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Where is the best place to look for a potential life partner

Updated on May 28, 2011

Looking to Meet that single of your choice?...

There are a thousand and one places to hang out to find good and potential partners and and I will just list a few of them.

But it is worthy of note to consider the following things when you plan to ebark on the search to find that single of your choice.

These include the following;

  • When searching online make sure you look out for a reputable site; a site that requires a credit card could be considered a reputable site; one authority site you can start from is
  • Always get to know the person fairly well before you divulge a lot of private information as regards yourself, this is important because so many scam artist are lurking around to latch on such private information to send their victims to the cleaners, so beware!
  • Be your self and don't claim what you are not
  • Make sure you spell out your likes and dislikes, information like religious affiliation, sex orientation (straight or gay), are important things to clarify so that you meet the perfect match or someone that comes close to being that match you desire.

After considering the above is time to embark on the search, follow me as I list some potential stop points and rendezvous where you can meet that perfect match you so desire...

You can meet that special one just anywhere, just keep searching

1) The Church or any religious organization: it is true that many people don't go to churches these days, but it is on record that this is one very potential place to get hooked up. To achieve this you can join groups like youth group, if you can sing you can join the choir, other groups within the church includes; singles fellowship, house fellowship and evangelism group one good thing about this group is that you can get to meet the lady or man of your dreams while out evangelizing you never know!

2) Alumni organization: if you graduated from high school or university, this is one place you get to meet decent and responsible people who can turn out to be potential life partners tomorrow; the good thing here is that you get to meet people with the same level of reasoning like you.

3) The office and workplace: this is another place you get to meet wonderful and potential life partners, if you are good with office romance; but you really need to be careful as it could turn out disastrous if you don't get to play your game especially if your boss or superior is eying the same lady or guy; but apart from this little distraction the office is a great place to meet decent singles.

4) Social gathering: if you don't belong to any club or social organization, then you might be missing out on some great opportunity to meet that dream guy or lady; places like lions club, rotary club, alpha beta (sorry if I got that wrong) etc are places you can start from, others are trade and career organizations, professional organizations etc.

5) Driving around: be careful!!! sorry for yelling; I included this cos I recently met a wonderful lady recently while I was out driving, at first I thought she was a whore, hitch-hiker or hooker; so I just decided to give her a ride and I got to find out that she was stranded on the road as her rickety ride broke down; and getting a mechanic at that time and weather was not any easier. I offered to help her and got to find out wonderful things about her; she had a great sense of humor just like me, she loved surfing and other things I loved doing and before you could say jack we are at it.

6)Online:it is true that the internet has come to stay with us; and this makes it inevitably easy for us to get information just by the tap of the mouse; so this is another place to get beautiful people, but again the word here is caution.You can start here at a place where you can meet people, make new friends and reunite with lost friends, as is your one stop resource to get those potential life partners you have always craved for. Other paces online include

1)yahoo chat rooms

2)msn chat rooms

3) myspace, facebook,xanga etc

4) message boards try, 43things etc

with the advent of web 2.0 it become relatively easy to get any thing you want. It is my belief that my suggestions will go a long way to help out. All the best in your quest!!!


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    • DDE profile image

      Devika Primić 5 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      Thanks for a well advised Hub on the best place to find a partner.

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      chinemeremz 5 years ago

      Waoh JP that's a little sweet as college seems to be the common rendezvous for meeting a spouse. Thanks for stopping by.

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      JP Carlos 5 years ago from Quezon CIty, Phlippines

      I met my wife in college. We took Spanish class together and that changed my life forever.

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      chinemeremz 7 years ago

      Thanks NG For stopping by.


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      accofranco 7 years ago from L Island

      i love your point nemerem....go brother...

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      chinemeremz 7 years ago

      Thanks Lady E for dropping by, Fb is one place people get hooked this days, though I think it is virtual and not real, but other than that I think hubpages is more of a better place. This is so because HP Is a community filled with like minds people. So I think it is the coolest thing ever to happen to cyberspace

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      Elena 7 years ago from London, UK

      Great Tips - Mmmh Facebook - I do get some funny love messages there.

      Thanks for sharing. :)

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      Tom Rubenoff 8 years ago from United States

      Thank you for answering my request! You know, I was thinking HubPages, it terms of, you know, ME, but.. ha. Just kidding