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What would you do if your wife or husband called you another man's or woman's name when both of you make love?
Please tell me, what will you do if your wife or husband called you another man’s or woman’s name when making love to her/him?
We have heard many stories on news about men or women that had affair outside their marriages. The news mostly involves celebrities because they are well known in most places. Many other lovers that are not celebrities can tell a story or more on how their partners cheated on them. May be it is easier to live with it if you already know that your partner is not faithful. That is you can decide to carry on with your partner even when you are sure that he or she is a cheat. It hurts when we find out that our partner has not been faithful in our relationship or marriage. For instance some men in political office and other celebrities have been caught cheating on their wife. Some of them were divorced while others were pardoned because their wife knew they still love them and temptation led to the act. Above all, they know we are not perfect beings so we have our weakness and our strength.
Love is not only what differentiates lover from others because we are supposed to love one another. It follows that there are other special things lovers share together and sex may be the climax of such relationship as a special gift only shared by lover. That is the reason some people think that sex should be scared.
Let us assume that you never caught your partner cheat on you and, maybe, you do not even believe that your partner can cheat on you so you trusted your partner so much. Then how will you feel, and what will you do if your trusted partner was so much carried away in pleasure of sex when both of you made love that your partner repeatedly, in a whisper, called you another person’s name?
Will you stop immediately and ask, “who is ….?”
Do you continue and ask the questions later?
What will you do if your partner claims not to remember mentioning another name expect yours?
Will you still trust your partner again if he/she explained that it was a slip of the tongue?
Is it an enough reason to break up because of the fact that your partner connected another person to the most sacred gift shared by lovers?
We live in a world where anything can happen and things had happened so it is possible that some lovers had experienced such and they can let the world know how they felt. However, we can still imagine how we shall feel and what we shall do if such should happen. So is it easier to forgive your partner when you caught him/her cheat on you than to forgive when he/she called you another name in response to sex pleasure?