When Will It End Part Two

Life is one vicious circle; when a victim of abuse/violence associated with certain types of people think it is their right to enforce their aggressive, demanding, manipulative violent behaviour upon you. You may either be a spouse, living in partner, or someone who is close to you. Whatever, the reason your abuser is putting you through, be it domestic violence, bullying, child abuse, cyber-bullying etc, IT IS ABUSE.

With consistent research and dedication, my articles I have written concerning abuse I hope is reaching out to those victims, so they can see what they are going through. My first poem will be found When will it End, dedicated to all men and women. http://hubpages.com/literature/When-Will-It-End-with-a-difference

People with this abusive demeanour, are usually/could be paranoid, feeling guilty, or just behaving in this way for just share enjoyment which makes them insecure individuals, whereby they are unwilling/unable to restrain their actions with no respect to their victim’s rights and dignity. The constant aggression in any pattern is appalling inhumane behaviour for anyone to go through. At the end of the day it is the innocent/victim’s life, their sanity and well-being that are at stake. Many times the victim of the perpetrator does not realise what they are going through when told constantly by the abuser “they are sorry to what has happened” or “it will never happen again things will change”, or being told time and time again with ridicule verbal abuse and being put down. They perpetually live in fear and hope that things will change for the better for life to carry on normally, but it never does. Something innocently done by the victim will trigger the aggressor, and the violence will start all over again leaving the poor innocent person wondering when it will end. The impact from this behaviour of their abusive partner/the person they are close to; leaves them losing their self-worth, confidence, and pressures of intimidation, making the victim/innocent person feeling they are the ones to blame; when they are not.

It does not matter where you are in life, you could come into contact with abusive people, more commonly within the home. You could be using the internet, you could be out and about just doing everyday tasks and attacked out on the street, your home could be invaded by robbers. These kinds of people in society are just out for their own selfish means or share enjoyment that they have power over their victims. http://hubpages.com/politics/Sexual-Violence-in-Prison-Is-Not-Funny-dexter-yarbrough

In many cases victims will come to a point where they can take no more; with the help of law enforcement and other authoritative help will get away from their abusive surroundings. This will leave the victim in a post traumatic stress disorder; emotionally scared and vulnerable, with no self-confidence, low self-esteem and in some case with illnesses, such as depression and other ailments brought on from stress/physical abuse living with the abusive partner/being in constant contact with the perpetrator/abuser. Trying to survive in a society is prone to violence. Victims will maybe/become fearful of intimate relationships, develop phobias, dissociate themselves from social activities/society. The main thing for victims to remember they are not at fault; the perpetrators/abusers, they the ones responsible for their own actions. Many times the perpetrators/abusers will blame other people and not themselves.

I have quoted a prayer from friendship cards for victims to find solace.

Violence is now beginning to come to the forefront of to-days society, who is still trying to empathize why a culprit should put their victim through so much aggressive torture, vehement lies and manipulation.

‘I asked

JESUS,

“How much do

You love me”.

“This much,”

He answered, and

He stretched out

His arms and died’.

In the middle of our wake,

These men, these women do take.

With their plots and schemes,

To get their own selfish means,

To take away the beliefs victims have,

With lies and manipulation

Feeling the trauma, with long
term affects

When will it end?

They have come to disrespect
their partners

Just like they have for the human race

A stranger who hath stepped

Into their world with under-
standing

The victims asked how this can be

All of this haunts us

When will it end?

The stranger says, ‘things do come out’

Showing their evil ways

This is what it’s all about

Standing up and telling the truth

For everyone to see

What they put you through

Tis no longer meant to be

When will it end?

People who do believe us

Gather around to protect

Victims of abuse

From their predators who behave like animals

With their evil ways

Will one day pay?

For their evil endeavours,

Those victims of abuse encountered

Suffered in silence

From their abuser’s violence

When will it end?

Copyright 2012 revised 2016

For those who do get to read this hub, please know you are NOT ALONE.

http://www.counselling-directory.org.uk/abuse.html please follow the link to the counseling directory.

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