Words can Hurt or Heal... What did yours do Today?
Words can deform the world
We develop social attitudes as we age by years, which strongly influence our behaviour. We internalize the attitudes of the society around us by making the attitudes our own.
Due to the fast life routine, self-governing and our busy schedules, we limited our selves, paying less attention to our social skills influencing people to lose the value of words, although words are the start of everything …. Love and friendship start with a word... Fights and wars starts with a word
We use words daily to communicate and interact, it shows;The average woman uses 7,000 words a day and five tones of speech; also the average man uses 2,000 words and three tones.
yeah it is a fact; women talk more than men but as a matter of me being a woman I will defined that as we don’t talk much other than we just communicate better...However we should think before we talk and use our 7000 words or those 2000 for men carefully cause as there are words that will never be forgotten.
Change your words... Change your life
When you tell a person you appreciate the effort or how beautiful they are… applying those positive words will reflect positively on that person.
On the other hand when you tell a person you are good for nothing or you are not worth it…applying those negative words gain you nothing but making a gloomy person.
In both cases your word will be remembered altough in the second case your words will not be remembered in a way that you would like.
Adding more positive words in our dictionary and thinking before we speak, will surely help in improving our life because words can do magic to people it can give you what ever you wish for.
By words you can have your dream job, a lovely family, a good friend besides for sure it will make you a heart winner. Treat yourself and others to something special. Do your plans on how you're going to spend your life while thinking only of yourself as you're always there for others on every other day.