Does she worth being forgiven?

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   pharuk temmy tposted 12 years ago

   This is somebody I love and claims she loves me too.we have been in arelationship for a long time, more than 4yrs.she had hurt me a countless times and I have told her off so many times after she had hurt me so bad.I decided to leave her and go into another relationship which I did.The first time I did,she pleaded for forgiveness which I did forgave her and left the girl I was dating with no reasonable excuse because I thought she had changed,samething happened the second time and I left the second girl,and now the third time. I made up my mind that I will never forgive her this time and she keeps calling and texting everyday asking me to forgive her for the last time,eventhough I have vowed never to take her back,I still ask myself does she still deserves me?

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      SomewayOuttaHereposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      ...dump her....move on....sounds like that 'long time' has not been a fun time, yeah?...life's too short

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      alisha4uposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Remember Pharuk, " Not every ex that comes back loves you; some just test the level of your stupidity...
      
      I think you have given enough chances to her...she doesn;t deserve any more.. It;s understandable to forgive someone, once or twice, but this time I can see the water flowing out of the well..
      
      It's hight time !!

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      subtalkposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      She don't deserve you,time to clear this uneasy relationship-- nothing won't change its a pattern where she playing with your weakness ,do what best for you in the end all you have is you. .

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   pharuk temmy tposted 12 years ago

   Thank you so much somewayoutahere.I so much appreciate your comment.Yes that long time wasn't a fun at all. Thank you so much

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      SomewayOuttaHereposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      your welcome...just go with what your brain tells you...take the plunge...it might feel cold, but, not for long...you already know the answer....later, bring your heart back into the picture...

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   pharuk temmy tposted 12 years ago

   Alisha, I thank you so much for your contribution... Afterall you are a lady like her, I have given more than enough chances before I decided that no more chances and she keeps begging me day by day and making me feel guilty. There is no going back from my decision. I remember not all ex that comes back loves you.

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      alisha4uposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Great that you remember that...
      
      Hey, I am sorry, But i didn't get that part "Afterall you are a lady like her" ??

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