliness makes you feel better than the angry person.
You discover new people and ideas.
Opportunities are not missed.
Some people can be most difficult and with your willpower you can take on that challenge with respect.
Treat others with respect and care for others too.
Your friendly behavior shows your personality to other people in a different manner.
Happiness is felt in your good deeds.
If you are friendly with people in hope of them returning the favor that to me is selfish.
To be true and friendly to another person you must express that from the heart not from what you want for yourself, or of what you will gain from it.
When you show your friendliness in a truthful way you tend to be with same types.
Everything in life is a challenge you just got to do what makes you happy.
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