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Whose Fault these Children. The Finale..

Updated on November 3, 2011

The Finale..

Whose Fault ?

Depending on the particular concepts and ideologies that exist in the minds of the parents, there is no doubt as to what the overall results would look like, and how it would be manifested in the character of the children.

This may be hard to take as a parent, but it is 100% truthful, as seem in and with every different specie of life, here on this earth, and even beyond, if you care to go there, because for me the same principles will apply in every birth and growth, which is living, and in the process of death and dying.

Some of us have undoubtedly gone above and beyond because of our clear cut method of understanding the

Principles of these processes.

As fascinating and intriguing as the overall process is, and as much as that same process has already been proven to govern all aspects of life. I am not going to try and complicate this very simple process, of human life, reproduction and the proper caring for their offspring’s. I am staying on that modern day problem of whose fault these children, that so many in these modern times as we love to call it, are developing this recently found rogue attitude and behavioral patterns.

The shock statements that I will use, and truly have no doubt that is stands as truth for all parents, because children can’t grow themselves , and pay close attention to my specific use of words here, because these words are quite simple and everyone knows it’s the truth.

No child can survive without his/her parents or some other parenting body intercepting and coming to the rescue of those children. We all know this to be so. I don’t think that I need to use any references here, it’s actually self explanatory.

Children “NEED” and that’s the word we must pay truthful attention to. They cannot become anything without their parents. This tells me, and that’s if I believe. That since they cannot survive without their parents, then my primary role as a parent, would be to insure their proper survival. That means a major

Part of the parent overall celebration as mentioned in part (5).

Is to understand that there can be no celebration without the prize /trophy. So they must be vigilant and professional in all my celebratory activities with their children.

That simply means parents are going to be held accountable for any harm that may come to their trophy.

The great parents will no doubt have some kind of plan in place, some strategy. Being great parents is not accidental. Your strategy won’t be to lock them up, hide them from everything, you won’t have them, then give them to someone else, to be taken care of by that person. That person will undoubtedly be armed with their own ideologies and concepts of parenting, even if they turn out to be their own family.

In situations like these, most time you will have a kid that grows up confused, listening to one thing here another there.

Children should be first the sole responsibility of its parents. It is in these misunderstood concepts, where a child is not following any specific culture or traditional guidelines, when he/she comes from one place being baby sat, going home with what the have possibly learned, this turns out not being in agreement with the biological parents at home, and the kid is possibly disciplined only to go back to that same place where he learned it to begin with. What do they expect that the kid will bring it to the adult’s attention?

What now is that child supposed to do?

Now I can go on forever simply because it’s a topic close to my heart. I have said this before, the most important words children should have for the parents are: I love you Mom and I Love you Dad. Then everything that remains should be questions, being sure that all guidelines are followed properly.

Like: What do you think about this or that mom and dad? If the buck don’t stop at their parents at all times

In their lives of their children. Especially while they are still living with their parents, then you have missed the boat and failed, because this is what led to this present state of affairs between parents and their kids.

I will now move ahead to that which most parents have somehow gotten addicted to say, sometimes out of frustration and most time, out of desperation and inexperience they say: I made the child but I did not make their mind! But you are responsible in helping them devise the proper ways of making up their minds.

That’s the same like a car salesman saying to you after he sold you that new car and it breaks down just a few miles from the dealer. That he didn’t make the car, the manufacturer did and they are responsible.

Well because just like with kids, the same parents complaint to the government, who are also people themselves and they went and did something about it. They put the brakes on for them, so now you are protected all the way through.

Of course you are putting your manufacturer’s warranty on your kids from early , and that’s the beautiful start that parents knows, because it was handed down to them by their own parents, and it was so good , that now you are putting your finishing touches on this newer model and it should last even longer than you did. But instead all you can say is that, you did not make their mind?

Better bring out that sincere truth to prove that you truly did the very best that you can, and that one is truly a reject. Yes!

“The one that got away.”

Also that you are expecting the kids to then say something to the effect that they, on their own accord, went and messed up, and that now they are asking the parents forgiveness, and hoping the possibility exists, for a meaningful and verifiable chance at redemption.

If it’s your fault, then that will be your additional foolishness and inability, so go on and continue reaping what you have sown.

Because now you are accepting what is the straight up truth of the situation, and that is, if your children did not turn out proper, it is all your fault and that instead of you being readily armed with the truth your truth, to use in your sincere defense of the situation, you simply cannot. It’s been your entire fault from the start. Maybe you did not bother to train up your children in the way they should go, and they had nothing to look to.

Give thanks and Praises to the Most High God for all the children and all the parents, but it’s my sincerest prayer, that we all awake from our misguided sleep and slumber and see. Because if the kids are not our future then who is?

Thanks for reading… Always open to discussion. Blessings.

The end.

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      Theresa Ast 5 years ago from Atlanta, Georgia

      An important message for sure. Children cannot raise themselves. They need firm and loving parents, and parents must not shirk their responsibilities. Good work. Theresa

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      Sky9106 6 years ago from A beautiful place on earth.

      Thanks from myself and also my dear mother . Yes my brethren frank, it is important to feed slowly ,for better assimilation and digestion.

      I really do thank you from a very sincere place,it's important to have this type of trust in someone that is in the same line as yourself , was just speaking to a friend about that. Especially in such an environment. Ps I ask on e/mail.


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      Frank Atanacio 6 years ago from Shelton

      this final chapter pieces everything together to form a guideline.. a branch.. a peek into what most parents are missing.. whether it be by choice or ignorance.. I like the fact that you divided it into parts-- gives the readers time to reflect and consider, then r econsider up and awesome my friend :)

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      Sky9106 6 years ago from A beautiful place on earth.

      Yes I know that you truly believe because is because there you stand, as the epitome of your mothers blessings.

      The Bible is truly amazing, for a book to have been written so long ago , no one had any idea (God did) which direction this world and its inhabitants would go /take and be so accurate in its depiction of it all.

      Yes train up a child in the way that child should go. Which way is that, and why was it practiced so strongly in the past to such beautiful results?

      And now , what changed, or who is to blame for our staggering negative results today ?

      Give Thanks dear lady..

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      Ruby Jean Fuller 6 years ago from Southern Illinois

      I agree Shy. Very few times does a child wander away from good solid teaching from a parent. Your writing is clear to all who will read. Teach a child to love all people and there will be no prejudice, no hate..Thank you for an insightful hub.. Voted up and away...

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      lyns 6 years ago from USA

      Hi Sky9106, you are most welcome as always, it's nice hearing from you, and reading your work love it. thanks again for sharing, take and stay blessed. lyns 11/3/11 7---pm

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      Sky9106 6 years ago from A beautiful place on earth.

      Thanks lyns , and blessing for those heart felt words I know you speak from the heart, because there are no shortage of evidence all over your hubs.

      Thanks for the vote up and all the goodies .

      Stay blessed til we write again..

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      lyns 6 years ago from USA

      Excellent and very well said yes children do need parents and the right guidance and what we put in them today is how they will grow tomorrow, very truthful writing, we must be their examples. Thanks for sharing, Voted up, Interesting, Useful.