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Why Most Men Cheat
Men, always getting the shitty end of the stick to hold in a relationship despite the fact that he may be the better individual of the two when it comes on to making that relationship work. But hey, what can I say, It's a woman's world right? But what women don't really understand in relationships is that a man is not like them. A man thinks different, react different and is basically different. He handles his emotions far different than women and the difference is even imprinted in his DNA. Men are natural born hunters and as such their natural instinct is to capture some kind of prey. Whether that prey be rabbit, duck, horse or even women. Yes, men will cheat much more than his female counter part, but his DNA will just not let him have that tunnel vision of being with that single loving women that most girlfriends and wives turn out not to be after a few years of" getting used to." But if you want to know all the reasons why men cheat, let's get the ball rolling and read through.
1. Why Men Cheat - They Just Don't Trust Women
Many men who cheat tell me that they do so simply because they do not trust women and believe that the woman will eventually cheat on them despite all the love and affection they give. They believe that it is embedded in a woman's DNA to cheat at some point and they are just doing unto others before it gets done to them. This will allow the man to create that wall that when the woman decides to cheat on him, his heart would not be ripping like Freddy's claws. But instead it was an anticipation and it was just a matter of when. They also say that women are much too emotional and will seek satisfaction for their emotion when the husband or boyfriend is just not paying enough attention to them.
2. Why Men Cheat - His Woman Is Too Nagging
Women are beautiful, smart, wonderful and most appealing. But there are a few who are just over the top when it comes on to nagging their spouse constantly and eventually driving them over the fence and into the forest. Most men like a woman who does logical reasoning and do not pester too much. Some men van't even visit the toilet without his spouse's voice ringing in his ear about something that happened 7 years ago. There are some women who are just not satisfied with what their spouse do and will chatter negativity all day and night and eventually creating that invisible wall their male counterparts see every time she comes near. But the biggest eventuality of a nagging woman is that she simply drives him into a quieter and more subtle woman's harms.
3. Why Men Cheat - He is Just a Born Nympho
Without sex, I doubt if many men would want to continue their existence here under the firmament. Sex plays a huge part in a relationship for men. Despite what many "so called relationship experts say." Yes, we all know that without effective communication, relationships tend to wither away. But men only like effective and logical communication and cannot be bothered with the menstrual pain kind of stories which go through a windy road and back, times 4 and yet point has not been reached. To men, sex is much more important in a relationship than "chitter chatter. Men like sex and like it a lot. Their sexo meter is off the charts and nothing has changed about that since the beginning of time. If a man is not getting enough hanky panky at home, you can rest assure that he will get it elsewhere.
4. Why Men Cheat - He Doesn't Love Her Anymore
A man will cheat on his woman if he believes somehow that love is lost within the relationship. Yes, this scenario plays out both ways for males and females. But a male is much quicker to let his wanker fly north than a female would let her cat drink another man's milk. If a man falls out of love with you, most thinks he wouldn't think about doing he will begin to do, simply because the bond has been broken and to him you are just another girl.
5. Why Men Cheat - They Like The Chase and the Thrill
Remember when I told you men are born hunters? Well this is where the hunting game begins. It is the man's natural hunting instincts which drives him to go out and capture beautiful treasures for his taking. Those treasures comes in the form of a beautiful unaware woman. Yes. many women are hunted down and men see them as a conquest. The difference is that they cannot shoot them and hang their heads on the wall of hunting feel like a bear, moose, etc.
6. Why Men Cheat - The Sex at Home Sucks
Men worship sex, and if the sex sucks at home he will eventually go out and find someone who will satisfy is freakish appetite. His lack of satisfaction at home will play in his mind like the last Trump Tweet. It will haunt him and push him over the edge to satisfy that appetite and satisfying that appetite most times leads to cheating.
7. Why Do Men Cheat - The Woman Wants To Be The Man
There are numerous men who are caught in relationships where the woman wants to play the man's role as well as hers. They look down on the male and belittle him both at home or when they go out. A woman like this eventually begins to look quite disgusting in the eyes of the male counterpart and soon most women he see begin to look quite attractive to him. He will eventually go out and get his tail feather wet.
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8. Why Men Cheat - All His Friends Have Side Chicks
For many men, it's either you ride or die. Meaning you go with the flow or hop of the currant. Many men are influenced into cheating by their own peers. They get coached into talking girls they meet at bars, games etc. Then the men eager thing kicks in where he doesn't want his pals to believe that he had the opportunity to be with a gorgeous girl and punked out.
Come now guys, cheating is never a good thing. It breaks the heart of the person who you have been committed to. If you know the relationship is not working out, sit and talk to your spouse and let her know you want to fix things or you want to go your separate ways. Don't start cheating in your relationship, it can cause pain and anguish.