Quick Wedding Planning: A Step by Step Guide
A wedding is a huge event in anyone's life. Little girls dream of their wedding days for years and often have them planned before they've even gotten a ring. But not everyone has years to plan their big day, some people only have weeks or months! Luckily, you can still plan your perfect wedding even on short notice. Here's a step-by-step guide to do just that!
The Wedding Planning Schedule
What
| When
| |
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Step 1
| Plan a Budget
| 6 Months Before
|
Step 2
| Pick a Theme or Style
| 6 Months Before
|
Step 3
| Set A Guest List
| 6 Months Before
|
Step 4
| Research Venues
| 6 Months Before
|
Step 5
| Send Out Invitations
| 6 Months Before
|
Step 6
| Start Calling Vendors
| 5 Months Before
|
Step 7
| Plan Your Honeymoon
| 5 Months Before
|
Step 8
| Pick Your Wedding Party
| 4 Months Before
|
Step 9
| Dresses and Tuxes
| 4 Months Before
|
Step 10
| Order the Rings
| 4 Months Before
|
Step 11
| Buy All Accessories
| 3 Months Before
|
Step 12
| Check-In With Vendors
| 3 Months Before
|
Step 13
| Create a Schedule
| 2 Months Before
|
Step 14
| Make Your Programs
| 1 Month Before
|
Step 15
| Plan the Rehearsal Dinner
| 2 to 3 Weeks Before
|
Step 16
| Apply for Marriage License
| 1 Week Before
|
Step 17
| Prepare for Your Wedding
| The Night Before
|
Step 18
| Get married!
| The Big Day!
|
Step 1: Plan a Budget
6 Months Before the Wedding
The very first step for planning any wedding should always be to decide on a budget. Your budget will be the road map that helps you navigate your options. Start by determining the total amount you want to spend on your wedding and remember that this amount has to cover everything you need for your wedding day including:
- Your venue
- Your photographer and videographer
- Catering
- Flowers / cake / and decor
- Your dress and veil
- The groom’s tux
- Your honeymoon
Once you've established your total budget amount, you'll want to decide how much of that total goes to each element of your wedding. You'll want to set this amount based on priority level. Your dress, for instance, may have a higher budget than the flowers do.
Step 2: Pick a Theme or Style
6 Months Before the Wedding
Selecting your theme or deciding on your wedding style will help you narrow down your choices in all sorts of elements of your wedding. If you want an outdoor wedding, for example, your choice of venues will be different than if you wanted a church wedding.
What about your reception? Do you want a formal dinner or a family BBQ? All of these things will have an effect on your planning and are important to determine early on in the planning stages.
Step 3: Set A Guest List
6 Months Before the Wedding
Before you can start shopping for a venue, you need to know how many people will be at your wedding. Of course, you won't know exactly how many people are going to attend until the day of the event, but creating a guest list will give you a rough estimate of how many people to expect.
Step 4: Research Venues
6 Months Before the Wedding
As soon as you have narrowed down the estimated number of guests at your wedding, the first thing you'll want to do is start looking for a venue. Call and book your venue as soon as possible to ensure they have availability.
Sometimes you might have to compromise on the exact date of your wedding in order to secure the venue you want. Call as many venues as you can in the area you're planning on to get a good idea of what will work best for you. Once you've picked which venue you'll be going with, book them as soon as possible.
Step 5: Send Out Invitations
6 Months Before the Wedding
Now that you know the date, time, and location of your wedding, it's time to send out invitations. Sending the invitations out as early as possible maximizes the potential for all or most of your guests to be able to attend. It also gives them a longer amount of time to RSVP and for you to receive those responses in the mail.
If you want to streamline the process even further, you could opt out of paper invitations and instead choose to send emails or invite your guests over the phone, especially if your wedding is small.
Step 6: Start Calling Vendors
5 Months Before the Wedding
A wedding vendor is simply a person who provides a service or product for a wedding. This includes the florist, the catering, and the cake. You'll want to make sure the services you need will be available and prepared for your big day. It’s a good idea to make a checklist so you don’t forget anything in the process. A few vendors you might need are:
- Caterer
- Band or DJ
- Florist
- Baker
- Wedding Officiant
- Transportation
- Photographer and Videographer
Once you’ve shopped around, book your vendors right away so they have time to prepare and you have peace of mind.
Step 7: Plan Your Honeymoon - Book Flights and Lodging
5 Months Before the Wedding
You might not be thinking about your honeymoon this early in the process, but you probably should be. Planning a honeymoon is a big endeavor with a lot of its own planning involved. You'll want to quickly pick the destination of your honeymoon and start planning for lodging and airfare.
- Where do you want to go and for how long?
- Do you want to stay in one place or travel?
- Do you want to stay in a hotel or rent a home or apartment?
- What do you want to do on your honeymoon? Do you want to spend time at the casinos or would you rather visit museums?
Once you’ve narrowed everything down, don't wait to book the hotel and flights. Flights are cheapest when they're booked 20 to 100 days before they're scheduled to take off. You'll cut down on costs, and be able to spend more on your wedding, by booking in advance.
Step 8: Pick Your Wedding Party
4 Months Before the Wedding
Not only do you need to narrow down your wedding party in general, but you should do this quickly so you can start looking for attire, planning accessories, purchasing gifts, and of course planning the ceremony.
Step 9: Start Looking for Dresses and Tuxes
4 Months Before the Wedding
Finding the perfect wedding dress can take a while, so you'll want to start doing that once you have all of your vendors and venues booked. Don't forget to pick the attire for everyone in your wedding party as quickly as possible as well so they have time for fittings.
Step 10: Order the Rings
4 Months Before the Wedding
The exchanging of the rings is a huge part of the wedding ceremony so don't wait to pick them out and get them ordered. If you're running on extremely short notice, some jewelry providers offer stand-in rings you can use during the ceremony while you wait for your official wedding rings to come in the mail.
Step 11: Buy All Accessories
3 Months Before the Wedding
Next, you'll want to start looking for and purchasing all of your accessories. Be careful not to forget anything. Do you have your:
- Veil?
- Shoes?
- Jewelry, including necklaces, bracelets, and earrings?
- Hair combs or headpieces?
- Makeup?
- Cuff links for the groom?
Step 12: Check-In With Your Vendors
3 Months Before the Wedding
Now that it's closer to your wedding day, you should call back all of your vendors to confirm your booking and the price. Make sure you write down any information you'll need to remember.
Step 13: Create a Schedule for Your Wedding
2 Months Before the Wedding
To make sure everything is running smoothly and efficiently on your wedding day, create a schedule for yourself and your wedding party so they know exactly where they need to be and at what time. It's a good idea to include the contact information for vendors in this schedule so you have them readily available when you need them.
Step 14: Make Your Programs
1 Month Before the Wedding
If you plan on passing out programs for your wedding ceremony, you should do that now. You can have them designed online and delivered to you, or save on time by designing them and printing them out yourself.
Step 15: Plan and Book the Rehearsal Dinner
2 to 3 Weeks Before the Wedding
As the big day approaches, you should begin looking toward the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner. If you're looking for a specific location to host your dinner, you should call and book it now. To keep it cheap, you can always host the dinner at your own home.
Step 16: Apply for Your Marriage License
1 Week Before Your Wedding
Your marriage license is generally obtained from the county in which you live. You'll need to check the laws in your county, but in most places you need to have the application for your marriage license well timed.
Some counties will not allow you to get your license until only a few days before the wedding. Also, many counties will require a 24 hour waiting period between when you apply for the license and when you can get married. Make sure you get the timing right.
Step 17: Prepare for Your Wedding Day
The Night Before Your Wedding
Take some time the night before your wedding day to make sure you have everything ready to go.
- Pack an overnight bag for the wedding night. Include pajamas, a change of clothes, and some toiletries. Don’t forget your toothbrush!
- Pack your luggage for the honeymoon.
- Gather all of the papers you’ll need for traveling and have them easily accessible. Make sure your flight tickets, ID, and passport are ready to go.
- Gather the payments for each of your vendors and put them in clearly marked envelopes.
- Give the envelopes to your Maid of Honor or another trusted member of your wedding party so they can handle the details for you.
Step 18: Get married!
The Big Day
The big day is finally here. Enjoy the day and congratulations!
Getting a wedding planned quickly can be stressful but when you have a good idea of how to go about making the plans, it can seem like a much less daunting task. If you have ever heard the saying "how do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time." then you have the key to planning your wedding day. Take it step by step, piece by piece, and don't let the totality of all overwhelm you.
How far away is your wedding day?
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