Finding The Lingerie Within
Sometimes its not possible to wear the lingerie you love. Sometimes your lingerie is locked inside a lead lined safe and you've lost the combination. Sometimes your lingerie is locked away behind a disapproving spouse and you can't remember her combination either. Sometimes you are forced to run shirtless down the beach in slow motion for a deodorant commercial in which lingerie would be an unwelcome distraction. There are plenty of times in our lives when wearing lingerie, however desirable, is just not practical.
For those times, one is wise to
discover the lingerie within. All outer lingerie is after all,
nothing but the physical manifestation of the lingerie felt deep
inside oneself. Men in particular often have a primal connection to
their inner lingerie, which is why they find it so very difficult to
give up physical lingerie even when forced to.
But what is the lingerie within? Is it a Victoria's Secret bra accidentally stitched into your chest cavity by a careless surgeon? One hopes not. The inner lingerie I speak of is the affinity with a delicate femininity that is best expressed through delicate and feminine fabrics like satin and lace and silk and microfiber and nylon, we must not forget nylon.
All lingerie is merely an extension of the wish to feel free and light and feminine. Unless of course, it's not. If you simply like women's lingerie because it is easier to pack flat and takes up less space in your manly man pack when you parachute into foreign lands in search of fortune, then this article may not apply to you. But for men who like to feel feminine in their lingerie, who like to feel beautiful when adorned by pretty things, lingerie really is an outward expression of an inner desire.
If you find your inner lingerie and connect with it, you can have the feeling of lingerie, the mental rush, without wearing any lingerie at all. Visualize your inner lingerie. Picture how pretty the lingerie is that describes your soul yearnings. It is far more beautiful, lighter, more perfect than any lingerie spun from a silk worm's anus, and even better, it never gets torn in the wash and it can never be taken away from you. No disapproving glare, no night on the couch, no dire threats of rejection can take away the lingerie that abides with you in your heart.
It's wonderful to buy and wear real world lingerie, but real world lingerie fades and becomes stained and saggy, it is subject to the rigors of time and the judgment of those close to you. Your inner lingerie however never needs laundering and is always perfectly smooth and scented to perfect. Your inner lingerie can never be thrown away in a purge, or snapped up for a bargain price in a binge. Remember your inner lingerie for it is always with you, and it may very well be what gets you through the dark times when worldly lingerie fails you.