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6 Types of Women to Avoid Dating

Updated on March 9, 2020
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Mary is a mother, a grandmother, and a certified wedding and event planner who specializes in destination weddings.

Pay Attention to the Warning Signs

Is it possible to fall in love with the wrong person? Of course, it is. Especially if you are so distracted and caught off guard with a stunning woman you just met. In this era, women have become even more complicated to understand. Yes, we have our moments and moods that men are not able to quite figure out yet. But there are certain women who are dealing with serious issues stemming from their childhood to anger from a past relationship. Here are a few clues to steer you in the right direction for love and romance.

Ask Questions When in Doubt

There is nothing wrong with taking your time and getting to know her. Ask questions gently without sounding interrogating. Find something you may have in common.

When You Find Her, You Will Know for Sure


Searching for the Right One

You have met the woman that you believe has everything you are looking for. She's stunning, gorgeous, and you just know your friends are going to be envious of you. Things are looking good until you engage in a little small talk. It's a disaster in the making and it's time to make your exit. You want to hang in there because she's so sexy. Your thoughts are: Is it worth it? What can happen? Somebody else may take her! Here are a few women to be on the lookout for.

The "I Need You" Woman

  • This woman has a hidden agenda. She wants to get married or she wants to have your child right away. She talks about marriage and commitment very early.
  • This type is always easy to please when it comes to you. She is very clingy wants nothing more than to spend all her time with you.
  • She becomes smothering. She wants to cook for you, do your laundry just to show you how great of a wife she can be.

The Gold Digger

  • this woman is always good looking and well dressed. She wears designer labels or wants to wear them.
  • she may be employed but she spends her money on herself.
  • her main objective is to find a man that can afford her to pay her bills. This woman can be a bit controlling of the relationship for her gain.
  • she expects you to make her a priority, to treat her like a queen.
  • she may use her bedroom skills to keep you off her trail of what she is really up to.
  • she is after your wallet instead of your heart. When your money is no longer available, she will end the relationship.


When You Love Someone, You Never Give Up. Period. Make Sure It's Reciprocated.


I Don't Need Anyone

  • she is the type that has been hurt. The warning signs are subtle at first. She is calm for a moment until you forget to call her or some small gesture will send her into a rage.
  • the past pain she carries is causing her to hold on to anger because she is still carrying scars of her old relationships.
  • she may have abandonment issues and each man reflects those past hurt feelings.
  • she is always upset, angry and bitter. One minute she is sociable and then out of the blue, she's out of control with anger.
  • she likes to play the victim and becomes defensive in the conversation for no apparent reason.

The Worrier Female

  • she is very nice and treats you very well, but she has bouts of low self-esteem.
  • she is a good listener at times but won't share too much with you in fear of rejection.
  • she has to think twice about what to do, what to wear, where to go, what to eat.
  • she needs constant reassurance that she's attractive and worries incessantly.
  • this woman may be hard to identify at first.

Nonstop Talking Woman

  • You want a good conversation then she is the one. The only problem is she thinks she knows everything.
  • She's the one that complains about any and everything.
  • She may even have a habit of gossiping and making fun of situations that you may not find humor in.
  • This beautiful soul will take over the whole conversation if you allow her to.

The Social Butterfly

  • uses her charm to get the attention of every guy in the room. Whether you're there or not.
  • she has a big personality and she uses her talents well to flirt with anyone she can.
  • be careful for at any moment she will find someone to replace you.
  • Flirting with your friends will not be uncommon with her. She is the one that loves male attention.

These are just a few things that may help you to find the right woman to spend time with. Listen to the little voice that alerts you that this may not be what you want and ease yourself out before it goes too far.


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    • hubber8893 profile image

      Sourav Rana 

      11 months ago

      Your article is enriched with deep understanding of women behavior. I agree with the points you mentioned to keep in mind while choosing a life partner.

    • Majestic Tells profile image


      12 months ago from Kanab, Utah

      You are an incredible teacher ...thanks for sharing womanly secrets ;)

    • Majestic Tells profile image


      12 months ago from Kanab, Utah

      By all means do...we men need your perspective...and womanly wisdom

    • Mary Braddy profile imageAUTHOR

      Mary Braddy 

      12 months ago from Orangeburg

      @Laurinzoscott Thank You, I'm glad you found value. Hearing from you encourages me to do more articles in this subject area.

    • Majestic Tells profile image


      12 months ago from Kanab, Utah

      Well Mary, thaks...I mean I truly wish i'd read this months ago...great article though

    • Mary Braddy profile imageAUTHOR

      Mary Braddy 

      13 months ago from Orangeburg

      @dashingscorpio I absolutely agree. Thank you so much for your comment.

    • dashingscorpio profile image


      13 months ago from Chicago

      Excellent points!

      I imagine the best advice is to "take your time" getting to know someone without making any promises or becoming emotionally invested too soon. Unfortunately even "asking questions" isn't likely to be very beneficial (when someone finds you attractive) or is "into you".

      This is especially true during the "infatuation phase".

      People tend to bend over backwards to be on their best behavior and try to avoid saying or doing anything which might "blow it" with the object of their affection. It may take months for them to reveal their "authentic" selves. By then a lot of inexperienced daters have committed or become an "exclusive" couple or believe they have found their "soulmate".

      Once people feel secure in a relationship they start to relax and reveal their "authentic selves. They no longer fear you will leave. Sometimes at that point they really don't care if you do leave! :)

      Suddenly their demands and expectations come to light. You find out they never really liked/enjoyed certain things they went along with early on. Everything was done in attempt to "win you over".

      Once people become "emotionally invested" they have a harder time with simply "walking away" and oftentimes feel "obligated" to attempt to seek compromises or look for ways to work things out.

      It's probably best not to commit or make things official until after you've had some major disagreements and have seen how the other behaves when things do not go their way. Compatibility is very important.

      However it's whether or not you can deal with each other's differences that will determine if your relationship is built to last.

      You have to be patient to "ride out" the infatuation/honeymoon phase of a (new) dating/courtship which normally lasts up to 3-6 months.

      "Time reveals the truth." - J.R. Rim

      "Never love anyone who treats you like you're ordinary."

      - Oscar Wilde


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