The Beauty of Woman

Assalammu Alaikum. Wr. Wb.

Please, take a look at the picture above. Masya Allah! those are only eyes, but even so, we can see the beauty in theirs and make us wonder how wonderful the creation of Allah that lies in all of their faces under those niqabs.

This is a response to the Post that made by another fellow blogger about Woman. I want to remind every Brother and Sister in Islam that beauty should not be exposed in unappropriated ways because it doesn't need too many "tools" just to make people see what beauty is. And even all you want to do is only to make a point on your post, please don't put a shame on yourself by showing the world your personal view on women.

"And mix no truth with falsehood, nor conceal the truth while you know." QS 01:42.

I know out there many women abandon their duty as women and sold themselves to this materialistic world, where you can easily found them with all of their aurat exposed to the world. It is wrong, and surely they will get their own punishment. But please, let them be! Because they are already old enough to understand what is good and what is not. And you should not use their wrong behavior for your own benefit.

As a symbol of beauty, in many stories of the world, Woman become the reason of the fallen of Man and the greatest Empire ever. Started from Eve (Hawa), Helen of Troy and Cleopatra, the list can go on so long and still going. Why did it happen? Is it true what people said that Women is the symbol of evil?

Let's see this first:

"Oh Mankind, be dutiful to Allah, who created you from the single person, and from him He created his wife...." QS 04:1.

"It is He who created you from single person (Adam) and then He was created from him, his wife (Eve)...." QS 07:189.

Al Qur'an had stated that Woman has been created from Man as her essence. Why?

Beauty should not be exposed using inappropriate ways because it doesn’t need too many “tools” just to show people what beauty is.

But when you see one of the women showing her “tools” to the world, you should not mock her by exposing her pictures everywhere. If you used an inappropriate picture of a woman in your blog to sell your article, what the difference it makes between you and those men who used woman as their property to show and sell then?

"And among His signs it this, that His created for you wives from among yourselves, that you might find repose in them, and He was put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for people who reflect."
QS 30:21.

is it have clearly answered, right? Woman had been made from the part of her husband, for her to become everything that he desires the most. So they can live together in love and become the great Oase for each other's tired minds.

"Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has made one of them to excels the other,and because they spend (to support them) from their means....." QS 04:34.

Man, it is your duty to protect Woman. But how can you protecting us, when you keep humiliating us by throwing our sister's bad behavior to our faces and told us to answer your question about why these behaviors happened. It is not our fault if some of us doing the sinful deed. It is their (Women) choice and their protectors own responsibility. So please, do not ask a question that was not our duty to answers. But maybe, if you want to know why Women keep become the symbol of fallen of Man, let's read what Allah told us all:

"Allah Wishes to lighten (the burden) for you; and Man was created weak (cannot be patient to leave sexual intercourse with Woman)" QS 04:28.

If you want to be honest, it is the reason why many of our sisters become wrong-doer. Or why Devil used woman form to seduce man. And why the most beautiful and humble Woman like Helen become the reason of the fallen of Troy. Because apparently, Man is weak in the name of sex, and Woman naturally is the greatest object of sex and desire for Man.

Our beauty that comes from your essence make us become hard to resist and then caused you making many mistakes as the result of your effort to reach us. Then some of you, driven by greed, seen this as a chance to get a benefit, by selling Women's beauty in disgusting ways, when they were supposed to be protecting them.

Now, do you still thinking that Woman is the symbol of chaos when you know (as Man) it is your own weaknesses that make you become so easy to be lure by Woman's form?

"And Wish not for the things in which Allah has made some of you to excels others. For Man there is reward for what they have earned, and (likewise) for woman there is reward for what they have earned, and ask Allah of his bounty. Surely Allah is all-knower of everything." QS 04:32.

Dear Brothers, as men, you should become Women's protector, not number one hater and punisher. I don't ask much. I want you to see sin as the burden and responsibility of the wrong-doers themselves, and not Women in general. This way, we don't have to see a few Men's Sins as Men's sins in general. Each of us only needs to take responsibility for our own behaviors and acts because we are a person. And not because as Man and Woman, we are a different kind of Human.

Come to us as our Husband, if you need a peaceful life and seek the love and tranquility like Allah had promised us. But don't ever come to us in your dirty desire and greed because it will become the reason of your fall. Then once again another Man will shout out loud His accuse that, 'This Man fall because of Woman.'

I hope Allah forgive you, for what you can't hold in your thoughts & words, everytime you see Woman.

Wassalamu Alaikum, Wr. Wb.