once, maybe... three times? save yourself the hurt and move on
lol , surely you jest. i wouldn't forgive her after the first time. i don't even forgive the fool that stayed with her after the 2nd time for being stupid.
Why would you? The person who needs to be forgiven is the one who keeps putting themself in the same position to be hurt over and over again. You have to love yourself enough to walk away from toxic people.
Interesting question-I would have to ask myself a lot of questions if after being cheated on twice I was still with the cheater. It's hard enough to get past the first infidelity, but to add two more transgressions to the list would be a bit hard to swallow. Clearly the person is not interested in a monogamous relationship. There would have to be some really, really good reasons to stay and try to work it out.
Why you want to forgive her?When you say 3 times you mean ,3 times a week? a year or 20 years?If you have a sexual problem and you can not make sex then maybe she can make sex with others but not 3 times in the same week...dont forgive her then.
She can be forgiven, but the man in the relationship with her needs to move own. She either doesn't care about him or has some other issues that are dominating her behavior. Forgiving a person in this situation doesn't mean that you have to stay with them. Forgiving is merely going on with your life without letting the anger and hurt bog you down.
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