Why You Keep Getting Dumped

Getting dumped is not news! In fact, Most of us have been there. It surely feels awful but thankfully it’s just a matter of time and you are over it. That is of course if you decide to move on by not trying to beg your ex for a second chance.

Hopefully, you weren’t dumped for cheating because if this is the case, then begging for a second chance sounds reasonable and for heavens sake, don’t do it again once forgiven.

But if you were dumped out the blue…Just when you thought you had finally met your soul mate for life and BOOM….. He BOMBARDS you with very “obnoxious news” that he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you anymore and just like that... He just vanishes in thin air and leaves your heart practically bleeding….not knowing what to do next. Then there is no reason for feeling guilty about being dumped.

Instead, you should work upon nursing and healing your broken heart. Besides, you are not alone. You are not the first to be dumped or the last either.

Rejection is part of life however painful it feels at the moment.

Being dumped does not mean that you are not good enough or that there is something wrong with you. So you better pull yourself together and get over it really quick. Besides, it’s even great for your personal growth.

However, if you keep getting dumped because:

· Of no good reason

· you are very boring

· You are too good and he feels he doesn’t deserve you

Then there is a good reason for worry……..

But first, Let’s first understand…….

Why you always get dumped

1. You are attracted to the wrong guys

You prefer guys with bad boy characters who turn out to be manipulative, abusive and emotionally unavailable. In short, you are attracted to douchebags who derive satisfaction from using and dumping.

2. You think you can change him or he will change for you

How naïve! So you spend a lot of time preaching or mothering him with hope that he will change some day. Instead of appreciating your effort, he ends up loathing you and eventually dumping you for trying to control his life.

3. You believe words more than action

He says he loves you and you take it as the gospel truth. Not taking into account if his actions rhyme with his words.

4. You don’t learn

You are always coming up with new excuses to justify his toxic behavior instead of understanding that you deserve better. You justify his not returning calls, not showing up and so much more with all reasons you can think about.

5. You trust easily

You are so gullible. You think every body is as honest as you are. You believe even the impractical lies they tell you.

If you relate to any or all of these reasons above, then its high time you work upon them otherwise you will keep getting dumped over and over again which will leave your heart severely wounded almost making you give up on love.

7 reasons why you keep getting dumped

Getting dumped is not news! In fact, Most of us have been there. It surely feels awful but thankfully it’s just a matter of time and you are over it. That is of course if you decide to move on by not trying to beg your ex for a second chance.

Hopefully, you weren’t dumped for cheating because if this is the case, then begging for a second chance sounds reasonable and for heavens sake, don’t do it again once forgiven.

But if you were dumped out the blue…Just when you thought you had finally met your soul mate for life and BOOM….. He BOMBARDS you with very “obnoxious news” that he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you anymore and just like that... He just vanishes in thin air and leaves your heart practically bleeding….not knowing what to do next. Then there is no reason for feeling guilty about being dumped.

Instead, you should work upon nursing and healing your broken heart. Besides, you are not alone. You are not the first to be dumped or the last either.

Rejection is part of life however painful it feels at the moment.

Being dumped does not mean that you are not good enough or that there is something wrong with you. So you better pull yourself together and get over it really quick. Besides, it’s even great for your personal growth.

However, if you keep getting dumped because:

·Of no good reason

· you are very boring

·You are too good and he feels he doesn’t deserve you

Then there is a good reason for worry……..

But first, Let’s first understand…….

Why you always get dumped

1.You are attracted to the wrong guys

You prefer guys with bad boy characters who turn out to be manipulative, abusive and emotionally unavailable. In short, you are attracted to douchebags who derive satisfaction from using and dumping.