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Should a Girl Make the First Move

Updated on October 27, 2013

Should a girl tell a guy she likes him

Girls are a bit aggressive nowadays. There are some girls, when they found out that there are boys who like them, they will make the first move.

Some girls take chances because they really like that guy and they believe the feelings are mutual.

In our country, no matter how much you like the guy, you are not expected to make the first move. It's just morally unacceptable to tell a guy you like him and ask him to be your boyfriend.

Girls normally wait for the guys to tell their feelings and intentions. The only problem arise when the guy you like is a shy type that can't express their feelings for you.

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Question for Shy Guys

Do you like when girls make the first move?

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Boys or Girls? - Tell us your opinion

I think girls should not make the first move because the guys might take advantage of it and you will end up broken hearted. Also, girls can easily fall in love than boys.

Should a girl make the first move?

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    • clouda9 lm profile image

      clouda9 lm 

      6 years ago

      I just had to get to know the shy guy behind that body...that face...that smile!

    • Lynda Makara profile image

      Lynda Makara 

      6 years ago from California

      I agree with you that men should make the first move. It's nature and it has nothing to do with emancipation.

    • mariaamoroso profile image


      6 years ago from Sweden

      I have a feeling that you both know when the sparkles are there.

    • fivee05 lm profile image

      fivee05 lm 

      6 years ago

      No, not really.

    • Titia profile image

      Titia Geertman 

      6 years ago from Waterlandkerkje - The Netherlands

      It really amazes me to see and read that most girls expect the guy to make the first move. Ladies, what happened to emancipation.

    • siobhanryan profile image


      6 years ago

      No-not the done thing in Ireland

    • BorderCollie LM profile image

      BorderCollie LM 

      6 years ago

      Anyone can make the first move. If you like someone then make a move. Otherwise how are they supposed to know they like you. Really good lens

    • adragast24 profile image


      6 years ago

      "In our country, no matter how much you like the guy, you are not expected to make the first move. It's just morally unacceptable to tell a guy you like him and ask him to be your boyfriend."... where are you from? Is it US you are speaking about? Because then, it is clearly morally acceptable to tell a guy you like him. Unusual but morally acceptable.

    • kimark421 profile image


      6 years ago

      Great lens. There's no reason a girl can't make the first move.

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      6 years ago

      I certainly have, but I'm the guy, so my response to that doesn't count. Blessed by a SquidAngel!


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