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What Every Women Want From Man in a Relationship

Updated on October 31, 2019
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Many times men think that women are much more complicated than they are, but are they? Women, as a general, maybe more expressive and emotional than men, but the truth is that it is very easy to make a woman happy. For those who have often wondered what women really want, here is a list of things that, with a little foreknowledge, fall within the logic.

Their boyfriends always become their best friends, confidants and, of course, lovers. So we need to know what they really want or feel.

1. They like us to strive

They like that we strive to please them. Call your girlfriend to see how the day went, write a beautiful message or plan something special for the anniversary. Do not leave everything for them.


2. They like the details

In the same lineage as the previous one is this point. Nobody asks for jewelry or five-star hotels. But a romantic dinner, some chocolate or some flowers are a perfect (and affordable) way for them to feel good, and to keep love alive.

3. They like sincerity

If you are in a relationship, you must be sincere. Don't ever lie, mate. Else you are doomed.

4. They like trust.

Be trustworthy. Don't ever dare to share her secrets with your closest friend too. She may be sharing your secrets with her friends. But, that does not work the same for you also. If she ever finds out that you are sharing her secrets, then not only will your relationship end, but she will haunt you for eternity. Also, don't get confused if her friends stop talking to you suddenly.

5. Women like maturity

They want a person by their side under any circumstance. If they have a work problem, a wedding that they have to attend by commitment or a sick family member, they love that we show them our support in a mature way and are by their side. Note that she may not ask directly to go to a function, but she wants you to. If she says that there is a function that she needs to attend, then offer immediately. Or the girly talk of you not being helpful and other blah ... blah ...

6. They like gentlemen

They like men to be gentlemen. This does not mean that you have to pay for any dinner. But the fact of accompanying them to the door of the house, that you let them choose where to sit in the cinema or in the restaurant or, why not, that you offer to pay (although they refuse ) - they love it.

7. They like to be your priority

They need to feel that they are more important than the Play Station (though they are not) or a party plan with your friends (Lol). They will say that you can have fun or hang out with your friends, but "not now!" Just make sure that you never focus anywhere than her while she is near.

8. They like to be appreciated.

If they get pretty for you, they want you to realize. It's that easy - or they think it's easy. They like you to realize that they are wearing a new dress or perfume. So, you must get familiar with all of her dresses and perfume.

So no one told you what women want? No women tell by themself that this is what they want, but they want us to know by ourselves. But hey, I told you eight of the things you need to know. Others, you will figure out by yourself. A bonus tip - Laugh at all of her jokes, or she might even be planning to make you feel embarrassed in front of all her ladies' friends. Even Einstein could not understand women - who are we? So, be prepared if anything does not work out. It is always your mistake - never theirs!

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    • blessedboy profile imageAUTHOR

      Sajal Ghimire 

      5 months ago from Nepal

      I agree with you @dashingscorpio ... Most of the girls end up choosing the wrong guy... That competition thing you were talking about - I have seen that happening many times...

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      dashingscorpio 

      5 months ago from Chicago

      And yet there are many women who will CHASE after men who offer them none of the above!

      Some of women go through a "bad boy" phase.

      You could stick such a woman in a room with five guys and have four them drop to their knees extending their heart to her while the 5th guy sits in a corner sipping on a cocktail acting as if she doesn't exist.

      That will be the guy she wants to get to know!

      She sees him as a "mystery" or "challenge" and she has to prove to herself she can gain his attention. If she learns other women desire him it makes him worth even more as she competes in order to (win) his love. She'll never know where she stands with him and while that frustrates her it also keeps her interested and motivated. Drama is viewed as romantic novels and movies.

      We often hear: "Nice guys finish last."

      However no one has ever heard of: "the lonely (bad boy), (player), (narcissist), (gangster), or (thug).

      Do you think that's a coincidence? No!

      Women often claim they want one kind of man while saying (yes) to the opposite type of men over and over again.

      It's not until after several heartaches and betrayals that many women are willing to give a "nice guy" a shot. When they do so it's a "practical" decision and not an organic one.

      What many of them want is a "bad boy" with "swagger" who treats (them) like the exception. They put "nice guys" in the friend zone.

      "It's always the (bad boy) who makes a girl's heart beat faster."

      Mature women are the ones looking for the traits you mentioned.

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