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What women need most from men !
A free aphrodisiac formula :)
A women is attracted to a man when there is a natural chemistry usually lust at first sight! especially true in the age range from 16-30.
From age 25+ some women will seek other material attributes i.e. Wealth,evidence of
successful career, material possession's, fancy car etc(Gold diggers) how tragic!
Lets hope that any educated man can see through this at that time and get out of that relationship quick!
However for the majority of normal honest and sincere women that share the same hopes and dreams with their partner and future together here's my list of the most straight forward simple formula to follow and adhere to for life:
- Always share the house hold chores! (No.1 in my opinion especially if you both work.)
- Allow time out for other interests or hobbies.
- If you have children show interest in their homework and regularly sit and read with them!
- Take it in turns to support your children in out of school activities i.e.All those chauffeuring trips, here, there and every party invite where!
- Surprises; we love them even if it is just a bar of chocolate and not the staying out till late and staying in bed till late the following day because of the fact that you drank the wrong beer/larger containing the wrong chemicals!
- Reading a bedtime story to the kids and making sure that they've been to the toilet and washed and brushed their teeth!
- Massage your partner after the kids have gone to sleep and don't expect any sexual favors for doing it in return!
- Make her a meal and create a romantic atmosphere i.e.candles,subdued lighting and a warm environment with low level volume easy listening background music of her choice of course.Wash/wipe put away.Sexual favors returned!
- Make the bed when you get up after having had a lie in bed on a weekend.
- Take a brew up to her in bed, when it's her turn to have a lie in bed!
- Take pride in your appearance and always smell nice.
- Complement your partner when she is looking and feeling her best; or has achieved something, no matter how small.
- Do not take photographs of her when she isn't feeling her best.
- Never use sexist comments to imply female inadequacy.
- Do not criticise partners relatives.
Plan ahead for time out together.
Follow the above criteria and I am sure this will prove to be one of the best free aphrodisiac formulas a women could receive!
P.S.The above list is based on my 18years of marriage and feedback from depressed women I have treated in my capacity as an aromatherapist and complementary practitioner.For pure essential oils to help increase libido you can use ylang ylang&black pepper (stimulating and sensual oils which when combined create a carnation fragrance.)See Secret potions for happiness.