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Updated on November 24, 2013

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The Pull to Life Force Energy is Love

Our religious beliefs, ideologies, or hatred of the aforementioned have played a huge role in how corrupted our perceptions of love are. The idea that one is only worthy of love based on a set of rules, obligations, or commandments as it were, has tainted our view on how to love ourselves unconditionally. Entertaining that thought, look at your life, or more appropriately your creation. Do you see unconditional love flowing freely? You should have an unconditional love for yourself always. In doing that you can understand and create unconditional love in your world, then indirectly, also in mine. In controlling and trapping others, we have trapped ourselves in our own creations of fear and insecurity. We can always make the choice to see at varying degrees, ourself in other beings. This is love. The connection to life force energy in yourself and the attraction to it in others.

Humans Are All Different

Seeing someone living on the street does not give you a complete picture of what's inside the heart and mind of that human. Knowing that one particular human has money, the current preferred clothes or power, is not enough. We still do not know that human.When you see a young Black boy with his pants “sagging”, even with all of your initial judgments, let me assure you; you do not know him. We are individuals making a whole, and all humans should be respected and able to express their best human. If you fear this, you fear expressing yourself and you need to ask yourself; why? Are you feeling oppressed? Your mind and your heart is all you need to be free to love. Your heart and mind needs to be cleared. We don't need to clear the world of those who dare to express their spirit in a lively manner. To live freely is to give freedom. To live love is to give love. It is also to receive stronger freedom and stronger love.

With experience comes knowledge and with knowledge comes wisdom. If you skip the experience, you skip your opportunity for wisdom. Remember my definition of knowing is to have a tangible or intangible experience with. Thinking is not wisdom. If you think, you don't know. If you don't know, you haven't had the pleasure of the experience. If you can close your eyes, feel what you've learned and make a better decision, you then have experienced wisdom. Until then you are still having the experiences you need to attain it. This is our genuine spirit, our emotion if you will. Intuition can easily pick this up. We block our intuition the more labels we grasp hold to; we limit our genuine opportunity for expression in exchange for a preset one. Choose accordingly.

Keep in mind that when you subscribe to different titles, you open yourself up to a mass generalization of who you are. For some of us, those generalizations couldn't be further from the truth. In addition, our expectations of other humans in these roles turn into bouts of disappointments. These are titles with history's so long, that if you knew more about them, you may change what you think they represent. It's not necessarily "bad" to have labels. However, if you are on a quest to any kind of self exploration, purge any you can live without.

The next time you interact with a human, at the store, in the street, or even your child; look them in the eyes, inhale appreciating the air you breathe, then exhale intentfully and open your heart to who they are. You may learn something new.

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A Loving Exchange

Love is the force that connects. This is the same force that allows atoms to connect to each other to create molecules. Love is the pull to mother and unborn child, then to child forever. Love is that pull to your craft when your environment won’t allow you that precious moment with it. What a force this can be when used with awareness! If you want to learn how to love yourself, love yourself deeper or love others, consider this; self love is the measurement of the force that recognizes the spirit, God, energy (choose your flavor), in oneself and follows it. That means you know who you are, feel it and you listen to that part of yourself to make decisions. In order to accomplish this successfully it is mandatory to have an open heart. This is where your God lives, right alongside your mind.

Something is created with each interaction, with each human we come into contact with. That's how we work. We have our energy and we share it with others, then something new is created. Ever feel completely comforted when you leave a family member or friends presence? Just don't forget you are responsible for your half of the creation either way. Get the most loving experience out of every interaction and give the most you can in each one. Love will fill in the gaps.

Love & Happiness

The Force & The Balance

When you are flowing from this space, you completely trust yourself, and your decisions reflect that through examples in your life. When you look out and see turmoil all around you, stop for a moment and consider your level of spirit, God, or energy awareness. When you are back in tuned with that, you will begin to change your situation. If you feel that God, spirit or energy externally; you may feel fear. However, if you can feel it internally; you will feel more powerful. Love is our spiritual homeostasis. It keeps us completely balanced. It balances our connections and disconnections with everything around us. This is particularly important when coexisting with other humans.

Can You See God in These Eyes?

Love Is an Attraction to God

When you love another, you see and recognize the spirit, God, energy in them. That means we trust them to make good decisions for themselves. It is not in loving practice to worry or to use worry to control other humans. When the idea switches to our children, we should be secure in either what we taught them through our example or where we have placed them for care. It’s not okay to use our insecurities to limit the experience of other humans. If you have been doing that in your life, it’s okay, just stop it now. You are more aware and can change it anytime you want.

We are human. Our existence is one that originates from love. The desire to connect to the world around us and each other is obvious from our first moments after birth. The question then becomes, why are we so separate from it?

A live being with life force or God flowing through it. Can you feel it from this picture?
A live being with life force or God flowing through it. Can you feel it from this picture?

Our Children are Ready for Better

Superiority Separates Us From Love

Feeling superior to any other being is to be separated from love, to varying degrees. It is the ultimate supporter of disconnection. No one that looks at the world, sees it and recognizes themselves can feel a comparison of better or worse. This is apparent from our creation. This is the reason children leave home, spouses leave relationships, and why humans ditch religions. Something in us knows, no one is better or worse than us, just different. Note the attitude of children. They respond based on behavior in the moment, otherwise they are just being themselves. You can only feel compassion and empathy. This is why labels such as teacher, guru, and spiritual leader must be considered with great scrutiny. What is intended behind these titles? Your behavior alone or what you create, should already display what you are. If you need something to remind me of who you are by a constant reference to your title, instead of examples in your living; I'm concerned that you are not really living what you say. If you can't live what you are, then you certainly can't teach me how to be it.

There are so many flashes of quick images containing labeled ideology of what we are seeing. It's hypnotizing. There are labels, and categories to every "kind of human". Partially because we have seen every kind of movie, and television show. TV now is nothing but a bunch of human generalizations gone profit.

If you want to know; to have an experience, tangibly or intangibly with a human, you must look them in the eye, open your heart and feel what they have to say. Chances are, you have not developed your intuition in such a way to know enough about that human at first glance. That's okay, it's why we have words and other forms of communication. You never have to assume, you can always just ask.

This goes for other beings as well. Once you have disconnected from seeing your connection to something, removed you from them, God from them, and made them less, you have been introduced to the spirit of disconnection. Know that you are choosing to cause this separation from love. Know that it's the same spirit that hurts animals for no intended purpose but to express hurt and pain. Superiority is a dangerous thing. We are living the result.

Let's Grow in God Or Consciousness

You can begin this process by reevaluating how you love. First, how connected are you to the flowing presence of God in your body? If you don't like that; how aware are you of all the universal energy present in your being right now? How do you represent the universe? How are you representing your God? If you knew that everything had God in it; how would you treat everything now, in this moment? If we are here to learn and grow, when do you personally take some time, to engage openly in your interactions, giving you the power to learn something you can grow from? Can we let some of our titles go so that humans can have some basic much needed loving interactions with each other? Can we again know that all experiences have the potential for initiating a lesson or being receptive to learning?

Nothing and no one is better than you. You are neither better than any other being. We are all at our level of God, our level of consciousness, and we all exist. Much like the animals seem to coexist, clashing when they need to and staying in perfect balance, humans can do this too. We just have to start thinking less like God's children and more like God's adults. We've been children for way too long.

Give Growth a Chance

We learn with every interaction and every encounter. We can literally learn and change in an instant. There is no beneficial reason to ever be unkind to another human. If a connection to a human or idea is no longer growing or beneficial to you, leave it alone. There is no need to fight or to cause any resistance at the time of a disconnection. Whatever the reason is. The faster you can accept what is and feel, you will know what has grown in you from it. The faster you can recognize your own growth and send that connection on their way with love, the faster you will be in your normal state of joy again. A disconnect from another is usually an opportunity to reconnect to ourselves. When we understand that whatever one does, will create with it the perfect circumstance for that lesson, we can begin to understand faith.

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No Fear

Love is the pull toward the divine in yourself and in others. That takes us being our most genuine selves. It's hard to be ourselves with all of the masks we wear to protect ourselves from being exposed. When really, being exposed is our only way to connect our divinity, with the divinity in others. How can one know you? How can you experience another without you giving of your truest self? Have no fear. Don't fear information, it's how you learn. Don't fear being close to other humans, it's how you grow. Don't be afraid to express yourself, it's how you know and express God.


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    • manatita44 profile image


      4 years ago from london

      Perhaps you know of Mother Kali. Perhaps that's why you've added Her to your name. In some ways She is the fiercest but when she's on your side it is supposed to be pretty awesome, like sailing in a Golden Boat with Her at the helm. Hari Om Tat Sat!

      I will check out your sight.

    • Kukata Kali profile imageAUTHOR

      Kukata Kali 

      4 years ago

      Joyous moment! Yes indeed the woman that you see here is me. My name is from Kiswahili and means "To cut fiercely". I will find this poem and have the suggested experience. Thank you for inviting me to it. Please come to my website and see where your spirit leads you from there.

      Enlightened love to you Manatita!

    • manatita44 profile image


      4 years ago from london

      Thanks Kukata.

      What does your name mean? Mine is Sanskrit. It means: Beyond the Mind, in the Heart of our Lord Beloved Supreme. It was given to me in '89 by my Spiritual Teacher.

      The girl is full of beauty, yes. Looks different. Is it you?

      I am very inspired by your topic: LOVE. Many of my poems and prose carry this theme. You may wish to read the dedication to Ms Dora. I believe it's called Love is Everything. Prose and poems.

      Let us remember the Supreme Mother as we work this day. Higher blessings. Om Shanti!

    • Kukata Kali profile imageAUTHOR

      Kukata Kali 

      4 years ago

      It's always a pleasure to share in the space of another lover Manatita! May we be of assistance to each other as we continue on our paths. All my love :)

    • manatita44 profile image


      4 years ago from london

      You and I, Kali,

      We seem to travel similar Pathways. I trust that you are well in Spirit and all is good. May you continue to inspire and share your loving messages with others. Om Shanti!

    • Kukata Kali profile imageAUTHOR

      Kukata Kali 

      4 years ago

      Thank you!

    • srinagasudha profile image


      4 years ago from INDIA

      Hi Kali,

      Touching article.

    • Kukata Kali profile imageAUTHOR

      Kukata Kali 

      4 years ago

      Thank you so much!

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      4 years ago

      Sistah, I'm loving and lov'in this blog. Keep the wisdom coming!!!


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