What Happens When A Man Secretly Wears Lingerie
In spite of their shortcomings in the lingerie acceptance department, women who won't support their husbands wearing lingerie may otherwise be excellent partners and mothers. No human can be everything to everyone, in spite of all Hallmark's attempts to convince you otherwise. Every single person currently in a relationship that works knows that they settled on some issues that were never outlined in any romance novel. A man can be utterly in love with a woman who could never understand his desire to wear women's clothing, and in those instances, which are unfortunately far too common to be described as rare, a man is left with a choice.
As unfulfilling as a relationship with a person who demands that you meet ken doll expectations of dress may seem to many of us, we're not you. And if you decide that you want a relationship with a woman in spite of the fact that she is imperfect in the areas of unconditional love and acceptance then personally I do not see any shame in continuing to wear lingerie away from her presence.
We open up to our partners in order to give them a chance to join us in our personal joys. If they choose not to share them, that does not mean we must also cast them away. As long as they do not impinge on the family's happiness or well being, every person should be free to pursue their personal interests and happiness as long as they wish.
Of course, some women won't just stop at being happy that you're no longer talking about lingerie. Some women may try to make their man stop wearing lingerie ever. They may guilt a man and make him promise to throw his lingerie away. I can assure you that if you agree to this and actually do it, you will be back buying panties within the year and your relationship will suffer from the natural resentments that arise from such ultimatums. Does resentment and bitterness sound good? No? But wait! There's more!
Once you're back buying panties, you'll find a new joy. The joy of forbidden fruits. Wearing lingerie is always a bit of a taboo for a man, but wearing lingerie secretly under dire threat of wifely displeasure if you're caught out? You're going to love that. It's like an incredibly addictive guilt fueled drug.
Wives are not jailers. Their job is not to micro-manage every moment of a man's life. Having written that, I'm going to go inform my boyfriend that it is bed time. Because there's no advice like imperfect, mildly hypocritical advice.