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Random Wisdom

Updated on October 26, 2011

1. The truth is never changing but the many views can be skewed by personal interpretation.(when one can see past their own hurt, desires, wishes and wants, they can be empathetic to others views and ultimately their truth.)

2. Open mindedness is a state of open heartedness. (many times a person can not seem to understand another..... unless something unusual or tramatic happens to them or someone they love and care about)

3. There is a fine line between content and happiness. ( Only when one crossed the line does one truly know the difference.

4. If you want to prove a point.... live it and let others find the answer themselves. ( It is a method that takes patience but makes a lasting impression)

5. Unconditional love is a love of God, self and others , built on acceptance, tolerance, patience, giving of self, forgiveness, humor and all sides of the truth.( However this does not mean one has to accept bad behavior or tolerate abuse.... simply to love .... sometimes from afar)

6. Controlling people feel completely out of control , unless controlling! ( Self and others) This is not a great idea but some folks fall for the leadership notion.

7. A great leader has, can and will do whatever they have asked of another! Great leaders guide with unconditional love of others and with dignity and honor for themselves and others.

8. Reality ( our own and others ) is the best place to remain with a side dish of dreams ! ( True appreciation or change comes from knowing the difference)

9. A Hard days work builds self worth, self esteem, future productivity ! ( Everyone needs to see and know that their time is worth much!)

10. Respect and trust should be a given ( unless building it back) Any and all relationships deserve a fresh canvas to start and project a new picture.

11. Forgiveness does not mean you have to continue in any abuse. (mental or physical) Safe way to love them and save yourself..... forgiveness relieves oneself of prolonged anger and bitterness..... and allows the offender to keep dignity and to move forward in a positive.

12. Anger has its rightful place! ( many have moved mountains of injustice due to outrage)

13. Peace stems from unconditional love and enjoying the simple things in life ( Many think peacefulness is only aquired through nature, yoga, music, poems ect. However it can just as well come from working out, dancing, jumping out of an airplane. ( the term "simple" is deemed by the individual)

14. Two wrongs will never make a right ( however normally someone learns a valuable lesson

15. Sometimes a person doesn't want forgiveness .......they just want to be forgotten ( At times in our life, sometimes a person has done all they can do for a relationship ( business, family, intro-personal) They simply just want out.

For today that has been a few of my random wisdom thoughts...... just sharing and I would enjoy hearing yours as well! Thinking is contagious !

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      Momma Mia 5 years ago from North Carolina

      Thank you msorensson

      For taking the time to read and leave behind a nice compliment ! Hope you are having the most wonderful day!

      wishingUwell

      Mia

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      msorensson 5 years ago

      I love the hub. A couple of them ring true for me right now..Thank you.

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      Kenneth Avery 5 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

      12/8

      10:54 p.m./cst

      Dear Mia, Thank you for your nice comments, thoughts, and wonderful advice. I may just go that route. I have already been contacted by a lot of my followers from the thread I sent through the Hubbers Hang Out Forum, but with your idea, a personal hub would be a very nice gesture. Thank you sincerely, Mia.

      And I am so blessed to have someone as creative, sensitive, and caring as you for my friend.

      With My Highest Regards,

      KENNETH

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      Momma Mia 5 years ago from North Carolina

      Yes Ken it is absolutely fine to call me Mia. Thank you for your kind words and very sweet compliment. Also I am grateful to be your friend:)

      Maybe you could write a small hub to tell your followers how you feel and what your intentions of speaking with each. That way they can come to you, as you are sick and need to take it easy. Please take good care ~~~ you will remain in my thoughts and prayers ~~~

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      Kenneth Avery 5 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

      My Dear Mia, (is it appropriate to call you Mia?) I want to give you the respect you deserve. Thank you so much for the caring words and prayers. I was, like I said, busy with unfinished business but more importantly, I wanted YOU and all of my followers to KNOW that you are all appreciated by me and NOT taken for granted.

      Some time back, a hub member advised me to sit down one day and visit all of my followers, which I did for two days and didn't feel like going any further, but I will when I feel up to it. And I found out that I am only one person. And do wish there was a way to tell MY FOLLOWERS just how MUCH I Care for them. I will work and think about it. But Mia, you are an exeptionally-talented girl and your talent is so sharp and creative, what I am struggling to say is I am glad to have you in my life. I could learn from you. Honest. I wish you well and a Merry Christmas to you and yours......KENNETH

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      Momma Mia 5 years ago from North Carolina

      Kenneth

      So sorry to hear of your declining health. I truly understand trying to wind up projects due to failing health. Sincerely hate that you are dealing with life in that mode. A special prayer is being sent your way this morning in hopes you will be feeling spry and well again soon..... Have a very Merry Christmas my friend!

      always

      wiahingUwell

      Mia

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      Kenneth Avery 5 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

      12/7,

      Momma Mia, GREAT hub. Amazing talent. This was super in all aspects of writing--text, lay-out and presentation. Voted up and all but funny. I offer you, my sincere apologies for taking so long in getting here to read your wonderful works. I am sorry. My health is not good and I was finishing up a few projects in case my health worsens. I DO Value YOU as my friend and follower. You are a blessing to me as well as HubPages. Sincerely. Have a Wonderful Christmas!

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      Momma Mia 6 years ago from North Carolina

      Good Morning Tony !

      Very true, Love brings us closer to wisdom and sharing it with love creates more love to go around! Thank you for reading and your very kind comment!

      Hope you are having a great start to a wonderful week!

      always,

      wishingUwell

      Mia

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      Tony DeLorger 6 years ago from Adelaide, South Australia

      Lovely Mia. I would simply say the closer we come to love, the more wisdom we can acquire. The most important part of gaining wisdom is the sharing of it. Hope you are well and happy. Take care, Tony

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      Momma Mia 6 years ago from North Carolina

      Thank you Sueswan for reading, your kind words and the vote up.

      always

      wishingUwell

      Mia

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      Sueswan 6 years ago

      Great nuggets of wisdom.

      I like, " I choose peace over this"

      Voted up and awesome.

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      Momma Mia 6 years ago from North Carolina

      Alastar

      Thank you very much for such kind words and a compliment! Thanks for taking the time to read my random thoughts. Hope you have a fantastic weekend!

      wishingUwell

      Mia

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      Alastar Packer 6 years ago from North Carolina

      A little while ago I posted a comment on marcoujor's hub about a horrific work-place experience she survived. In it I wrote that those who have been through the fire can only come out wiser, kinder, and stronger. Momma Mia, you are all these attributes and so much more. thank you Mia.

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      Momma Mia 6 years ago from North Carolina

      Thank You Rosemay for taking the time to read and leave a kind thought!

      wishingUwell

      Mia

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      Rosemary Sadler 6 years ago from Hawkes Bay - NewZealand

      I like your list of random thoughts

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      Momma Mia 6 years ago from North Carolina

      Thank you so much Dee for reading and your kind comment! So true it is..... can't force a lesson......the blessing is within the lesson...that others learn for themselves. Sometimes hard to deal with ( as a mom) but knowing is showing .... and teaching ain't preaching...lol I do try to let my daughters gain the gift on their own.... tuff stuff I tell ya

      Thanks again for dropping by and saying hello

      always,

      wishingUwell

      Mia

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      Dee aka Nonna 6 years ago

      I love, love, love your list of Random Wisdom thoughts. I especially like #'s 7 and 15. I heard or read this one not long ago..."you can teach, but you can not force." Voted up and useful.