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Win Back Lost Love

Updated on August 5, 2014

How To Win Your Lost Love Back

Relationships can be complicated. However, winning back love is not. These simple easy steps are golden in keeping or regaining the relationship that you once cherished.

True love can bring about a change in anyone. If this person brings out the best in you, then you should be doing the same. Show them that you are ready and able.

Love is a powerful emotion that must be cultivated and cared for. Don't let the love of your life slip away.

Win Back Love With The Truth

This is non-negotable. In order to win lost love back, you must be truthful. People often run from their emotions. Let down your guard and tell them how you REALLY feel, the results will be amazing.

Did you lie and your lost love has yet to forgive you? They're most likely hurt. Give them time to heal but don't give them too much distance. If you disappear, they will begin to think that you don't care. We know that's not true. Don't let a day go by without sending some sort of gesture that you're thinking of them. A short email saying, " I'm thinking about you". goes a long way.

Don't try to explain yourself. It will look as though you're trying to justify the lie. Just ask for forgiveness and be patient. And what ever you do, try your best to be truthful so this will not become a habit.

Win Your Love Back With Affection

Win her back with affection by offering a hug. It's important that you always remain affectionate throughout the relationship. Even when a woman knows she's loved she still needs to be shown.

If your relationship ended on a really bad note, physical contact may not be a good idea. Even if she refuses to see you, there are ways that you can still show that you care. Try a few of these suggestions:

1. Have lunch delivered to her job.

2. Offer to walk her dog

3. Prepay for a salon visit. Have the receptionist call her for an appointment.

4. Cut the grass

You will have to start off slowly to regain her trust. Be patient she will come around as long as you make the effort to mend what's broken.

Win Back Love With A Promise

I know alot of people reading this may be shaking their heads but, you can win back love with a promise, just as long as you keep it! Just like the saying goes " don't make a promise that you can't keep".

Depending on the manner in which the relationship ended, you may want to start of by saying " I promise that THIS will never happen again " Be specific though. It's not wise to promise that you will never argue again but, it is smart to promise that you won't argue over that particular issue again.

This will take some work on both parts. You will need to compromise so that this hatch, is buried. It's never a good idea to bring up old arguments over and over again. There's no future in the past.

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Win Your Love Back With Romance

If you struggle in the area of romance, you may need some help to win back lost love. This is a huge deal. Seriously, a person that literally sweeps another off of their feet is a much sought after mate.

When you think of romance do you get the cold sweats and a rash. Some of you shook your head YES! Right? I know it's hard for some but, I think I can make it a little easier on you.

The reason why you get fluster with the idea of romance is because you may feel vulnerable. What happens if they do not like your romantic gesture? What happens if you don't get the response that you were hoping for. Here are a few ways that you can be romantic without getting flustered.

1. Get to know the person you're trying to win back. You don't need to ask them for information because you already have loads of things to go off already. Don't scratch your head...just take a moment and think about the last time you saw them. Think about all of the ways that they become distracted from life. If they're into music, try downloading music with words that expresses how you feel about them. I assure you that there's a song made for every situation.

2. If your sweetheart is spontaneous try surprising them! Be thoughtful and give them something that they have been longing for. If you don't know what that is, maybe that's why they left in the first place.

3. Write a love letter if they're the sentimental type. This gift of words will last a lifetime. If you need help with it, check out this link " Love Letter Writing Tips ".

4. Leave an impression on their life. Build a rose garden, paint a room, buy a puppy or kitten. Things that will last many years to keep you on their mind.

Once again if you find romance intimidating just take a deep breath, wipe the sweat from your brow, and think about how good it will feel to have your love back in your arms again.


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      Teresa Pelka 5 years ago from Dublin, Ireland

      I'd need a hub on how not be suspected of sustained affection to someone who was strictly a mistake.

      I'll never want to be back with the ex husband. I am a kind of a perfectionist, but I can admit a mistake. I should have never married him.

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      LSKing 5 years ago from East Coast United States

      @Candy, every relationship is different.

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      candy 5 years ago

      None of these do work for others. Some people when they are gone, they are gone forever and nothing can bring them back especially when they have got someone new in their life immediately after damping you

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      LSKing 6 years ago from East Coast United States

      @Experiece - These are merely suggestions.

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      Experiece 6 years ago

      These things dont work at all.

      Stop playing with emotions