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Love Of My Life and Soulmate

Updated on February 17, 2016

The love of my life

The love of my life was sitting right in front of me for many, many years. We were destined soul mates that just needed time to bloom.

Have you ever met someone without thinking about how much they would actually touch your heart and become a part of your life?

So many "almost" chances to become something more to each other, but for some reason, it just wasn't the right time.

I thank God every single day he and I were given a second chance to fall in love.

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Made for each other

Who would have known then

That we would be this happy right now.

We are engaged to be married in July of 2012, although neither of us ever thought that this would ever happen...

We have lived in the same town for pretty much our entire lives. I went to the same grade school as his best friend, even had his best friends sister as a kindergarten buddy and walked her home after school. Even though we both hung out with some of the same friends throughout high school we had not met, and yet, we were only one grade apart from one another in the same middle school and high school.

One day in grade 12 we were both invited to a mutual friends house for a birthday party, this would be the very first time that Otto and I would meet. Otto remembers us being introduced that day in 1995 although I must admit I do not remember meeting him that day. All I do remember is going to that party so very long ago.

That initial meeting would be the last time that Otto and I would see each other until two years later.

The friendship begins

In 1997 Otto and I would meet once more, only this time, I would never again forget his face. This was also the year that I started dating someone new.

Back then I had a large group of friends and we would generally all hang out pretty much on a daily basis. If we weren't working during the days then we would get together and spend time with each other. When the nights came, being young we would of course head off to the local bar where we would all go drinking, dancing our butts off, and laughing every little bit of the way.

Factors would change in a couple of years that would cause things to fall apart in my relationship at the time. My boyfriend moved away and I was supposed to transfer to my job up that way and move in with him. I just didn't feel like he was the one I was supposed to be with so we broke up.

My boyfriend didn't feel as strongly as I did that we weren't supposed to be together though so he moved back in an attempt for us to stay together. It worked for a few months longer but then the relationship was over for good.

So close

yet so far away

In 2000 Otto and I started hanging out every day, and even though our friends were still there, we found some quiet time in the evening now and again to just be with each other. We watched movies together and talked about everything under the sun. It seemed that we never ran out of conversation. We just always had something else to say to one another.

One day there was an opportunity for us to move in with each other, along with a couple of other friends as roommates. A house was available to rent, and if there were four of us to split the costs, then together we could afford it. There were four of us all ready to move in when a week before move in day one of our friends backed out. At the last minute we had to find someone to take her place.

There was a girl I was working with looking to move out of her parents place, so she decided to move in with us... but this would turn out to be disastrous for Otto's and my blooming friendship.

Drifting apart

It turns out that the new roommate and I seemed to have a lot in common and I started hanging around with the her more than I was Otto. I was slowly pulling away from Otto, and he started getting increasingly more jealous of the new roommate and the time I spent with her. Before too long I found myself being introduced to a new guy who would in time become the father of 3 of my children and my husband.

The new roommate had found a second job working in one of the local bars, and had started skipping out on her weekend shifts where we worked... so I was not only working my full week load, but picking up her Saturday's and some Sunday's as well. This was really adding strain to our friendship. After my new love interest and I were introduced, we started hanging around with each other all of the time, so this naturally put an even bigger kink in the relationship between us as well (and not to mention also with Otto).

The new roommate would very soon move out one weekend while the rest of us were away on a bowling tournament. Of course we were all a little upset that she did it without telling anyone, not to mention leaving us to pay the extra rent, but we were all kind of glad to see her go. Another long term friend moved in shortly after her leaving.

Make every moment count

and never be afraid to

express your true feelings

Feelings: The good, the bad, and the ugly.

There were a lot of hurt feelings between the two of us which would remain unresolved for years to come. We realize now that although we talked every single day back then, we never really discussed our true feelings. We just did not have the communication skills required to make a relationship work at that time in our lives.

Our friendship just wasn't ready for us to be together in a full blown "In Love" relationship quite yet. Although Otto and I would still hang out together now and again at group functions, things were definitely different between the two of us.

Chance encounter

when we first met,

loving you I would never regret.

But love that day

just wouldn't be,

until further in the future for us to see.

Chance encounter

when happened once more,

friends is where we start to even the score.

Fell into your arms

15 years past

our first chance encounter will now forever last.

Fast Forward

Ten years would go by and my marriage ends. Needing the support of my friends, they welcome me in with open arms to help me through a difficult time, it is just what I need.

My friends and I now spend a lot more time socializing with each other at "family functions" since most of us now have children. Our social activities are now filled with bbq's, play dates, and an occasional night out social drinking at a friends when the kids are out on a sleepover. Otto and I renew our friendship once again. We are back hanging out together, watching movies, having fun, laughing, and once again talking about anything and everything, including the past and what exactly happened between us and our relationship back then.

Lucky In Love

It has now been over fifteen years since our friendship officially started, and neither of us knew that we would be where we are today. We make sure we discuss everything that is going on in our heads, and that we keep communication alive between us, knowing that this is where we failed the first time around.

The kids see him as their step-dad and he fits into the role perfectly. Here we stand, never taking advantage of each other, thanking each and every day that we have each other to be with. We are blessed to have this second chance to be together. We consider ourselves as being Lucky In Love as we have gotten this chance, yet again.

We never go to sleep angry or upset with one another. If we are arguing before bed, we will talk it out. We make sure we tell each other every day that we love each other, and give a good night kiss every night.

Life is never perfect and there will always be rough roads ahead, but we will make the most of it, as a family.

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Love the one you're with

If they are worthy of your love

Be sure they make you happy

And they hold you high above

They are respectful of your needs

And you show them the same respect

Love the one you're with

And promise to protect

Remember nothing's perfect

There will always be ups and downs

If you know you want to make it

Find another way around

Love the one you're with

Forgive them when you fight

Hold them close to your heart

Say "I love you!" every night

©Jolene Belmain

Wrapped up in love

Wrapped up in love
Wrapped up in love

To: My Otto

You were always my rock, it just took me a long time to realize it. I always leaned on you when I needed help and you were always there for me. Even though I tell you all of the time, you will never know how much I appreciate everything you do for me and our family, or how much I truly love you and am in love with you.

You gave me light

when I saw darkness

Love is a sprinkle of happiness

© 2011 JoleneBelmain

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    • JoleneBelmain profile imageAUTHOR

      JoleneBelmain 

      4 years ago

      @Brite-Ideas: Marrying your best friend is pretty darn close. Otto and I have been amazing friends for 17 years now, and I would never change any of it for the world!!

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      Barbara Tremblay Cipak 

      4 years ago from Toronto, Canada

      It's wonderful that you married your soul mate, love reading and hearing about lives that have gone this way - I've been with my hubby for over 30 years now, and I'm going to say something odd - we're not soul mates - we love each other of course, we've been through a lot, what we are though is friends, which is probably why it's lasted so long!

    • JoleneBelmain profile imageAUTHOR

      JoleneBelmain 

      5 years ago

      @Susan Zutautas: Well it took us quite a few years to get there, but it was definitely well worth the wait to spend the rest of our lives together.

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      Susan Zutautas 

      5 years ago from Ontario, Canada

      What a beautiful story. I married my soul mate too.

    • JoleneBelmain profile imageAUTHOR

      JoleneBelmain 

      5 years ago

      @shellys-space: It sure is important to start a relationship off with a friendship first for sure. It makes for a stronger bond that will help get you through those tough times.

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      JoleneBelmain 

      5 years ago

      @David Stone1: Lol I fear you may be right ;)

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      Lorelei Cohen 

      5 years ago from Canada

      @David Stone1: Ha...now I am chuckling. So glad I stopped by to see this comment.

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      Shelly Sellers 

      5 years ago from Midwest U.S.A.

      Being friends is the key to a happy relationship. Your story is lovely!

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      David Stone 

      5 years ago from New York City

      A sweet story, but I think you spelled your guy's name backwards.

    • JoleneBelmain profile imageAUTHOR

      JoleneBelmain 

      5 years ago

      @ajgodinho: Thank-you so much...yes, and not only did we get married this year but we also have expanded our family and had a baby... live is so wonderful :)

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      JoleneBelmain 

      5 years ago

      @aliciamaggie54: Communication is absolutely the root to most problems when it comes to relationships, and if we can learn to keep the communication alive within a relationship, then it will soar to places never imagined :)

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      JoleneBelmain 

      5 years ago

      @Beth Buckley: I feel very lucky to share our love story with the world, and to let people know that there is this kind of love out there... be patient and it will happen, and also it may be closer than you think :)

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      aliciamaggie54 

      5 years ago

      This is a beautiful story and one that everyone can learn from-keep communication open. Over the years I have learned that communication is important. You should not assume or think the other person can read your mind. Very touching story and thanks for sharing. Have a great week.

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      Anthony Godinho 

      5 years ago from Ontario, Canada

      Wonderful to see your renewed friendship and love with Dave. Wishing you both continued success and happiness in your marriage. Taking the opportunity to wish you and yours a Merry Christmas / Happy Holidays and a Prosperous New Year ~ stay blessed!

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      Beth Buckley 

      5 years ago from Portland, OR

      Thank you for writing a very inspiring love story! Blessings to the both of you on wedded bliss ~ Beth

    • JoleneBelmain profile imageAUTHOR

      JoleneBelmain 

      5 years ago

      @donnetted: I couldn't agree with you more Donette, we are truly blessed to have each other in our lives :) We are soul mates through and through

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      Donnette Davis 

      5 years ago from South Africa

      Such a lovely story, thank you for sharing. You truly are both blessed to have one another. Sprinkled with angel dust. Blessed x

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      lesliesinclair 

      6 years ago

      Beautiful sharing of a romance.

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      KimGiancaterino 

      6 years ago

      Very uplifting ... I'm happy for you both!

    • JoleneBelmain profile imageAUTHOR

      JoleneBelmain 

      6 years ago

      @anonymous: I am glad that you found my true life story touching.... and yes I totally agree that if it was meant to happen, it will.

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      JoleneBelmain 

      6 years ago

      @Elaine Chen: I love to share my happy love story with everyone... whether it's so remind people what they have in front of them, or to reassure people that there is still time in your life to find that special person.

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      anonymous 

      6 years ago

      This is such a wonderful strory. Thank you for sharinh it with us ... It really brought tears to my eyes. ... and as I always say ... love will find a way. I wish you all the best.

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      Elaine Chen 

      6 years ago

      thanks for sharing your love story with us; I like to read this kind of happy story :-)

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      JoleneBelmain 

      6 years ago

      @rawwwwwws lm: Thanks, these are songs that remind me of our love :)

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      cmadden 

      6 years ago

      We'll celebrate our 26th anniversary this year - and when we met, neither one of us was "looking" - in fact, I was certain that I would never marry! Life happens at the oddest times, places, and paces, doesn't it? Congratulations!

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      JoleneBelmain 

      6 years ago

      @KathyMcGraw2: We thank every day for our second chance for sure. We know it doesn't happen often enough.

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      JoleneBelmain 

      6 years ago

      @Echo Phoenix: Yes we are extremely lucky to have each other and our family... we couldn't ask for more :)

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      Echo Phoenix 

      6 years ago

      you are indeed lucky:) best wishes for many unexpected pleasures in your life together... may all your dreams come true!

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      Kathy McGraw 

      6 years ago from California

      A second chance at love...that is a rare gift indeed. I loved reading your story and it sounds like the two of you were indeed meant to be together. Best to both of you as today was your wedding day.

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      rawwwwwws lm 

      6 years ago

      Great choice of songs! This is such a lovely and wonderful lens.

    • JoleneBelmain profile imageAUTHOR

      JoleneBelmain 

      6 years ago

      @cmadden: I was in that same place, I was never getting married again... Dave was the exception to my rule I guess lol. We are happy now and that's all that matters :)

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      anonymous 

      6 years ago

      @JoleneBelmain: Oh no to, red eyes and a running nose.

      Just smile, and be happy! :)

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      JoleneBelmain 

      6 years ago

      @WinWriter: I couldn't imagine my life without Dave either and we aren't even married yet, though we've known each other for over 15 years. We complete each other... and the kids complete us as a couple :)

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      WinWriter 

      6 years ago

      I love this! Congratulations and what a wonderful tribute to your love. My husband and I have been married for 22 years. We're soul mates and I can't imagine life without him. My best to you and Dave and for a long life of love, happiness, and joy. :)

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      JoleneBelmain 

      6 years ago

      @clemency lm: It's amazing how thing come back together :) Congratulations on finding your love once again.

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      clemency lm 

      6 years ago

      Lovely lens - thanks for sharing your story. I got back together with my first love after nearly 20 years apart and we have now been married for almost a year. I love a happy ending! Congratulations.

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      JoleneBelmain 

      6 years ago

      @wecomparebooks: Thank-you so much, we are having a blast planning it all. It's going to be a great day :)

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      wecomparebooks 

      6 years ago

      congrats on your upcomming wedding! and thanks for the comment on my wedding lens!

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      JoleneBelmain 

      6 years ago

      @Spiderlily321: It is always nice to hear when someone has found their soul mate and the love of their life... it always seems to make life so much more enjoyable knowing that you have or have had that love that everyone searches for :)

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      JoleneBelmain 

      6 years ago

      @Lady Lorelei: And I will be sobbing the whole way, going to have a couple of kleenex's ready for the trip ;)

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      JoleneBelmain 

      6 years ago

      @cynthiannleighton: Thanks for stopping by ;)

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      Spiderlily321 

      6 years ago

      This is very sweet. I love this lens. I met my soulmate 2 years ago on my birthday after a few really horrible relationships. He is my best friend, fiance, and the love of my life. I feel so blessed. Thank you for sharing and congrats to you two!

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      Lorelei Cohen 

      6 years ago from Canada

      Not much longer and you and Dave will be man and wife. Looking forward to seeing you walk down the pathway into his arms.

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      Lorelei Cohen 

      6 years ago from Canada

      Not much longer and you and Dave will be man and wife. Looking forward to seeing you walk down the pathway into his arms.

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      cynthiannleighton 

      6 years ago

      Stopped by:-)

      Thanks -

    • JoleneBelmain profile imageAUTHOR

      JoleneBelmain 

      6 years ago

      @Teenysdaddy1981: That's a very sweet idea, and I'm sure she will appreciate it very much... thanks so much for stopping by today for some inspiration :)

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      Teenysdaddy1981 

      6 years ago

      Very nice!! This has inspired me to write a lens for my wife's birthday. I need all the help I can get because her birthday falls on Easter this year and that's a lot to contend with. Thank you.

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      JoleneBelmain 

      6 years ago

      @mariaamoroso: There is nothing but warmth when we think about each other, thanks so much for taking the time to read about our true life love story.

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      JoleneBelmain 

      6 years ago

      @crstnblue: We know that we will never love another person the way that we love each other, guaranteed!

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      irenemaria 

      6 years ago from Sweden

      It takes one to know one. I relate to this story. Enjoying the warmth in it. I have posted my story too. In the lenses: Irene Marias story and Glioblastoma Multiforme Braintumor

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      crstnblue 

      6 years ago

      Very nice lens and story! Good luck & keep it going perfectly!

      Thanks for sharing!

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      JoleneBelmain 

      6 years ago

      @norma-holt: Thank-you for stopping by.... always glad to share my love story

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      norma-holt 

      6 years ago

      Beautiful story and well presented facts. Blessed and featured on Blessed by Skiesgreen 2012 and also on Love Gifts, hugs

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      JoleneBelmain 

      6 years ago

      @rainbowbutterfl1: It is my pleasure to spread the word about what a true love is all about. Never settle for anything less than what you truly deserve!!!

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      JoleneBelmain 

      6 years ago

      @TonyPayne: Well thank-you so much... we are truly blessed, as are any soul mates brought together. This lens only reflects what I feel for Dave and what he reciprocates back to me :)

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      rainbowbutterfl1 

      6 years ago

      Beautiful love story. Thank you for sharing with us.

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      Tony Payne 

      6 years ago from Southampton, UK

      That's a wonderful love story, I wish you a wonderful life together. My wife and I met via the internet and it was a case of love at first write. She created a lens about our love, but unfortunately it was before this new quest. I think it's only right to bless this lens to add some extra magic to it, and I hope it rubs off into your personal lives as well.

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      JoleneBelmain 

      6 years ago

      @anonymous: I couldn't agree with you more, so Lucky In Love :) Thanks for stopping by, hope you have a great New Year, the best to you :)

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      anonymous 

      6 years ago

      Jolene, thanks for sharing you're story with us. You and Dave are indeed "Lucky in Love." All the best.

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      JoleneBelmain 

      6 years ago

      @Harshitha LM: Without a doubt in my mind, Dave and I will be together always, thank-you so much for the well wishes :)

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      Harshitha LM 

      6 years ago

      Lovely. Be happy, be safe and be together always.

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      JoleneBelmain 

      6 years ago

      @Diana Wenzel: And I thank my lucky stars every day that we have this opportunity to be with each other. He has and always will be my soulmate :)

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      JoleneBelmain 

      6 years ago

      @nikosgr: Yes it feels so amazing to know that I have found the one that I am meant to be with... I wish you much luck in the search for your soulmate. I hope that she is not too far away :)

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      JoleneBelmain 

      6 years ago

      @viscri8: Thank-you so much. There is no doubt in my mind that we will have our happily ever after :)

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      JoleneBelmain 

      6 years ago

      @anonymous: I love to let people know that it is possible to achieve so much happiness in a relationship, even while they go through so many hardships in their own lives... just press on and keep your chins up :) There is a soul mate out there for everyone.

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      Renaissance Woman 

      6 years ago from Colorado

      Wishing you much joy together. Finding your soul mate is the true blessing in life. Happy holidays!

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      nikosgr 

      6 years ago

      Finding your soulmate is one the most amazing things in the world!!!!

      I so happy that you've found your soulmate!!!

      As for me i haven't find her yet but i know that one day i will!!!

      Be always well!!!

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      viscri8 

      6 years ago

      I wish you happiness after 2012! Blessed!

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      anonymous 

      6 years ago

      It is a pleasure meeting both of you here. Thank you for sharing your inspirational story and wish you the best! :)

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      JoleneBelmain 

      7 years ago

      @MaryB613: Thank-you so much :) as long as we stay the way we are right now, we have all of the riches in the world with each other

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      MaryB613 

      7 years ago

      That is beautiful! Congratulations and I pray that God will bless you both richly!

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      JoleneBelmain 

      7 years ago

      @anonymous: Thank-you very much :)

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      anonymous 

      7 years ago

      ..wow its so nice, i like your love story it so nice..i knew that love was not only gave a things but also the important matter..who i wish that same as u,my love story soon....happy ending of u..

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      JoleneBelmain 

      7 years ago

      @puzzlerpaige: I am so glad to have made your day... everyday I am with Dave, my day is made already :) .....thank-you so much for stopping by and for the kind comment.

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      puzzlerpaige 

      7 years ago

      I needed a good love story today. You guys made me happy :).

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      JoleneBelmain 

      7 years ago

      @BeyondRoses: Thank-you so much... as long as I have my family and Dave in my life, that'll be no problem at all :)

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      JoleneBelmain 

      7 years ago

      @fireblazzer: Thank-you for stopping by :)

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      BeyondRoses 

      7 years ago

      Wherever you are, be with love ... Sweet story!

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      fireblazzer 

      7 years ago

      i like your lens.. good story

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      JoleneBelmain 

      7 years ago

      @LizMac60: I am very glad to be able to share my love story to anyone :) Thank-you for the visit!!

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      Liz Mackay 

      7 years ago from United Kingdom

      Thanks for telling you for telling your story

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      JoleneBelmain 

      7 years ago

      @katiecolette: We are lucky indeed to have found each other, and we are thankful each and every day :) Thank-you for reading my lens.

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      JoleneBelmain 

      7 years ago

      @anonymous: Thank-you so much for the kind wishes, we very much appreciate it :)

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      JoleneBelmain 

      7 years ago

      @anonymous: So happy you enjoyed my lens, that touches my heart. Thank-you so much for visiting.

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      katiecolette 

      7 years ago

      Great story :) You are very lucky to have found your soulmate :)

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      anonymous 

      7 years ago

      I hope you live happily together for the rest of your lives.

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      anonymous 

      7 years ago

      Sweet, sweet, sweet....you had me reading every word....we all love a true love story...hope springs eternal!

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      JoleneBelmain 

      7 years ago

      @StellaSingles: Thank-you so much :) If we could bless everyone with a love like ours, we would, and the world would be even more fabulous for it.

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      StellaSingles 

      7 years ago

      finding love is hard, its nice to hear stories when it happens.

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      JoleneBelmain 

      7 years ago

      @daylu9: I couldn't agree with you more, life is so much more content when you have your soul mate by your side.

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      daylu9 

      7 years ago

      Good story. Finding your soul mate is truly one of the most important parts of a fulfilling life!

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      JoleneBelmain 

      7 years ago

      @Wednesday-Elf: Thank-you so much for stopping by, sorry to hear about your husband... we will be the same I truly believe for the rest of our lives... we were just made for each other.

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      Wednesday-Elf 

      7 years ago from Savannah, Georgia

      A sweet story. Thanks for sharing. It's fantastic when you find your "soulmate". My hubby of 45 years was my best friend; my soulmate. He's been gone 4 years now and I still miss him every single day. As with you & Dave, we could (and did) talk about 'anything and everything'. In all that time, we never ran out of things to talk about! I'm happy for you.

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      JoleneBelmain 

      7 years ago

      @Redneck Lady Luck: There is no other way to display love but in a loving way :)

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      JoleneBelmain 

      7 years ago

      @Virginia Allain: Thank-you so much for reading about the love of my life... we truly are blessed :)

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      Virginia Allain 

      7 years ago from Central Florida

      How truly sweet to read about your journey to be together. Loved it.

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      Lorelei Cohen 

      7 years ago from Canada

      Absolutely gorgeous. I lovely love story displayed in a very loving way ;)

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