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Where to find girls

Updated on December 13, 2015

To have a good dating and sex life you really need to get out there and play the field. In this article we will show you where to find girls.

Each of these spots have different girls and you will need to adjust your dress and conversation to accommodate that.

Remember if at first you don't succeed then try, try again.

Bars and Clubs

When going to a bar or club, you do sometimes find a lone girl sitting at the bar. You can just go up to her and offer to buy her a drink, but this is the exception rather than the rule. Generally girls go to clubs in groups of 3 or more and as a lone guy your chances aren't good.

So you want to get a group of 3-5 guys together, for a night out. You then decide which of the guys are going to be: the wingman. Then it's off to the bar. In the bar you look around for a group of girls. Once you spot the group, the wingman goes in and starts a conversation with the ugliest girl in the group. This is known as jumping the grenade.

Once the wingman has established himself with the ugly girl, he introduces the other girls in the group to some of his friends.

Later on the wingman might invite everyone back to his place. The girl group would probably never normally do this, but the wingman really seems to be into the ugly girl. Because she has problems getting a guy to realize, just how special she is. They may very well go off to a second location with you.

If you are going to a place where there is dancing, learn some basic dancing moves.

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Online Dating

As a method of meeting girls, online dating, has a lot going for it.

  • You get to check out the girl, before you date her, both by seeing her picture and talking to her.
  • There are lots of girls dating online, so you are very likely to find what you are looking for.
  • You know these girls are looking for a date.

Most online dating sites let you register for free. This lets you post your profile, then girls can contact you. If you see a girl, with who you fancy a date or you want to have your profile prominately displayed, you can pay a small fee and upgrade your account.


Work relationships can be a bit of a minefield. You don't want to start a short term relationship with someone, who you have to see everyday.

There are however many suitable girls, that you meet through your work, like a sales girl or maybe one from another branch of your company. The bonus here is that you know the girl is employed. You can also chat with her co-workers, to find out a little more about her, before you ask her out.


When it comes to where to find girls, the churches are more for long term relationships, than short term ones.

Churches have plenty of events, barbeques, picnics, weddings and so on. These events allow you to expand your social network and meet plenty of nice girls.

When you meet a girl at a bar they tend to assume the worst of you, the opposite is true when you meet a girl at a church event. This makes establishing a relationship easier.

Church really is the best answer to the question: Where to find nice girls?

The Gym

The gym is a win, win situation, for guys. You get into shape while chatting with fit young girls.

Timing is important at the gym, you don't want to go at peak time, because there are just too many people. Also you should be ready to talk about working out and your diet, with the girls you meet at the gym.

On Vacation

If you are looking for where to find single girls, vacations especially beach vacations are great.

Remember you will need to get into shape, before you go on a beach vacation.

Keep in mind vacation romances are short term. So I suggest a high volume low standards approach.

Get a Dog

If you don't have a dog, borrow one from a friend. What you do is to take the dog for a walk in a park, which is frequented by dog owners. As you walk around, the dog will want to stop and sniff the other dogs. That gives you a little time to chat with the owner.

Dog people are generally friendly and talkative. You can start a quick conversation by complimenting their animal.

Remember to take a dog that gets along with other dogs, not the kind that can leap over a car and tear someone's arm off.

The Laundromat

If you are still looking for "where to find girls" consider giving the laundromat a try.

At the laundromat you can tell which girls are single by the clothes she is washing, if there is a guy's clothes in there, move on.

Girls at the laundromat tend to be bored waiting for their clothes to finish, so they are more than willing to chat with you.


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      rusty 2 years ago

      girls need guys in there life

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      connell 8 years ago

      i like your presintation in the pictures

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      prinncess 8 years ago


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      Richieb799 8 years ago from Cardiff, Wales UK

      Hey some good positive venues, I just joined the gym the otherday, its definitely a win,win - I had one girl smiling and eying me up straight away and i was trying to concentrate on what the instructer was saying ;)

      Online has been another goldmine for me, I have met several girls over various sites, you just need to keep on the look out!

      Films are another good learning technique for the beta male to up his game, Swingers, Alfie and Tao of Steve are a few of the top of my head.

      I like your articles on adsense to - thanks

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      Tony 9 years ago

      I really enjoyed where to find girls. My friends and I are going to try out some of your recommendations, this weekend.