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The Life of Soraya M

Updated on November 22, 2010
I had sat to get comfortable to watch what I would expect to be another boring dramatized movie. A long, slow dragged out performance. Instead what I got was something horrific, haunting, and that will never leave the back of my mind of how MEN in the MUSLIM religion mistreat their women and still do today. An innocent woman who did no wrong, and was STONED to death, just because her husband wanted out of the marriage to marry a 14 year old woman, whom by the way he never did at all. The man was brutal, full of power, cruel, and in my own opinion, full of hatred towards women. He didn't and still doesn't even deserve to be part of a culture that exists today if you ask me. But there are men that exist as such this man, in this world , such per say, my second ex-husband, who abuse women to their advantage and power. The film itself disgraced me upon more of how I felt towards men in how women are treated in other cultures and religions. I discovered that in earlier history women were accused of being witches and would be burned at the stake of course. This same brutal chauvinism is common in tribal cultures that condone killing of women who bring dishonor to their families and clans. Unbelievable that it continues among fundamentalist Muslim's who insist that women cover their hair, faces, and bodies who subject little girls to genital mutilation. With that, this makes me sick.

In Muslim religion, there is a Law called Sharia Law. Muslims believe that this is GODS LAW. Sharia is a '"way" or "path", sacred law of Islam. But Sharia deals with different topics by the law, which includes crime, politics, economics, personal matters like sexuality, hygiene, diet, prayer and even fasting. In the film, you are approached by a small village of Muslims who are created by this SHARIA LAW. Mostly run by MEN, mind you, the women are always wrapped in cloths and hiding their faces, never to be seen except the eyes. I pay attention to details.

Soraya M. was born in 1951. She had met her husband Ghorban-Ali the very first time when she was only 5years old , and he was a merely 12. Years later, she was forced into marriage with him. Through the eyes of Soraya's Aunt Zahra, I saw a Muslim woman using her mind, conscience, and voice for long term good. Zahra is a fiercely devout Muslim woman who realizes her faith by facing up to the so called "men of religion". Her constant reference to "God" and ultimate justice symbolizes "true Islam", as opposed to the version followed by the men in the movie, whom by the way use the religion for their own selfish gains. I felt Zahra was portrayed as a fearless , strong woman. Both physically and spiritually as she declares that God is great after helping the Journalist escape with her story. Zahra is not afraid as I see in the movie, of authority , or even speaking up. She exposes the tragic story of her niece, Soraya to the world, not a move against Islam, but against MEN who misinterpret the religion to institutionalize cultural. Soraya, an innocent woman who is stoned to death because her husband merely suspected her of adultery as a cover up for his own disgusting motives, is also a strong willed and courageous. This is indeed a strong indictment against the hypocrisy and double standards displayed by some Muslim communities with regard to men and women.

As a condemnation of violence against women and a victim of domestic violence, this movie no doubt, quite affected and struck my nerves through the sitting and starring. The message of the film is quite clear and stoning is a terrible and horrific, unjust practice and often is still used against women today even when the woman in question has done nothing deserving of punishment. To which where the scene of stoning takes place is incredibly violent, disturbing for viewers and perhaps going too far as anyone would describe seeing this film. It blurs the line of moral outrage and exploitation and I admit I'm even surprised I continued on for as long as I did watching what had happened to Soraya. Some of the scenes in the film are excessively melodramatic, horrific, traumatizing , and quite violent for anyone to just sit there and watch if you ask me. It makes a mark on one and it surely has made a mark one me, which will never leave for the rest of my life. For myself, as a victim of violence, this was just unbelievable to know that women are portrayed to such violence in these cultures and treated this way today.

This compelling film draws attention to the global dimensions of hatred , persecution, executions to women. Some reports that at least of a 1,000 women have been stoned to death over the past 15 years in countries such as Iran, Nigeria, Somelia, Sudan, Pakistan, Iraq, United Arab, Emirates, and Afghanistan. The United Nations' estimate that usually about 5,000 of women every year, which includes here in the United States, are victims of the So called "honor-killings', in which family members kill a woman who has allegedly brought dishonor on them through acts dressing proactively or engaging in illicit sex. Such claims as this makes me sick to my stomach to know this still continues on today, and knowing that in the back of my mind, that this "ritual" of STONING people is still allowed in other countries, and cultures today. In the film, I did not understand really what Stoning was at first, until I watched the movie. Soraya M, is front of her people of the village, she is dressed all in white, as if she was being married, beautifully dressed for the day, with her brown dark hair loosely blowing in the wind. Her hands are tied behind her back with thick rope, and there is a big pit behind her where she is buried up to her waist in. At this point, all the men in the village, including her own children, which disgusts me, are allowed to throw stone rocks at her, including her OWN father. Her father, announcing he no longer knows her , is allowed to throw the first rock, and misses several times. Soraya's husband, the man who falsely accused her of this crime, picks up a rock and makes the first throw and succeeds to her head. The instant reaction of one seeing this, is just pure injustice, and makes one want to rip through the screen to break Soraya's husband's face apart. Minutes go by and Soraya's 2 boys are forced to throw rocks at their mother, which makes one want to cry in heartless tears. I can never imagine the thought of my own child throwing a stone at me in that disgrace.

In the end, the whole village of men are throwing stones at this poor woman until she is no longer breathing life itself. The film takes you into the gruesome scene of how it portrays of how Soraya had lived her life and had passed her last breath of life. It makes me disgusted to know that men in other cultures show no respect or loyalty to women and still don't today. I am only one woman, and though Soraya's story was told by French Iranian journalist Freidoune Shaebjam who had encountered the village when his car had broken down, this story deserves to be told as many times as it has to be told. It makes one think of how women are treated in different cultures, to different religions today. And for myself, as a victim of violence, I am disgusted and lack the interest of how men treat women in today's society.

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      EDMOND 

      13 months ago

      I can not belive that sick twisted people like that still live in this planet.great movie but made me sick watching.

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      zia 

      3 years ago

      In Pakistan no any women stoned yet .

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      zia 

      3 years ago

      In Pakistan no any women stoned yet .

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      pratik n 

      4 years ago

      Whether u decide to stone a woman after 2 or 5 or even 100 witnesses according to ur gosforsaken law... Its completely disturbing, horrific and against humanity... And whatever is against humanity should be eradicated from this earth... Whether its the law or the person following it...

      Stoning a woman is beyond shamelessness ... It is utter monstrosity... My heart weeps on soraya's story and on the untold stories of many like her ..while my fists clench in malevolent anger and disgust to rip apart the faces of the culprits involved..

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      Haydar 

      5 years ago

      First Forgive me for my week english , what i have readed is 50 % right and 50% wrong what people have done in that small village is not sharia low they just used the religion for their own benefits . in sharia law to stone a women you need 5 witnesses not only 2 and in sharia you cant stone a women for just a touch and a smile as whad happened with poor soraya , no one know anything about her children till now but the most says that they have been killed in action during iran-iraq war , and also malla hassan was killed , zahraa passed away after 2 years from the accident at the end as what did zahraa say to soraya please pray for us

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      Maureen 

      6 years ago

      And, they wonder why we think what we do of them. Seeing what they can do to their own innocent people, just shows how they could do what they did on 9/11. I'm sick over it - I agree above physically ill!

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      Willow 

      7 years ago

      I cried...It made me physically ill! And in truth she was buried up to her head. It was her husbands cousin who helped to convict her. I too, would love to know if anything became of her husband? But, I am most certain he was left untouched. Yay, for her Aunt and the gods know if I ever got to meet this man, I would kick his ASS!!

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      Kathy 

      7 years ago

      I just watched that movie last week and it is so horrible what they did to that woman. They have no idea of any meaning of love. I wonder if the husband ever got tried for illegally accusing her and also I wonder when they will come out of their caves and realize that compasion and love, NOT hate, are the real test of what makea us human and civilized.

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