We visit family as their are about 5 couples we intend to visit not all in one go because of health issues. It's a 6hr round trip for each couple but once a year isn't enough for some and some miss out. My parents have been selfish towards family members of which I've pointed out. My Family are busy with work and sport like us but I'm into firefighting in the summer. My family try to put the blame on us for being to busy but they do the same to us. My Family say - what's more important to us and we say Family but they never return the favour until it suites them. Ticks me off very much.