What a woman wants
What she wants
- Good communication
- To be able to talk to you about anything
- To know that you care and that you listen even if it's not something you agree with
- To be a best friend and lover.
- To be able to trust you no matter what
To know that she is loved
Everyone want to be loved by someone and saying i love you just isn't enough sometimes.
Show her that you love her by Hugging her and kissing her without reason.
Or holding her hand when your out in public.
These acts of affection can speak more volume than words..
Even noticing the little things that she has changed about herself lately let's her know that you do pay attention to her.
Honesty is key
Be open and honest, we love honesty...
Talk to her about things other then work or the family.
There is so much to talk about, if you are constantly talking about the same things over and over there is or will be a problem in your relationship.
It is very important to discuss your emotions and feelings with your partner.
These deep conversations will bring you both together and help you to stay together.
Quality time
In order to spend quality time with the ones you love,
You will need to make time in your schedule.
This quality time should be used to connect and bond with each other.
Good in bed
All women want someone who's good in bed and shows mutual interest in the things that they like.. or at least willing to try new things.
Always make sure that she is satisfied, you never want to finish and leave her unsatisfied.
The only way that you would know if she is satisfied is by asking.
You can't just assume.
Use some of these tips to help
- Stay away from routine
- Use foreplay
- Try a quickie
- Schedule it in advance
- Do some research
- Use spaces outside of your bedroom
Have a fun sex life with your partner.
Do something different every now and then.
Date night
Even if you have been together for a while, you should always want to keep that spark between the two of you..
A romantic gesture goes a long way.
Showing them that you have that same interest from when you guys first met is important.
She should know how you feel about her or where she stands in your life.
Here are some ways to spend quality time with your partner:
- Invite her to lunch or dinner
- Go out to the movies
- Date night at home
- Play a game
- Take dance lessons together
- Go hiking
- Go skydiving or bungee jumping
- Go for a picnic
- Go to karaoke
- Take a walk
Doing something fun together makes everything worth while.
Spice it up, have some fun.. enjoy each other's company.
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Comments
There so many factors which come into play.
First of all not all women are the same nor do they want the same things. Age, timing, and other factors such as whether or not she is attracted to the man or not are extremely important.
Secondly we have all heard: "Nice guys finish last."
However no one has ever heard of the (lonely) "bad boy", "narcissist", Alpha male/gangster, a-hole/jerk or "player".
Is that a coincidence? No!
Clearly many women go through a "bad boy" phase and oftentimes if they come across a "nice guy" they will put him in the "friend zone".
You could stick such a woman in a room with five guys and have four of them drop to their knees extending their heart towards her while the 5th guy sits in a corner sipping a cocktail acting as if she doesn't exist.
That will be the guy she wants to get to know!
She sees him as being (cool), a "mystery" or a "challenge". He'll make her have to "figure out" how to (earn) his attention and affections. If she learns other women want him his stock rises even higher.
A lot of these women love having "guess" what a man is thinking.
It's only after having their hearts broken or being betrayed several time that they make a conscious decision to date a "nice guy".
Ultimately it's not about figuring out what someone else wants but rather finding someone who will love you for who (you) are.
Naturally if we're attracted to someone we're going to put in the effort to get to know what is (they) like and expect.
There is no one size fits all. It's a case by case thing.