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When is it time to say Good bye?

Updated on March 18, 2012

If it’s time to say Goodbye

I’m take a step backwards here. A lot of relationships our doomed before marriage. The problem is we think somehow with that extra commitment that things will automatically change. THIS IS VERY WRONG. If you are in a relationship were you feel that you have to become a sex machine, or private investigator, or constantly battle to keep him interested in you then you’re not in a healthy relationship. Not every guy we meet will be the guy of our dreams, but when you have a lot of signs like crying more than smiling when you’re with him then it’s time to leave. It can be hard for an emotionally invested woman to leave a toxic relationship because we tend to think or see past the bad times and look at the good times we had.

When a guy has completely lost respect and interest in you he will show you by his actions when your either around or not around. Don’t make excuses for anyone, if the piece to the puzzle doesn’t fix don’t try to force it in. Just look for a new piece that fits. It’s the same with a relationship; nothing will change the outcome if you’re just not meant to be. Not a baby or marriage; which will make it 100 times worse. Just walk away proud and know that you just grew apart and don’t look back.


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    • Mistressoflove profile image

      Mistressoflove 6 years ago from Rhode Island

      Thank you Dr.Ope :)

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      Olive Ellis 6 years ago

      I agree with you 100%! Some of us think that marriage changes a person - not so at all! Very interesting hub Mistressoflove. All the best with your hubs!