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Best place for honest, and sincere people to find new friends and possible dates?

Updated on November 25, 2011

Same as it ever was..

With the rate of divorce soaring to such epic heights, as high as 73% in some instances.

When taking that long curious look over ones shoulder, visualizing as far as your mind’s imaginary circuitry allows,

without overloading. Others can only hope that with the sharing of results during your sincere examination,

and also the circulating of facts, as they were positioned in view of your scope.

It is quite clear that we are all presently, willing participants, in this spirited race to nowhere.

Every new signpost in the balance seems to be revealing a more dismal picture, than the last.

Though we are all driven, determined to be the one that makes that great difference,

that we can one day proudly stand on life’s podium , and declare ourselves one half of a victorious couple knowing what it took to accomplish such a fete that can only be compared to biblical time and the times of our greater , greater grand parents. Who clearly understood what it took.

Some marriages these days are not even surviving the trip to the justice of the peace. There are those that are waiting with outstretched arms for their sons and daughters, knowing from their experience,

that it was an error to begin with. Others are waiting, simply knowing that in these “modern times” as they are called, one is forced to accept that there is no possible, or foreseeable change in direction,

anywhere in sight. Even now, with yours truly slated to join the likes of the other 73% that are now

readying themselves for that trek down separation and divorce lane.

They have just become the very latest participants in this show of dissatisfaction with what was agreed to, as opposed to what is actually being given.

Witnessing the gradual disintegration of families, once known to be the epitome and the truthful symbol of Love, Strength and Togetherness, are now being crushed by the likes of those with this strong belief in the times, rather than the irrational situations, that they are now conjoining with the times, calling it modern.

The truth is there are no failsafe location , no secret cavern or meeting place, that truly exists, where one can go and be guaranteed of such things as “Truth and Sincerity” what’s there, are only the truths you possess, and your own individual “Truth” the one you must never compromise or sell short.

The most failsafe, truthful and trustworthy place that exists, will forever be in you! Guided by your conscience, and the places that you will easily visit, should also be the places, where that potential friend or date is also expected to visit.

After which the conversations would already have been formulated, by the good intentions you both should have for going there.

If you meet someone at the movies, they should also love and appreciate someone that goes to the movies, same for the dance, hiking, fishing, and everything else, which should easily lead any conversations you would have, in a friendly and compatible direction.

The internet allows you to state your likes and dislikes, as a precursor to visiting the actual places, and questioning the likes and dislikes of others. Confirming that the best place to meet that friend, that may eventually transpire to be a potential date, is where ever you choose to visit, the time that you visiting that familiar place, on any given day.

Let them find you in places like these, and you will know when you have found them.

Give Thanks…


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      Sky9106 6 years ago from A beautiful place on earth.

      Thanks brethren Frank.

      I would you to write 2 .


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      Frank Atanacio 6 years ago from Shelton

      Everything about this piece rings so true even this paragragh: The internet allows you to state your likes and dislikes, as a precursor to visiting the actual places, and questioning the likes and dislikes of others. Sky what made you write a piece like this..very clever wish I had thought about it first lol Frank

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      Sky9106 6 years ago from A beautiful place on earth.

      Thanks "reeltaulk" and wish you'll still pop by and let the reeltaulk flow, but then the reel one knows whats next. Best wishes all the same in case.

      Will keep reading anyway.

      It's true but that lines up perfectly with the type of future that you are designing for you. It creates a clearer pic. Always remember Jesus and those he chose for disciples. You will then be functioning /operation from heights that only those who resemble will assemble. Still given the basic purpose of the human, which is to at least share. Was about to say unite and share. But we have seen, so we trod carefully.

      There will always be work to do, but one is then able to pick his spots to engage and teach after graduating oneself .

      Blessings and Thanks.

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      reeltaulk 6 years ago

      Hi Sky you will find all that is sincere when you get rid of those that are not! Your space has to be void of things that go against your heart, soul and mind if you're indeed sincere.....CiaO

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      Sky9106 6 years ago from A beautiful place on earth.

      Hey Jackie 7, thanks you so much for taking the time to read. This piece is meant to reiterate on the cliche which states, that a journey of one thousand miles starts with a single step,and the very first strides are to be yours,the journey must first be one you are willing to partake in, or else the "love and passion" which is the engine, will be absent.

      We know about a car without an engine. The union forms an engine , both individuals supplies the gas, so that each controls the rate of speed the union is travelling. I should be agreed that both not become lost. "One maybe" Then the other will miss that injection of gas.If this simple guideline is followed, there can be no possible way that both can be involved in that "race to no where" but rather easy to look to each other and be able to spot exactly where the bad step was taken, quickly get on track.

      That's why it's so important to visit the places that are familiar for both parties. Places of compatibility.

      Give Thanks and Praises every time.

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      Jackie 6 years ago

      Reflects the disintegration of marraige and the family unit so accurately!!!