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What Happens when you Marry a Rich Man

Updated on November 8, 2016
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Poor Woman and Rich Man

Life gets tough, and when you live for only the best times in life that to me is not a normal in one's mind.

You forget about the true meaning of life. Reality is not noticed.

Your focus is of what money can buy you.

Dating the rich type of guys sounds wonderful. An experience you want to live for and be there to take in what you really want from your young life.

I had rich friends but did not date the rich type of guys.

What happens when you marry the rich man?

I am not talking about the man of your dreams.

A man you barely know who is rich to take care of your needs.

I am familiar with an individual who married a rich man. She is not the number one on his list.

Money is his priority not his wife.

A couple who makes money their priority.

Money can buy them gifts, and their happiness. At least it is what they think in their rich lifestyle.

He don't show her romance, or affection.

Rich means everything in their marriage.

Not many women would resist a rich man.

Think about the reality without much of that money.

He gives her everything she wants in her life.

His heart is for someone else.

She thinks money can buy her happiness, maybe until the money dries out.

When he buys her a pair of boots she is ecstatic about it. Shopping gives her more than just pleasure also as an addiction.

Money gives her everything she wants so she is happy in that way.

Marrying a rich man is of great benefit, if you are looking for the specifics in daily requirements and more.

What about love, happiness, good health, and a simple meaning to life?

You can't have it all, or can you?

So, if you are looking for someone to fulfill your basic needs, you know what is important to you.

The benefits of marrying a rich man is greater than just your basic needs.

Your life feels too easy, and so luxurious.

In a rich lifestyle you forget about what really matters to you.

The true feeling of love, happiness, and hardship.

You married for money and that would stick by you for all times.

What happens when money runs out?

Pampering you with the best of life and forgetting about the simple experiences is not everything to look forward to in a rich lifestyle.

Off-course you want to feel pampered once in a while with something special.

When you make gifts a bigger part of your life in a marriage, you forget what you are missing most in your life.

The meaning of laughter won't exist in your life. A fake smile to others would make you want to please others.

You think having everything in your rich life means to look at others in a different way.

To live for designer clothing and jewelry means your life is top shelf.

In this case, the woman came from a poor lifestyle. She is married to a rich man and focuses on what she could buy and money is no issue for her.

The rich man is in control of his finances and she has got no control over his money.

When she needs something he buys it.

It is a nicer thought when you have it easy, and can afford anything you want when married to a rich man.

Everything comes easy when you have money.

She is an old-fashioned house wife. An unexpected dream for this woman. Married to a rich man and loves going shopping.

He is not the party type of guy. The rich man spends most of his time working in the fields. His old lifestyle has not changed even after marriage. His priorities are his close friends and working his day job. Thereafter, to managing farm work.

Parties don't interest him just work, and work.

Money is the root of all evil!

Rich man married to a poor woman.

Money drives couples apart for many reasons.

The constant arguments about money can lead to divorce as it has in many cases.

The personality traits of individuals shows their true personalities.

The class differences in my custom does show for that and more of the individual.

Women who grew up with poor backgrounds seek rich men.

Sometimes these women get lucky and stay with the one rich person as in, ''till death do us part.'' There are times when a woman won't handle the rich man's demands and would choose to get away from that marriage.

However, the desperate types would stay forever.

The privileged types don't bother much about that rich man.

Intimate lives for the privileged couples are so much better, in comparison to those who focus their issues on how much money they have in their bank accounts.

Love brings people together and in some cases money brings people together.

Families are happier when with certain people.

A couple from different backgrounds shows each other where they come from and of what they had, or didn't have in their lives.

Does money strengthen the bond between married couples?

Money is required for basic needs and for the extra requirements. Sometimes for both couples, or for just one person in the marriage.

The rich who married a woman from a different background is not truly happy in his marriage.

There is no effective communication.

Always complaints about her needs has caused him many frustrated moments in spending his money.

Most families don't discuss from childhood of the many money issues.

It is an appropriate discussion.

A proper understanding of money problems requires the free speech in any home.

She needs to understand why lavish spending is not allowed.

It is easy to have a visa card. How you plan to use that card could be an issue.

She chooses to spend as much as she can on fashionable clothing.

Avoid living beyond a budget.

Don't buy what is not on your list.

Agree on how to pay debts.

Shop till you drop is how this woman prefers to live each day.

He works his hardest for her to spend his money.

The easy life came to her by surprise.

Stress is one of main causes of money arrangements.

The other cause is unhappiness.

An older rich guy, and married to a poor woman.

One needs to be educated about the use of money.

She is not the type who wants to be educated and is not smart.

To fit into a rich lifestyle that she is not familiar with is a great adjustment.

She needs a better personality to fit into that rich lifestyle.

Her poor spending shows her disregard for his money.

It is a strain in their relationship.

It depends on how she started her life.

Was she a hard worker?

Does she prefer to sit at home and prey on his money?

She is arrogant, and domineering.

In this case, she prefers to spend his money.

Her showing off ways proves that money means everything to her lifestyle.

Most of what they do is to show others but not to show to themselves.

Some people prefer money to any other normal way of life.

I chose to enjoy my life with a simple lifestyle.

I was not taught to make money a priority.

I started my life with not much and grew to a new life in Croatia.

I am happy and know the good moments of love, and affection.

Most rich people forget to see reality because they think money solves all issues in their stinking rich lives.

Another reason for such behavior when married to a rich man.

She did not have it before and now trying to hold on to what she never had.

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      Bill Holland 18 months ago from Olympia, WA

      I'll never know what happens when you marry a rich man. :)

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      Sally Gulbrandsen 18 months ago from Norfolk

      Hi Devika,

      It seems to me that money is the root of all evil. Without much it can make for a very difficult life. Unfortunately having too much does not even guarantee happiness. Perhaps the important thing is that one learns to strike a balance and enjoy what one has and those who you either live with or keep company with.

      All the best,

      Sally.

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 18 months ago from The Caribbean

      Devika, you present the downside in a very practical way; but also promote that money is necessary. The issue if finding the balance. Interesting!

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      Nell Rose 18 months ago from England

      I know I would never marry a rich guy, I went out with one once, he was the biggest headed, most arrogant guy I have ever met! I walked out of the pub with a 'seeya' over my shoulder! lol!

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      Ruby Jean Fuller 18 months ago from Southern Illinois

      I was married to a rich man and I say loud and clear, " Money is nice but it can't buy love. " Give me a honest Dude who loves to dance, loves God, and family. Now that's a good catch! Great topic DDE.

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      Devika Primić 18 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      billybuc Thank you for stopping by appreciate it.

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      Devika Primić 18 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      sallybea Thank you very much for stopping by. ''Too much money doesn't guarantee happiness.'' Well-mentioned.

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      Devika Primić 18 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      MsDora, I am glad you understand my pint of view about money. I appreciate you stopping by.

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      Devika Primić 18 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Nell Rose, Good on you for walking away when you had. Thank you for sharing that, I appreciate you stopping by.

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      Devika Primić 18 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      always exploring thank you for sharing your comments here. always appreciated.

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      FlourishAnyway 18 months ago from USA

      Rich men tend to like prenuptials and have powerful lawyers and connections who can destroy you when you become yesterday's news. Give me a smart, hard working and honest man who can make me laugh and who knows how to dance. I can handle our money.

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      Shyron E Shenko 18 months ago from Texas

      Devika, I am married to a hard working Carpenter and I married him for love. "No regrets"

      Yes the "Love of Money is the root of all evil."

      Blessings and Hugs.

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      Devika Primić 18 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      FlourishAnyway, I so agree with you. Thank you for stopping by at my hubs always appreciated.

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      Devika Primić 18 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Shyron E Shenko Thank you very much for stopping by. All my best to you.

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      Dave 18 months ago from Lancashire north west England

      Devika , another excellent subject to contemplate. I believe that the less money you have the more you appreciate its value. My love of nature will always override the love of money. I get more out of seeing wildlife than I ever would out of seeing gold. Thank you for sharing.

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      Devika Primić 18 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi D.A.L. Very kind of you stop by here. I appreciate the encouraging comment as usual you put a smile on my face with such comments.

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      Linda Crampton 17 months ago from British Columbia, Canada

      You've asked a very important question, Devika. "What happens when money runs out?" Money can be nice, but only if love is stronger than money. Thanks for another thought provoking article.

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      Devika Primić 17 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      AliciaC I appreciate you comments have a blessed weekend.

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      Shaloo Walia 16 months ago

      Materialism has overshadowed everything, even love. Girls nowadays look for a rich spouse. They think that money will take care of everything in the marriage.

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      Devika Primić 16 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Swalia thank you kindly for sharing your comment. Enjoy the weekend!

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      ocfireflies 16 months ago from North Carolina

      Devika,

      You describe well the trappings of a marriage not based on love , but luxuries. Ironically, even though I am by no stretch of the imagination, rich financially, the men in my life have not been either--that is, until I sent them on their way--smiles...

      Blessings,

      Kim

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      Devika Primić 16 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      ocfireflies I know someone who is married to a wealthy man and prefers the good side of that marriage. Good on you for sending these men on their way. Well said! Thank you kindly for stopping by.

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      Sharilee Swaity 15 months ago from Canada

      DDE, wow, this was good! Your points were so true and wise. Thanksf for writing!

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      Paula 15 months ago from Beautiful Upstate New York

      Devika.....I always enjoy your work , as well as learn something valuable. Money certainly cannot take the place of pure, honest love. It seems to me the ideal situation would be have both!

      Sadly this rarely happens due to so much of what you mention in your hub....selfishness, cheating, arrogance. It's a shame that having wealth does unpleasant things to many of those who have it.

      I can agree with you that there are more important things for many couples and we'd all do well to recognize our priorities. Peace, Paula

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      moonlake 15 months ago from America

      I know a man that became rich. He ran his wife off because to him everything was his. He has since had girlfriends. They don't seem to last.

      My aunt and uncle became rich together they shared everything. They were married over 60 years.

      We were as poor as church mice and we never became rich. It lasted 52 years.

      I believe you can marry rich and be happy. You have to make sure the man is a kind man. I don't think it's hard to tell when someone isn't kind. Watch how they treat people in public, animals, their mother and their children if they have any.

      Enjoyed your hub.

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      Devika Primić 15 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hello prairieprincess I am glad to have read your comment. It's nice to have new meaningful comments thank for reading and sharing your thoughts.

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      Devika Primić 15 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hi Paula thank you very much for sharing your views here. So glad you stopped by.

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      Devika Primić 15 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Hello moonlake So kind of you to share a comment. I appreciate you stopping by. Glad you enjoyed my hub.

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